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Eleanor, 39

United States, Minnesota, Hutchinson

Offline, last seen Sun, 25 Oct 2026 06:01:58

About Me

A woman on a mission! Always on the go, somewhere to be! I love my career and the company I am blessed to be a part of! I have two amazing son's and an fun group of friends that keep me busy. I hardly enough time to keep up with it all. I amaze myself sometimes that I am able to balance everything! But I wouldnt have it any other way, I hate to sit idle! I love my family, my sons are my world, they inspire me and make them proud everyday! They are the reason I get up in the morning and what motivates me to work so hard to improve myself. I hope to give them the confidence to accomplish whatever they want in life. And it makes me feel so good that they are proud of me and respect me so much! Funny their friends think I am the best mom too! LOLI take pride in everything I do, it makes no sense spending time doing something if you are not going to do it right! When I was young I was taught to do it right the first time, then you will not have to do it again. I learn from my mistakes as well as the mistakes of others. I hate excuses, and don't make them, if I screw up I will admit it, try to resolve it and learn from it, making the same error over and over is a waste of time. And the phrase I'm sorry gets old when you hear it all the time, if you dont mess up there would be nothing to apologize for! A bit OCD, I am very organized and like my life that way, I appreciate nice things and work for what I have, so I make extra efforts to take care of what I have. Cleaning is my therapy, when stressed clean.LOLI am in the process of meeting new people, life is too short to be alone, and how can you party alone? :( Thats just Sad and life is too short to be Sad! But I also love the beach, I have been in NC for 16 year and visit the beach as much as possible in the summer! I love to travel and have been to several amazing places, but still have a bucket list that I WILL see! And of course shopping, nice classy clothes and SHOES! But not so high maintenance I need a day at the Spa all the time! So I am an interesting woman who appreciates the beauty in many things, But dont get me wrong I can hang with the guys, Paintball anyone??My intimate side enjoys watching NFL football in bed, especially a rainy day, making a nice dinner and having someone to share it with. Maybe someday I will find someone special enough to do that with! And if you say whasup beautiful you will NOT get a reply, sorry guys looking for more! If you are looking for a MILF, you looked at the wrong profile I am not a MILF! I am a smart, successful, classy woman with knowledge and life experience! I hate drama and if you need a mommy, not interested! I already have two sons and am looking for a MAN not a BOY, so if you are younger than 30 please do not send a message,Just keeping it real and am getting tired of the craziest messages! A great first date would be spending an afternoon in a park, nature preserve or Zoo and walk and talk. Have some lunch or a drinkl and if it goes well then have a second date :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hardcore R&B Chinese English Korean Action Comedy Mystery
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