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Soila, 40
United States, Minnesota, Hopkins

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About Me

I am back after apparently being deleted for some unknown reason..I am gonna give this another shot but recently this site has gotten really shady, with fake people and profiles..I am a single mother of 3 kids and I have a grandson. I have a 20 year old son who has a son who will be 2 years old in November ***. I have a 16 year old daughter and a 14 year old son. My kids are my world and come first before myself or anything else so let's get that out there up front. With that being said they are not babies so I can usually go out with little to no difficulty. I just will not blow them off if they need me or are involved with something that I need to attend. I love spending time with my family and friends. One now lives in Germany and the other I see almost every day.I listen to all kinds of music. I love to dance, write poetry (I have actually had 2 poems published), scrapbook, read, travel, hang out with friends, go to wine tasting and visit wineries, love movies both going and just curl up and watch them at home. I love going to the beach it is my peaceful place. Sitting on the beach at sunset with a drink, my toes in the cool sand and smelling the ocean air and listening to the waves....Don't be a player cause I'llshut you down with a quickness. I don't play games. surprise me

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

American Indonesian Action Drama Family & Kids Martial Arts Baseball
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    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    The last few relationships have been a joke. i think if your in a relationship that dont have trust. you dont have a healthy relationship. if you dont have a healthy relationship. you have nothing worth fighting for. I am single mom was married for over 10 years. I have been single for over a year. Im not looking for one night thing. I can have that any night. I am looking for a down to earth man that knows what he wants. i just cant seem to find him. so for now im just looking for a friend. than we can see where it goes from there. I enjoy outside events like beach camping fishing or just chilling cookingout with friends and family. i dont drink often so when i do i enjoy it. I am a very peaceful person. we will talk about it.

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