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Bettina, 38

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About Me

Will all the nice guys please stand up !!! Is anyone else tired of being on a dating website?!?!Who am I ?? Well I am just your average woman. I am a mom of 2 (age 11 and 13 and both play soccer) and they are my life. I work full time and I am a mom full time as well … so I am a busy lady. I was on this site about a year ago .. so yes, if you were also, you might have seen me or there is a chance we may have chatted. Let’ I moved to the So Bay in ***and fell in love with the area … and have been here ever since. I come from a good family and I have strong family values. I am a bit shy until you get to know me, you can always tell, because I talk SUPER fast. So first phones call or first hangouts .. you may have to try and keep up with what I am saying or just ask me to slow down. lol I don’t need, want or have time for games or drama. I am really a spunky type of woman with a silly fun nature about me and most anyone you ask, would tell you I am that kind hearted, sweet, loving, cuddle type of woman with all of the best intentions for everything I do. Of course then there is the not so good qualities … I tend to be a tad stubborn and I am so accident prone it s scary. Do I trip over my own feet or street curbs on occasion ? Ummm YES =/ but I fall with style =)I am a relationship/commitment girl … so dating is new to me and I am just going to learn as I go. I have my life together and I’ Cali nights … I would love to find someone someday to build a life with. If you want to know more just shoot me a message and ask …. Couple of things :Please dont message me if :You are not serious and are just looking for fun If your not at least in the over 30 clubIf you have more then 2 shirtless bathroom self portraits of yourself on your profile (cmon now - tacky) Casual, just light, fun and easy. Lets not interview eachother ... just wanna see if there is a spark =) (haha YES I am one of those girls who believes in the spark) !!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Day

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Hi Everyone!Not sure what to write in here... The size of this or any box seems not enough to describe who I am and what I am looking for in a partner.A few random thoughts, would probably describe me best than any list of likes and dislikes... while leaving upon you the excitement of the discovery! ;) And I know how much you guys like that, and I also know that I deserve brownie points for this! :DBesides I think, that likes are subject to change as we evolve and grow through life. Who you are is what really matters and shall never change.If the latter changes, let me know... I'll redirect you automatically to the next profile. The chick "next door" looooooves crazy!!! LOL (But not kidding.. And if you can fluctuate in between extremes you’re very intelligent I think… and complete. MAGICAL is probably the term that best describes the man I am looking for.Non-smoker is fine as I am trying to quit... :))Dog Lover is NOT a must... but not a Dog Hater IS!!!I am not a big fan of internet dating, it is not me at all... But I was also told not to put all my eggs in one basket, so I thought I’d drop a few in the “Pond” and see what happens… :)I am not complicated, and the small things in life are the ones that make me happy! When it comes to dating and relationships, my Philosophy is well summarized in this quote of one of my favourite thinkers:“Every man carries within himself the eternal image of woman, not the image of this or that particular woman, but a definite feminine image. This image is fundamentally unconscious, a hereditary factor of primordial origin.”Carl Gustav Jung.In simple words: When it feels right(for both...) then it is!It all comes down to chemistry in the end.. and attraction is a must. A first date with somebody met online shouldn't even be called such, but rather a First Meet.And I would keep that very casual and simple.. just to get a feel of each other. Coffee or a few drinks, and if there's a spark, we'll take it from there and schedule a First Date. :)PS: ** I DON'T HAVE AN EXTENDED PROFILE... THAT'S BS!!! **

  • Ozell

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    ! I am looking to make friends and potentially find a serious relationship later on. I have been separated for two years although we remain friends. I have two children and two spoiled, hyper dogs, a viszla and a whippet. I enjoy biking, horseback riding, and working out at my gym. Not much of a runner, unfortunately. My favorite reads are biographies, historical fiction, and psychology, (specifically neuroscience and mindfulness). I have an AA in Arabic, a BS in BS, and an MA in forensic psych. I spent eight years in the Army, where I learned a lot and met some great people. I workout 6 days/week but I'm not a fitness fanatic. I love meeting new people. It's like an adventure! I am happy and optimistic and have a reputation for being funny, laid back, very hard to anger, and comfortable in any situation.What's important? Education, sense of humor, manners on the road and with waitstaff, financial responsibility, healthy lifestyle, optimism, open to new things/ideas, cognitive/emotional awareness and self-direction. (That's to say, not a "victim" of others or circumstances.) It's always great to be able to do some gut-busting laughing! My next missions are bar trivia in DTC, Comedy Works, and butchering my swing at the driving range. Then there are all the great restaurants and rooftop bars left to try. Want to join me? Whatever! Coffee at Dazbog? Drinks at Shanahan's?

  • Christa

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I enjoy being outdoors. I love taking walks and it is so nice being outside when the moon is shining bright.I love country dancing, gardening, canning, horse riding, fishing, reading, and spending time with people I care about, and i can't leave out that i love the beach. I enjoy going to church. I am very easy going. I am a spontaneous person. I don't believe everything has to be planned.I love deciding to go somewhere sometimes with my guy and just do it. I love talking to people, so the man for me has to be willing to talk to me , and listen to me. I am looking for a real man that is not looking to get just that one thing.. I want a man that is not a slouch, and works. I want someone who is not a grouch, and that does not think everything in life has to be planned and perfect. I have had both. I work hard for the things i have and i don't need a user. I love life and living. It does not take a lot to make me happy. I like to joke" be silly, and laugh. I know there are times to be serious but people can make the best of any situation. Just need some TLC. Meeting for soda or coffee. Somewhere quiet so we can talk to see if we are compatible.

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