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Lynn, 39
United States, Minnesota, Hastings

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About Me

I am checking out what's out there....;) it appears that there are a lot good catches, and hopefully I am not reading too much into what is said. It gives me hope to believe that there are good guys out there.....and hopefully I can meet one, and see where it goes. I am 39, single and looking for something serious. I would like to start slow, but hopefully connect with a mature, respectful, funny, honest, intelligent, loyal man. Is that too much to ask for??? I am not looking for someone to take care of me, but someone to spend quality time with, and start a new life together.I moved to NC over five years ago from CA, and have made some really good friends, finally, however, they are all married. I am tired of being the third, or five wheel. I am finally at a place in my life, that I feel confident that there is someone out there for me. I am ready to take the next step, and put myself out there, and take a chance. Internet dating seems the easiest way these days, to connect, with singles.I work full time Monday through Friday. I work out at the gym a lot, and am a work in progress. I also work out with a personal trainer at least 2 days a week. I am dedicated to getting in better shape, and having fun learning new active ways to get there. I enjoy playing baseball/softball, basketball, as well as watching on tv and live. I enjoy all kinds of music, and am starting to even like a little country. lol. I am kindhearted, smart, funny, loyal, honest, and respectful. I treat people the way I would like to be treated. I was taught, if you don't have anything nice to say, then don't say anything at all. I am a positive person, and want to be surrounded by positive people and attitudes.If you are at all interested, and have more questions, let me know...I look forward to hearing from you. If this has not intriqued you, I wish you all the best, hope you find what you are looking for! something casual, and see if there is a connection.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am very happy within.. ready to share that with another.. I like most every type of music... I am very independent.. and love life to the fullest. I want to be with someone that is very happy and positive.. Who wants to live this life with someone that they can love forever.. Someone that doesn't look at a relationship as temporary . I am a veteran. And proud to have served . I love my job!! I have been a widow for 9 years. I have wonderful children 19, 17, and 9.. I am very open minded about life and living it to the fullest. I own my own home.. Cars .. And am not looking for a hand out. But looking for my best friend and an equal to play in this game called life.. Someone that wants to spend time with me and take on challenges in life together. Someone that knows the meaning of Live, Love, and Laugh.. And wants that with someone. !! I like to hunt, fish, and the outdoors!! Yes I have my own hunting gear... ;-) I like to be spontaneous! Love life!! Let's find a place to chat.. Get to enjoy each others company!!

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    Phemie

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    FunnyEasygoing (sort of :) )Like to experience new things and places. Love sarcasm. You need to laugh at all the things that god throws on your lap or you'll end up in a padded room. :) I hate writing about myself so if you want to know something about me you will have to ask. I look forward to hearing from you :) DinnerDrinks Good conversation Pretty much anything but coffee :)

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  • Margaretta from Hastings | Woman | 40 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I'm rather shy at first, but get me laughing and we'll have fun. I'm a lot geeky and sometimes a little nerdy. By day, I'm a software support specialist working remotely for a software company in DC. At night, I enjoy the company of good friends while debating the latest comic books, geeky TV series / movies, or just hunkering down around a table for game night. When I'm not hanging with friends, I might be challenging a new computer game or diving deep into a new book.I've recently started exploring the fabulously analog task of Knitting / Crocheting which has been an interesting departure from my usually high tech fueled life. I'd also like to spend more time in nature and have a plan to hit up the local parks for some weekend meanders through the woods which will be nice after spending the week cooped up inside in front of a computer. Maybe you'd like to join me? :)The only absolute criteria I have is that you have to be a NON-SMOKER. I have allergies which go crazy around smokers. Otherwise, I would like to find someone who is okay with me being me. I have a quirky sense of humor which sometimes borders on inappropriate - but I definitely love to laugh. I'm also something of a romantic, so it doesn't hurt if the person is willing to indulge me with romantic gestures every now and then :) They don't have to be expensive or grand gestures either - a little note or just some way to let me know you're thinking of me. Maybe Shakespeare in the Park or a barbecue. Nothing too fancy or over the top. A picnic lunch while enjoying the outdoors and having a good conversation would also be nice.

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