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Elle, 40

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About Me

Hi there.I am a smart, sexy, passionate and creative writer looking to get started on the next chapter of my life. I am a New Englander at heart -- Most of my time is spent working - I write fiction and nonfiction, and I am working on a book. To pay the bills, I write website copy, blogs and articles for small businesses and nonprofit groups. I love being self employed and I'm pretty sure I could never have a "normal" job ever again. I have an eight-year-old daughter who is silly, bright and energetic. You will notice my sarcastic sense of humor, passion for shoes and constant desire to travel. Whether it's just a weekend away or a two week trip to Europe, I always feel the need to plan a trip somewhere. I love to cook, take long walks and talk politics. I am very rarely bored.Looking for a smart, stable man with a vision for the future and the ability to make me laugh. Hoping for a grown up who is emotionally healthy, honest and lots and lots of fun. A romantic streak wouldn't be so bad either. :-) My ideal first date? A mutual feeling that the evening is passing too quickly and an intense desire to see each other again.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Noelle

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I would like to meet new people who share common interests. I love to be outdoors and see the ocean every chance I get. I love anything to do with water. Kayaking, boating, sitting on a dock, swimming. It heals me. I enjoy live music, mostly folk and bluegrass and classic rock. I think I was born a generation too late. I love to look over the water from a boat, dock or bank. I make stained glass windows as a hobby and would like to get into wood working. I work hard and don't mind getting dirty. I laugh loud and often and I'm a very positive person. I like who I am. I enjoy fine dining and backyard grilling. I love to travel and enjoy doing so alone just as much as with friends. I'm very simple. The person I would like to spend time with would have to be positive, confident, funny, genuine and intelligent. I'm extremely honest (brutally so). I appreciate kindness, laughter, natural beauty and inappropriate humor. I gave birth to my first biological child in November 08. I'm professional, stable, own my own home and capable of being a single mother. I'm not daddy shopping, but to date me is a package deal. The father is not in the picture so no baby daddy drama here.I would love to meet someone to be a best friend and a lover. I've been single for almost 6 years and have my life in order. I have a stable job that I love, own my home, have amazing friends that are family. I love my children. All the emotional baggage that some singles have... I don't. I don't hold the wrong doings of others against someone new. I want to meet someone who is emotionally secure and stable. If you still have issues from your divorce, still can't trust or don't have it in you to be honest in all situations then don't contact me. If I like you, you will know it and I will show it in many ways. I'm secure and confident with who I am and too old to waste time chasing someone who won't stop and embrace me. If you require dramatic women, damsel in distress types or women who need you to fix their lives, I'm not your girl. If you want someone to be an equal, a partner, a best friend and strong then well, you might just like me. Not much of a going to the movies type of gal. I would rather go for a ride in the country or sit and watch the sky change.

  • Marlin

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Lets see here. I'm a pretty laid back kind of gal. I have an odd sense of humor (I find the strangest stuff funny but I can be serious when it is appropriate). I love my job as a ***dispatcher, work 2nd shift and don't always have a Mon-Fri schedule. (So yes, I do work for a police department, no I'm not a cop, can't associate with convicted felons and I am NOT ***friendly, if you are sorry, keep looking.) I'm really hoping to find a down to earth guy that doesn't thrive on drama (I hear enough of that at work.) My career doesn't make things easy on finding nice guys, but I'm not big on the bar scene and can be somewhat shy until I get to know someone. I prefer to be friends first and get to know one another then maybe meet and develop a relationship. Send me a message or IM if you want to know more about me :-) Something simple to see if we "click", then maybe hit a pub for a pint.

  • Barbar

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    tall, full figured, independant, good natured, fun, out going girl who doesnt want or need drama, doesnt play games......Ive had enough of the frogs! a drink, coffee, lunch, walk on the beach, go carting, ten pin bowling, hot air ballooning!! Whatever works!

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