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Joycelyn, 40
United States, Minnesota, Hastings

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About Me

Starting a new chapter in my life and would love to find someone to share it with. I’m not interested in just a sex partner, sexting, or one night stands. If that is how you intend to start the conversation please move on. I’m not a prude but I'm not into starting a friendship based on sex. I'm looking for a man who shares my views on love, family morals and friends and is ready for all of it to begin, and who is truly looking for their lifelong partner and not looking to play around. Sense of humor, intelligence, authenticity is a plus. I think commutation is the key to a healthy relationship. You are curious about the world around you. You can take a joke and are not easily offended. You can spell, and are generally happy and you don’t depend on someone to make your life happy. The rest is negotiable. No Pressure! Let's just relax...become friends & get to know each other... and see what happens. Laughing is essential. A little bit about myself: I’m sarcastic and silly and like to joke around and I have a great sense of humor. I’m not offended by a dirty joke and can dish it out on my own. Sarcasm is a spice of life, so bring it on. I have a down to earth attitude, values, and personality. I can dress up or down but I'm kinda a ball cap and jeans girl. I’m not perfect and I’m not Barbie doll grown I’m authentic and honest and I tell it like it is. My life adventures have made me wise to the world and I’m very open minded and opinionated. I'm considered a very generous person in all aspects of my life especially in friendship, family and love. I've been told that I'm smart, beautiful and sensitive, although I also tend to be a bit modest too. I am self-sufficient; I’m not dependent on someone to support me. I have my own tools and pretty much can do anything I put my mind too. My daddy taught me well. I know how to speak my mind. I enjoy going new places and I’m adventurous to try new things. I’m looking for someone who will introduce me to new things, adore (or put up with) my wacky moods and keep me in line. I like all types of music and movies and I enjoy concerts. I enjoy travel, gardening, home decorating, Comedy Clubs & Dinner Theater, music, my dog, & celebrating special occasions.I need someone who is a challenge emotionally and physically and is willing to give in a relationship as much as getting. A man who ONLY has eyes for me & can make me laugh are important qualities! I'd rather be with a guy who has big dreams and no money than a guy with no dreams and big money. I must admit, I like a bit of a bad boy -- not an awful, I'm-going-to-treat-you-like-crap kind of guy, but someone who's going to push me to my limits and then pull back with a warm hug at the last minute. Truth is, I'm just a nice girl (most of the time) who's looking for some fun and companionship (not necessarily in that order). I love funny guys who can hold me spellbound with a story or make me laugh until I cry. I also love creativity and passion. Maybe it's your love of '80s movies, your baseball card collection or the fact that you moved across country with only a duffel bag -- it doesn't matter. The right man not only fascinates me but also brings out the best in me. We push each other to be the greatest people we can be. We bolster each other's egos and we leave short, thoughtful love messages for each other when we're away. If you're comfortable in your own skin, have a strong sense of self and aren't afraid to expose your flaws, I'm sure we'll get along just fine. I can offer a reward of lifetime devotion, long, slow kisses that last for days, offers a shoulder to lean on, someone who will hold you at night and a partner that loves to cook. What’s your story? What are your greatest pet-peeves and what makes you weak in your knees from joy and happiness.” Well, that is a little about me if you are interested say hello and we will chat. Talk to you soon!!” I don’t think it matters what we do on a first date, and I am a big fan of simplicity, so a coffee and walk would be just fine.”

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Cooking Indian Indonesian Italian Thai Crime Drama Sci-Fi War Ice Hockey
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