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United States, Minnesota, Brainerd

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About Me

Hi, I'm Holli Jay and I'm brand spanky new at this! I've got a 6-year-old who keeps me on my toes at all times and kind of puts the kibosh on the old social life...it's cool, though. I still like her. I'm a shameless music junkie (but NO country!) with a strong affinity for metaaaaaal....! I'm also a dynamo cook, which is my second chosen vocation...right behind rock star. In my own head, anyway. It is also important that you know I'm a slave to Netflix, meaning I don't get out much and I'm a movie/TV snob (what?). I'd rather kick it at home with a good movie, a fat doob, and good food than go out and spend a ridiculous amount of money to rub shoulders with a bunch of sweaty drunk strangers. No thanks. Right now I'm just kind of looking to hang out with some righteous dude with potential for something more. Oh! And sense of humor is must-have! No Debbie Downers allowed! :^D Christ, what's a date?! I honestly don't remember the last time I went 'on a date.' Sounds awkward.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Middle Eastern Turkish Rodeo
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