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Refugio, 46
United States, Michigan, Yale

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About Me

Like most in our 40’s... I’.. lived fast and loved hard... worked too much and slept too little... and still have a soft spot for 80’s rock ballads. These days I enjoy the quieter side of life… the scent of the flowers when working in the garden, watching the dog roll in the snow when I talk her for a stroll, swaying to some sultry blues, sharing conversation over coffee or a glass of wine. Keeping balance between work, personal interests, friends and family is important to me. I’m a professional with a range of interests... riding my motorcycle and attending the ballet are two of my favourites. The early chapters were all about the quest for strength, wisdom and independence… so I’ve learned to be handy on the tools and renovated my own home… rode horseback in the mountains and my Harley across the country, relocated for work and spent some years having more coffee than sleep… loved, laughed and cried along the way and wrote a book of poetry about it. I’d like to share the next chapters with a partner... laughing until our eyes water… Sunday morning coffee… reading in the front of the fire… dancing to slow music… strolling at sunset… holding hands… intense kisses… getting lost in your eyes.I enjoy the company of people who are genuine. I value loyalty, honesty, integrity, a strong work ethic and appreciate a great sense of humour. Physical affection, chemistry, confidence, personal appearance and how you handle yourself matter to me. I’m equally comfortable in the little black dress or boots and jeans...the occasion helps decide the dress code. I can be serious and I love to laugh often…a riotous sense of humour that fluctuates from dry to sexual innuendo. I enjoy a glass of red wine or a cold beer (in the bottle). I’m comfortable in my own skin... moving through life to the beat of my own drum... creative... passionate... confident... hard working... motivated... sensitive... kind hearted... independent... direct... communicative... far from perfect... a bit of a pistol... genuine and caring... is who I am.I’m looking for the same... an equal with passion and a genuine heart to share and experience the simple pleasures in life. If you’re interested, please drop me a line and good luck in your search.PS I'm attracted to guys who are taller. I'm 5'8" and stand almost 6' when I'm in heels, which I wear often. Coffee and a chat are easy. Chemistry and humour are as important as the interests and intellect so it really takes having a conversation in person to gauge the attraction.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Who doesn't want to walk into the sunset holding hands when you are 80? Hoping to get one step closer to that dream. I enjoy spending time with someone that has a zest for life and just takes life day by day with little drama. Try to be as healthy and active as one can be in these busy times. Not scared to try some different adventures. Life is to short to be stuck in that box. Must send picture!!!!

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  • Cari from Yale | Woman | 50 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Just to put this out there, I'm real - not a bot-generated pseudo sexpot trying to stick your computer with some of the e-virus. I'm sick of dating selfish, non-caring, insipid, ungrateful losers. I'm not going to give you the schpiel like other ads saying that "OMG I NEED A REEEALL MAAN WHO CAN TAKE CARE OF MEEE". I've dated girls before. That means I've been on your side of this whole "relationship" thing. I am not going to try and imprison you with my compulsive girly insecurities. I'm not going to make you stop hanging out with your friends or prevent you from going to shows or strip clubs. I won't even tell you to stop guzzling your favorite beer or to put the weed down long enough to have a coherent conversation. And I'm certainly not going to vent about it to my other friends behind your back (unless you fail to share said the weed with me.) I do have visible tattoos. If this is a problem....don't contact me just to tell me you hate them I don't care! I don't like dating someone that can't seem to have a conversation for a few minutes without checking his cell or is constantly looking around. PAY ATTENTION! Please have a RECENT picture not one of 10 years ago when you had hair! I have a few quirks about hair and shoes.....I also love going to concerts. Lemmy IS the last great rock god! If you know that as the truth we are made for each other! Just because I like to hit rock shows and loves me some Lemmy....doesn't mean I am a total party girl. I am home more often than not! Maybe you can change that?It would help if you have a dog or at least a dog person as my dog Izzy Sixx really is my best friend! I am willing to move if I find the right person...REALLY! Open to almost anywhere!!! Welcome the adventure! Lets just go to Vegas and get married....we can spend the rest of our lives getting to know each other! :) Or a sleazy rock show is always good too. ;)

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  • Herma from Yale | Woman | 46 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am hesitant that this is the way to find someone, but it seems like everyone is doing it. Online dating.....not somewhere I thought I'd be at my age, but here I am. I am a down to earth girl who enjoys friends and family. I am looking for someone who likes to laugh, is secure and stable in their life, and can truly appreciate and love me. Strong chemistry and a real connection are important and probably mean the most to me. If you are interested (and are not dealing with more baggage than you can carry), please drop me a line. Best of luck to you.**Do not contact me if you do not have a picture. I have mine visible and expect the same in return. Thanks.

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