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Like most in our 40’s... I’.. lived fast and loved hard... worked too much and slept too little... and still have a soft spot for 80’s rock ballads. These days I enjoy the quieter side of life… the scent of the flowers when working in the garden, watching the dog roll in the snow when I talk her for a stroll, swaying to some sultry blues, sharing conversation over coffee or a glass of wine. Keeping balance between work, personal interests, friends and family is important to me. I’m a professional with a range of interests... riding my motorcycle and attending the ballet are two of my favourites. The early chapters were all about the quest for strength, wisdom and independence… so I’ve learned to be handy on the tools and renovated my own home… rode horseback in the mountains and my Harley across the country, relocated for work and spent some years having more coffee than sleep… loved, laughed and cried along the way and wrote a book of poetry about it. I’d like to share the next chapters with a partner... laughing until our eyes water… Sunday morning coffee… reading in the front of the fire… dancing to slow music… strolling at sunset… holding hands… intense kisses… getting lost in your eyes.I enjoy the company of people who are genuine. I value loyalty, honesty, integrity, a strong work ethic and appreciate a great sense of humour. Physical affection, chemistry, confidence, personal appearance and how you handle yourself matter to me. I’m equally comfortable in the little black dress or boots and jeans...the occasion helps decide the dress code. I can be serious and I love to laugh often…a riotous sense of humour that fluctuates from dry to sexual innuendo. I enjoy a glass of red wine or a cold beer (in the bottle). I’m comfortable in my own skin... moving through life to the beat of my own drum... creative... passionate... confident... hard working... motivated... sensitive... kind hearted... independent... direct... communicative... far from perfect... a bit of a pistol... genuine and caring... is who I am.I’m looking for the same... an equal with passion and a genuine heart to share and experience the simple pleasures in life. If you’re interested, please drop me a line and good luck in your search.PS I'm attracted to guys who are taller. I'm 5'8" and stand almost 6' when I'm in heels, which I wear often. Coffee and a chat are easy. Chemistry and humour are as important as the interests and intellect so it really takes having a conversation in person to gauge the attraction.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Margrett

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I’m a fun loving, outgoing, adventurous, spontaneous, down to earth girl. I believe in kindness, generosity and in having a positive outlook. I really feel that being happy & optimistic are extremely important in getting anywhere in life. I enjoy traveling, meeting new people, experiencing different cultures & have traveled to many parts of the world.... usually alone with just my backpack. My last trip was to Europe where I ventured to nine countries and ***cities & towns in 25 days!!! WhOooOoosh... that was an awesome APA (Action Packed Adventure:) & Europe was never the same. Lol :D I looOOoove music, dancing, photography, nature & animals. I take ballroom dance class & I have recently started snowboarding, kayaking & rock climbing. I suppose I will try almost (I said "almost") anything at least once:) OoOh & 'car dancing' rocKs & roLLs in a BiG way!! ;p I'm looking for an easy going guy. Somebody who is kind, active, adventurous & optimistic. It's also important to have a great sense of humor & hopefully you can make me laugh until my belly hurts :) Honesty and sincerity go a long way, too!! I'm hoping to meet someone who shares my passion for life & wants to spend life playing, having fun, exploring this big, beautiful world & experience new adventures together.If you think we could be a match, please send me a message. Also, please have pictures to contact me or at least be willing to provide them. It's only fair that if you can see me, then I should be able to see you, too. =)* There will always be a reason why you meet people. Either yOu need them to change your life or you are the one that will change their life * Live Free & ride the eneRgy of your own unique spirit * Open your heart & yoUr mind & let LiFe in * YOU are beaUtiful & amazing * Change the world with your smiLe but never ever let the world change your smile * Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive & well preserved body but rather to skid in sideways with a glass of vino in one hand & dark chocolate in the other... the body thoroughly used up & totally worn out & screaming "WoOOOooHOOooo... What an aweSome Ride!!" * Drench yourself in words unspoken, LiVe your Life with arms wide open, today is where your book begins, the rest is still unWritten * *** ViDaNamaste :) It's never the place or what you do. It's the person you're with that makes the difference.WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason - you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal pursuit and ramifications. Other members may want to consider posting a similar notice.

  • Aureole

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am into all kinds af water sports. My hobbies are watching football,swimming,boating,fishing, bowling and so much more. I was married for 23 years and recently became a widow so commitment is not a problem for me. I love all kinds of music from big band to the eightys. I am a low stress person who loves life but hates drama.I recently rode on a motorcycle for the first time and loved it. I am spontanious and am up for adventure. I would like to go to a nice dinner and go for a walk afterwords and get to know the other persons likes and dislikes.

  • Sally

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Back for another try .... been gone for the last 18 months but now I'm back.Will update the old profile below at some point but most of it still stands.New Year ... New profileWell here we go again ... they say third time is the charm. First profile was to short, second to long ... let me know if I get it perfect this time?Who I am:Young, smart, funny, honest, loyal, independant girl. Romantic at heart ... candle light ... soft touches ... deep meaningful connections. My life has been pretty quiet lately and I am looking to change that. I am trying new things (like yoga) but really hate doing things alone. So don't worry if our interests are not the same since I am looking to try new things. Life is to short to not take chances ... say what you mean and mean what you say.Face your fears because some of the best thrills are found hiding behind what scares you the most. Get to know me well enough and I may tell you about my adventures on a movie set or my skydiving trip.Who you are:hmmmm ... I have no idea! Apparently I often choose the wrong men. I gravitate towards younger people but I am keeping my mind and options open here... with a bad boy edge. Some one who knows how to make a girl feel special. You must have a great sense of humor and be a great communicator. Open, honest communication is the cornerstone of any good relationship. I am looking to meet people, so if you are not willing to meet face to face please move on.Everything begins with friendship ... are you ready to begin? Well the online aspect gives this a new twist.Send me a message ... I'll respond :)We can then chat online ... then talk on the phone ... then ...something public Should be relaxed and casual so that we can talkCould be a coffee shop or I have a favorite local pub where I go with friends to play online trivia and I am actually smart enough to sometimes be on the high score list!Walking in better weather ....Hopefully you have some ideas as well.

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