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United States, Michigan, Yale

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Like most in our 40’s... I’.. lived fast and loved hard... worked too much and slept too little... and still have a soft spot for 80’s rock ballads. These days I enjoy the quieter side of life… the scent of the flowers when working in the garden, watching the dog roll in the snow when I talk her for a stroll, swaying to some sultry blues, sharing conversation over coffee or a glass of wine. Keeping balance between work, personal interests, friends and family is important to me. I’m a professional with a range of interests... riding my motorcycle and attending the ballet are two of my favourites. The early chapters were all about the quest for strength, wisdom and independence… so I’ve learned to be handy on the tools and renovated my own home… rode horseback in the mountains and my Harley across the country, relocated for work and spent some years having more coffee than sleep… loved, laughed and cried along the way and wrote a book of poetry about it. I’d like to share the next chapters with a partner... laughing until our eyes water… Sunday morning coffee… reading in the front of the fire… dancing to slow music… strolling at sunset… holding hands… intense kisses… getting lost in your eyes.I enjoy the company of people who are genuine. I value loyalty, honesty, integrity, a strong work ethic and appreciate a great sense of humour. Physical affection, chemistry, confidence, personal appearance and how you handle yourself matter to me. I’m equally comfortable in the little black dress or boots and jeans...the occasion helps decide the dress code. I can be serious and I love to laugh often…a riotous sense of humour that fluctuates from dry to sexual innuendo. I enjoy a glass of red wine or a cold beer (in the bottle). I’m comfortable in my own skin... moving through life to the beat of my own drum... creative... passionate... confident... hard working... motivated... sensitive... kind hearted... independent... direct... communicative... far from perfect... a bit of a pistol... genuine and caring... is who I am.I’m looking for the same... an equal with passion and a genuine heart to share and experience the simple pleasures in life. If you’re interested, please drop me a line and good luck in your search.PS I'm attracted to guys who are taller. I'm 5'8" and stand almost 6' when I'm in heels, which I wear often. Coffee and a chat are easy. Chemistry and humour are as important as the interests and intellect so it really takes having a conversation in person to gauge the attraction.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Traveling Watching TV Dirt Bike Racing Nascar Tennis
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Who doesn't want to walk into the sunset holding hands when you are 80? Hoping to get one step closer to that dream. I enjoy spending time with someone that has a zest for life and just takes life day by day with little drama. Try to be as healthy and active as one can be in these busy times. Not scared to try some different adventures. Life is to short to be stuck in that box. Must send picture!!!!

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am a single mother well established finacially, emotionally and mentally..I am looking for a man to sweep me off my feet and make me his princes,as i will make him my King.I have no expectations thus no disappointments..I am who I am and you are who you are, I'm not looking to change you as you shouldn't look to change me, but to continue lifes journey together and maybe start are finally chapter of forever. Best to describe me is passionate, everything i do in life is lived to the fullest and would love somebody who has a passion for life..I have a bubbly peesonality with a touch of class.Lets make this our last weekend alone. I take comfort in knowing that i may not have found my special someone yet, but he hasn't found me either, be patient im here waiting. I await your embrace.I am also the girl your mother never warned you about because she never knew i excisted.. My first date depends on who because everybody starts out different but something quiet where i can make you week at the knees and take you away..:)

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  • Sally from Yale | Woman | 48 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Back for another try .... been gone for the last 18 months but now I'm back.Will update the old profile below at some point but most of it still stands.New Year ... New profileWell here we go again ... they say third time is the charm. First profile was to short, second to long ... let me know if I get it perfect this time?Who I am:Young, smart, funny, honest, loyal, independant girl. Romantic at heart ... candle light ... soft touches ... deep meaningful connections. My life has been pretty quiet lately and I am looking to change that. I am trying new things (like yoga) but really hate doing things alone. So don't worry if our interests are not the same since I am looking to try new things. Life is to short to not take chances ... say what you mean and mean what you say.Face your fears because some of the best thrills are found hiding behind what scares you the most. Get to know me well enough and I may tell you about my adventures on a movie set or my skydiving trip.Who you are:hmmmm ... I have no idea! Apparently I often choose the wrong men. I gravitate towards younger people but I am keeping my mind and options open here... with a bad boy edge. Some one who knows how to make a girl feel special. You must have a great sense of humor and be a great communicator. Open, honest communication is the cornerstone of any good relationship. I am looking to meet people, so if you are not willing to meet face to face please move on.Everything begins with friendship ... are you ready to begin? Well the online aspect gives this a new twist.Send me a message ... I'll respond :)We can then chat online ... then talk on the phone ... then ...something public Should be relaxed and casual so that we can talkCould be a coffee shop or I have a favorite local pub where I go with friends to play online trivia and I am actually smart enough to sometimes be on the high score list!Walking in better weather ....Hopefully you have some ideas as well.

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