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Refugio, 46
United States, Michigan, Yale

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About Me

Like most in our 40’s... I’.. lived fast and loved hard... worked too much and slept too little... and still have a soft spot for 80’s rock ballads. These days I enjoy the quieter side of life… the scent of the flowers when working in the garden, watching the dog roll in the snow when I talk her for a stroll, swaying to some sultry blues, sharing conversation over coffee or a glass of wine. Keeping balance between work, personal interests, friends and family is important to me. I’m a professional with a range of interests... riding my motorcycle and attending the ballet are two of my favourites. The early chapters were all about the quest for strength, wisdom and independence… so I’ve learned to be handy on the tools and renovated my own home… rode horseback in the mountains and my Harley across the country, relocated for work and spent some years having more coffee than sleep… loved, laughed and cried along the way and wrote a book of poetry about it. I’d like to share the next chapters with a partner... laughing until our eyes water… Sunday morning coffee… reading in the front of the fire… dancing to slow music… strolling at sunset… holding hands… intense kisses… getting lost in your eyes.I enjoy the company of people who are genuine. I value loyalty, honesty, integrity, a strong work ethic and appreciate a great sense of humour. Physical affection, chemistry, confidence, personal appearance and how you handle yourself matter to me. I’m equally comfortable in the little black dress or boots and jeans...the occasion helps decide the dress code. I can be serious and I love to laugh often…a riotous sense of humour that fluctuates from dry to sexual innuendo. I enjoy a glass of red wine or a cold beer (in the bottle). I’m comfortable in my own skin... moving through life to the beat of my own drum... creative... passionate... confident... hard working... motivated... sensitive... kind hearted... independent... direct... communicative... far from perfect... a bit of a pistol... genuine and caring... is who I am.I’m looking for the same... an equal with passion and a genuine heart to share and experience the simple pleasures in life. If you’re interested, please drop me a line and good luck in your search.PS I'm attracted to guys who are taller. I'm 5'8" and stand almost 6' when I'm in heels, which I wear often. Coffee and a chat are easy. Chemistry and humour are as important as the interests and intellect so it really takes having a conversation in person to gauge the attraction.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Traveling Watching TV Dirt Bike Racing Nascar Tennis
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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Howdy Everyone!I am back to take a peek and see what's shakin' . . . Unfortunately, I really fail at marketing myself for fear of sounding redundant and cliche . . . what I will say is that I have a fabulous sense of humour and love to laugh. If this is a quality that doesn't appeal to you, then I would suggest that you proceed to the next profile. Life is way too short to be serious all the time - though I do enjoy tender, intimate moments at the best of times.Sure . . . I'm like all the rest . . walks on the beach, bbqs, . . .blah, blah, blah . . let's find something different to do . . .something out of the ordinary and shake things up a little . . . . just sayin' . . If you have a dog - that would be the icing on the cake. I miss having a dog, taking him/her for walks - suffice it to say neither our hedgehog nor our bearded dragon enjoy leisurely strolls on a leash . . .I have the two greatest kids in the world (my daughter is 16 and my son is ***both of whom define my world and I have the utmost respect for them. So there it is . . wishing everyone a whole bunch of smiles and giggles . . A lovely glass of wine on a patio by the ocean . . . or ??

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am extremely outgoing and friendly. Enjoy playing baseball and Golf. Love going to movies and spending time with my friends. Looking for someone who is honest and sincere and likes to have fun. Coffee or possibly dinner.

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  • France from Yale | Woman | 47 years old | Aries
    France

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am looking to meet a single man, around my age, who enjoys life, has a positive attitude, and loves to laugh, like I do!! I have a lot of great things in my life: Fabulous Christian parents (married 51 yrs before my mom passed away in March ***a great close family, my own (small) apt, a wonderful stable job, and fun friends. But still, a piece in the puzzle remains missing. I want to find someone to fill that void in my life.I want to meet someone who has enough time to go out and see a show, go for lunch, enjoy a coffee together, or go away for a weekend. I know that life is really busy sometimes, but you have to take a little fun time once in a while, too. I love ALL types of music except country and opera, and I love singing along when the radio is playing (I didn't say I'm great, though.) I speak a bit of Spanish and would very much like to keep it up and learn some more. Do you speak Spanish, by any chance? If so, I'd love to practice with you. I enjoy travelling and I'm not afraid to go somewhere alone, although I'd love to have a companion...do you like to travel?I was separated in ***after an 11 year marriage (NOW divorced) and I still feel lonely to this day. I do have friends, but most of them are married &/or have children, so going out is hard to arrange & seldom happens these days.I love to go to movies, especially Comedies. I also enjoy taking photos ! My camera is with me alot, so one day, I hope to get the "perfect shot" of something spectacular. Maybe some shots of us ?...ideas...I want to meet a CHRISTIAN man and a man who will be able to like me the way I am. I am a volumptuous ( BBW ) lady and I've always struggled with my weight. Although I'd love to lose some, I am still confident and happy with myself.I work full-time & have actually been in my government job for over 16 years. I am a non-smoker now although I smoked for a long time years ago. I have an adult step daughter who is a single mother with 4 young children....they are the joy of my life.) I'm more into the nightlife and the comedy/shopping/buffets/shows.) It really is a great, cheap place to visit and the pawn shops are out of this world, too.I am a kind, loyal, and trustworthy person, as my friends would tell you. I enjoy helping others and I attend church on a regular basis. I'm an easy going, happy-go-lucky person, who just wants to have a little fun in this life time. I love all animals, although I don't have any animals myself ( other than the MANY dust bunnies in my apartment.) tee hee hee :) Notice cleaning was not on my list of interests.I am very giving and affectionate, and I need lots of passion in my life!! I really would love to find someone who could bring that, and someone who really enjoys being kissed, too. I LOVE kissing. I'm looking for a man who works hard, but also likes to spend "fun" time. Someone DARK and handsome please, I really like the dark hair & dark skin. If this is you, please don't hesitate to send me a message with your current picture please. (Don't expect a reply if you don't have a pic.)I hope to hear from you soon,Lady Zebra :) I would like to meet for a drink, a cuppa coffee or go out for dinner ( Mexican, perhaps? ), just sit & visit with each other. Maybe go to see a movie, but you can't really get to know someone at a movie (at least not without really annoying the other movie goers ! ha ha ha) Orrrr....you tell me? The possibilities are ENDLESS !

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