SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Marx
Online
Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
I have lived my life believing that the best things in life are worth waiting for. While I still do believe this, some experiences over the past few years have made me realize that life is just too short to take for granted. So, I try to enjoy my life to the fullest while I wait for Mr. Right to come along.Adjectives used to describe me include “down to earth”, funny, fun, out-going, confident and genuine. Most people consider me to be intelligent, but I would much prefer to discuss sports or current events than something I learned in a textbook in college. I am much more a natural kind of girl, than the type that takes 2 hours to get ready for work in the morning; but I still like my manicures and do spend time shopping. Don't worry, I promise not to drag you from store to store, unless you want to go! However, during baseball season, I might ask you to join me at a Yankee game, since I usually buy a ticket plan. I’m not looking for the “perfect guy”, but the guy who is “perfect for me”. He should be intelligent, caring, dependable, have a great sense of humor, value friends and family, have personal and professional goals and ambitions and be open to a meaningful relationship. A love of baseball wouldn't hurt, but it is definitely not a deal breaker. My ideal first date would be one where time flies by. What seems like minutes is actually hours. Looking up and realizing you are the last ones left in the place. It's a product of the great conversation, laughter and mutual attraction. You don't want the night to end, and you can't wait to see each other again. I've gone on first dates to a bar and not even finished one drink, and the date was amazing because of the conversation and the mutual attraction - that's what's important. You know quickly whether you want another date. A kiss goodnight and asking on the first date for a second date are always the best ways to end a first date.
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Mae
Online
Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
I'll preface this by saying I'm crazy busy at work right now, and may not have time to respond to messages or to develop the type of relationship I eventually want, so I'm changing my goal here to "wants to date, but nothing serious." I'm not looking to jump into a relationship just to be in one. I'm ok being alone. I do hope to find someone to spend some time with, have a few laughs together, and hopefully someday I'll find true love. When I love, I love for good. I'm as loyal as an old hound dog, and just as stubborn. I miss having someone to share my day with. I miss having someone who I just can’t wait to tell that bit of good news to…and someone to comfort me when the news isn’t so good. I want to know that the guy I’m crazy about is mine and mine alone because I don’t like to share. I can go a long time on just the very minimum of affection - but I don't want to do that anymore. I want someone who makes me feel that I'm important to him. That being said, I'm going to be picky this go-round. Being alone isn't a bad thing, and I'm not desperate for a man. I used to respond to every message, but I'm not doing that anymore. If you message me and I don't respond, I'll thank you now for your interest, but I won't waste your time or mine by messaging back and forth. I’m not perfect. I wear my heart on my sleeve. I’m a bad housekeeper. I don’t organize my time well. I’m a bit of a homebody, though I’d love to get out more. I take a while to warm up to new people (guys, especially), but once I get to know you, I'm awful at playing hard to get. But, even though I have my faults, I'm still pretty darn great.Please have your sh*t together. By that, I mean, have reliable means of supporting yourself, be completely over any exes, take care of your kids if you have them, know how to use spell-check and punctuate a complete sentence, and be willing to consider a long term relationship with the right person. I have all of those qualities and more. We'll figure something out together.
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Ilse
Online
Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
I am ready to begin my life again. LOL. I'm a happy person. I'm nerdy too. I like sports, sci-fi, reading, music and movies. I also play an online video game pretty regularly and love it! I have 2 kids, who are 14 and 21. I'm an open book. Any questions? Please feel free to ask. It's been a really long time since I've had a first date, but dinner and a movie is still a classic in my book!!