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Daphne, 41
United States, Michigan, Wayland

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About Me

**** A quick note: I am not looking for ***/ chat buddies - there is life beyond the computer - if nothing progresses beyond a few days of endless banter, say "it's been nice chatting with ya, good luck in your search", move on, tempus fugit! Life is too short and precious to waste such effort in nothing that will not progress. In fact, say that to everyone! It is only common decency.Also, when we progress to exchanging numbers, again... Not looking for endless texting... The purpose is to make a date and meet up for coffee or dinner...I understand there are plenty of other more beautiful and prettier women than I who like to tease, stroke and boost your ego and waste your time) Rant over lol *****.... wait, never mind, they all die at the end of the movie. A Yin to my yang or a yang to my yin. Anyways, you get the picture. Someone who is an equal and balances me out (yeah, the scale is a bit outta whack). So a bit about me: I'm just a bit shy and quiet when you first met me, yet easy-going and friendly and out-going once you've met me. I am not one to talk your ear off. I've been told that I am funny and make people laugh (not quite sure how to take this -- do they mean I make them laugh as comedienne, or a source of laughter and ridicule - I guess that's up for you to decide. I can and do tend to be sarcastic and snarky but only with good intentions. I love to laugh and not take things too serious (tried that route before, didn't quite work out well for me). Games are only fun when everyone knows and plays by the same rules. I am not a good game player, strategies always ellude me - Sun Tzi would make an example of me. Drama belongs on TV or the movie screen. (I tried to get rid of it but i think the Voodoo priestesses ripped me off) At this point in my life, I want simple and easy...Believe it or not I've made it this far without heavy duty baggage ( i think a lot of it got lost back in ***???? Any ways, I don't have the claim stub, so it doesn't matter) I like 60's and 80's music with a bit of ABBA and Mozart thrown in. But can rock out just as good.I like to learn new things and will try almost anything just about once (maybe). So with that said, I am always learning something new about myself and the world everyday. I just recently discovered that I might have the travel bug and would eventually like visit a few places. But for now, going to Vegas for long weekends is the extent of it. And just once, i would like to do a "guy's weekend in Vegas" the whole whiskey and cigars, all night long at the craps table sort of thing. A bit about you: Someone who enjoys laughing yet knows when to be serious...likes the fine and good things in life yet can appreciate Honest Ed's style. You "give in" to go ballroom dancing one night and "make me" go to a Jay's game the next. You know what Wednesday and Saturday matinees means. You like to volunteer and help out at charity events. There are times for going out or staying in and watching that night t.v line-up. Willing to try out new stuff but also know to stick to the tried and true. And once in awhile sit back and be amazed with what crazy and whacky things civilization is up to.Someone who willing to learn new things with me and teach me things they've learned. You like to suit-up and have legend- wait for it- dary day/nites (bonus if you know what this is in reference to)and go dancing and dining, but you don't mind staying at home and watching T.V. (and yes, we can even watch hockey, football or your guilty pleasure of DWTS***but my club days and nights are long gone and in the past (R.I.P.)But the reality is, we are all just looking someone who can be happy with what we can offer and vice-versa...If you made it this far, yay!If I added you as a favourite - was surfing on the phone and your profile caught my attention for one reason or another. Not for nothing but if you message me, please be able to string more than one word sentences. Good luck and happy fishing. An ideal first meeting would be to just meet up for a coffee or drink on a nice patio and have a conversation to see how things go to.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Art Activities Swimming Chinese Indian Mexican Crime Music War Drag Racing Snowboarding
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