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Ruth, 42
United States, Michigan, Trenton

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About Me

I am just trying to find someone as honest, loving and affectionate, as me. I would love to find someone who is looking for something long term and not just a friend with benefits. (I could get that anywhere.) I love to have fun and laugh and try to look at the cup half full and not half empty. I am tired of the bar scene and all that goes with it. I thought I would try out the internet and see what it has to offer. You never know where you might find the love of your life. (Even though I think someone has mind hog tied and duck taped in a basement somewhere and he can't get loose to find me). LOLI have 2 wonderful children that I love very much. They are a big part of my life, but aren't my life,(if that makes sense). I would like to find someone that can be their friend and someone they can respect, as well as someone who will respect them. They have a father, so I am not looking for a Daddy or someone to financially support us. I have been doing that on my own for a few years now, so that is not the issue.I just want to find my other half. To have the kind of love that makes your friends sick and jealous, because they don't have it, or even understand it. To have my best friend, husband and lover all in one. If you think you could be him, *** let's see what happens.....I like to go to movies, dance, sing karaoke, go to sporting events, go to comedy clubs, go to concerts and travel, when I can. I would like to find someone who has some of the same interests, but some of their own. Learning new things, can be fun, too. If you have took the time to really read my profile, I hope to hear from you. Who knows, you may be my next date or relationship....it all starts with a message. I look forward to hearing from you. I think a first date should be somewhere that you are able to talk to one another. A movie or a concert may not be a good choice because you cant talk much during your time together. You want to be able to get to know one another face to face and see if there is a connection there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Bunty from Trenton | Woman | 42 years old | Pisces
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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm a hard working mother of 2. I believe in working for want you want in life. I love like i want to be loved and am very faithful. I'm seeking my best friend and forever love. I am outgoing and enjoy having fun. I attend church regularly and am looking for someone who does too. I listen to Christian music. Please do not waste my time or yours. If you are only looking for one thing .. keep looking.iso ~ man, fit, hard working, good looking, handy, faithful, Christian and a warm loving smile :) If you are wearing a wife beater or beer shirt ... I'm not interested. If you are holding a beer or partying ... I'm not interested. I am not looking for friends. If you are older than late 40's I'm not interested. People write profiles so you read them. Do not *** and waste their time reading messages from someone they specifically say they are not interested in.NOTE: If you do not have a profile pic and do not attach one to your message I will automatically block you! Must have hair, teeth and a job! A coffee shop or McDonalds for a beverage. Meet at a place to talk and see if there is a spark and if there is we can decide together where our first date will be.

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  • Ehtel from Trenton | Woman | 42 years old | Aquarius
    Ehtel

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am a scientist. I am an existentialist agnostic. I have home that contains hundreds and hundreds of books on subjects from chemistry to religion,to philosophy, to physics . I am a serious nerd and I want the same. I want someone who can carry an intelligent conversation. I am growing , learning and soaking up as much knowledge and experience as I can. I crave nature. Zip lining to kayaking. But I adore museums and will hide in the corner of a library all day long reading. I have an entire right arm sleeve , chest piece mid left arm tat that are all science related . I usually have people come ask me the most obscure questions because they figure if anyone would know then I would, or so I'm told.

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  • Lilia from Trenton | Woman | 45 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Life is all about getting back what we put in. I am working hard at being positive and positive about working hard. My goal is to lead the most stress-free life possible and enjoy living every day. I would like to meet a man who feels the same way. Look~ in our age group we all have a past, we've been hurt, we have faced adversity- this is what makes us who we are and in my case this makes me strong. If you cannot meet new people and trust them until they give you a reason not to and treat them like you've never been hurt then.... well.. then maybe you shouldn't be dating until you work that out. I am happy in life: I live in a great community, have a decent job (two actually), 2 little furbabies who make me smile, grown children who are continuing their journey to be great men, and the desire to meet the final puzzle piece that will fit in and complete the picture.If you are ready for a grown up relationship that includes communication, spending quality time together, and leaving the past behind..... I'm your girl.Just a little information about me when it comes to meetville....... If I get an *** am not interested I don't respond, period. You may think that is rude and you have a right to your opinion, however, I have been online long enough to know it is a losing battle..... if I respond with a kind "thanks but no thanks" the next message I get asks me what the problem is.. then if I don't respond or I try to be diplomatic I get a rude message in return. It never fails and I refuse to battle with someone I had no desire to correspond with to begin with. And I do not respond if you do not have a picture, a picture of YOU, not a sunset or your car or your kid..... This is an INTERNET dating website, you have managed to make a profile so excuses like "I don't know how to add a picture" are unacceptable. We are human, physical attraction is normal, not to mention the people who creep around the internet behind hidden identities. So please have a picture (with all your clothes on).

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