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Helen, 41

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About Me

I am an independent loyal person. To be honest I like animals more then most people. In the summer I have to admit I dont see the inside of a gym. I prefer to be outside as long as the sun is up. However once the winter comes me and the gym become friends again, zumba and kickboxing are my favs. I have an issue with biting my tongue, dont ask for an honest opionion if you cant handle what the answer maybe. I love sarcasm. I like playing bingo(yes I said it), going dancing, hanging with friends and traveling. I love roller coasters both wood and steel both have their own unique flare. I love summer more then winter. I like sitting in front of the fire feeling the warmth and listening to the crackle of hte wood.. I like the sound that fallen leafes make when you walk on them. The sound of the waves as they break on the beach. I have been told be my friends that I am their "Why not "person. When one of them has an off the wall idea of something to do or place to go they know they can call me up and I'll say "why not". Ive also been told that I put people at ease I dont judge or make them fell uncomfortable N if they are doing something that most other people might think is strange I usally jion in so that they dont feel alone. Atleast that is what I have been told, I dont see it but I guess thats the piont. I havent explored much of the US which I would like to change. I love to snorkel, would love to get dive certified but havent done that yet. To be completely honest I never saw myself on a dating website but a few of my friends said if I didnt do it myself they would do it for me, so here I am. I have to say I'm a romantic at heart, a see each other from across the room type but you have to be in the right room in order for that to happen. The majority of my friends are all married or have young kids or both, so most of the time I go out on my own. I'm not a huge fan of football or baseball just not enough action for me. thats right football not enough action,if you really think about it most of the time they are doing nothing on the field. just my opionon. Im looking for a partner someone to have fun with, do things with, try new things with and if something else happens great.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Linsey

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I love the art scene and now that my kids are getting older I'm looking forward to exploring more of my creative side.I enjoy gardening and making my yard beautiful. It's a relaxing get away for me to be playing in the dirt, digging holes & planting new flowers. Plus my plants don't talk back to me. ;) My ultimate goal is to have a hot tub in my back yard.I can't wait to "enjoy" a cold winter nights out under the stars in my very own hot tub. But my very own hot tub would only be complete with my very special someone to share it with. I love summer nights, camping/boating, riding on the back of a motorcycle. I love the fall weather sitting out by the campfire. I love traveling to beautiful beaches.I'm a very positive person, with a strong determination. I'm a hard worker & a go getter. I get the most compliments from my smile. I choose to surround myself with fun, happy, complimentary people. I have 3 beautiful children, a great job, a beautiful home, 2 sweet dogs, great friends & family. I just want to find that one special guy to share Life with together, make plans together, be a "we" together. I'm a loyal, dedicated, honest, spontaneous, free spirited, I'm a great listener, a passionate person. But truly the best way to find out is to get to know me. I have several layers & I would love to find one person to care to find out. I'm really just looking for one guy to show me he's different then all the rest.

  • Norma

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I love to learn - listening to a new band, reading a good book, trying new food, learning about another culture, understanding another person's perspective, going somewhere I've never been before. I am looking for someone to introduce me to new things. I am very active. I am fine with spending time at home watching a good movie, reading a book, spending rainy day in bed, but I rarely watch TV. I work out regularly - I am trying to practice yoga at least once a week. I enjoy drinking wine at Ravinia, playing games with friends, and hanging out at the beach. I am intelligent, sarcastic, and direct. My latest passion is eastern philosophy and medicine.

  • Imelda

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    ...so I'm wondering why there's not a choice for "I'm really Busy, but not dead" I want to Date, but don't have a whole lotta time to peruse the social scene...=.. Not the Statue of Liberty... just sayin... If there's one lesson I have learned in this life... it is: "The Journey is as important as the Destination", that there are always detours and bumps in the road that generally make us better people in the long run, and more often than not, the most interesting of situations happen when you least expect them. Often times I find myself getting so caught up in work (I Build / Fix / Teach Computers), that I don't spend enough time enjoying all of the wonderful things around me. I'm a very curious person. I like to learn what makes someone tick. What inspires them. I enjoy unspoken communication. A grin, eye contact, the shared unspoken thought. But I realize most of that just comes with time. I’m just a normal girl, looking for a companion who is ok with who they are, rather than whom they "appear to be". I want to meet new, interesting people and see what happens. I am down to earth, honest, Northern, open minded and have a good sense of humor... which, most of the time, involves a bit of Sarcasm. I'm artistic, creative, passionate, a deep thinker, a little nerdy, well versed, well read, articulate and I love foreign accents! I am not perfect and don't expect anyone else to be. I live alone and support myself. I care about, and am extremely loyal to the people I elect to have in my life. I am a good listener, and a problem solver. I believe in courtesy - holding doors open and helping people. I am a romantic but I am also very practical. I'm looking to meet Someone REAL. Not afraid to be yourself. No ***, but at the same time, no limits. If the chemistry is there, then it's there... if it's NOT, well, you can't force something like that. I believe one day, someone will walk into your life and you will realize why it never worked with anyone else. Until then... unfortunately, I'm not a very patient person... *frown* and cooking for one gets old.I am Tired of living my Life in the Singular.As far as Preferences... I would Prefer spending time with you in Person, rather than over the Phone, or on the Computer.I Really do not need another "Pen-Pal", for all of my Current Friends are already scattered across this planet. I am looking for someone who likes to be intimate, hold hands, kiss - a lot, cuddle... who can be a little wild sometimes, take the reins and be spontaneous! *Smile* TEACH me something!!I would Rather Snuggle up with a Good Book, than turn on the TV any day. Hot Tea, Hot Chocolate, Hot Cider, Hot Coffee, Hot Sake, a Hot Toddie... I'm Flexible!I believe in going "Dutch".. Why should YOU be responsible for paying if I'm enjoying it too? ...Then Again, if you're considering it a "Date"... I suppose I'd consider letting you. *smile*I'm not opposed to Driving to you, as long as you come to me as well. I have nothing to hide, and I'm hoping that you don't either...I'd just like to add...I am ultimately looking for someone to share my life with. The good, the bad, the happy times and the not-so-good. I Believe in looking for a mate, you should Support each other, and Compliment one another's strengths and weaknesses. Yes, physical attraction is pretty important to me, but mental attraction is much more impressive. A lot of people are not comfortable with my Northern-Ness, (is That a word?) so, I'm looking for someone who understands and appreciates my humor as well! ** Somebody said to me once, "you can't say the wrong thing to the right person." That person "gets" what you have to say even if you don't have perfect composition...My view on personal relationships and friendships? Just be Honest. Honesty is Huge with me. Why do so many see a need to impress others? Just have fun and enjoy life. It works better that way. Ideally I would like someone with an open mind who is intelligent and attractive with a good personality. Someone who is forgiving when I show up a little late, or want to drag them to the 24 hour grocery at 3:30 in the morning!! Someone who can whip up a decent meal with whatever’ Someone I can wake up next to and make coffee for with a sleepy smile on my face!How do you like your Coffee?Music is also a Very Large part of my life… I sing, and listen to a Wide Variety, but it always seems that I come back to Classic Rock and the Blues. You can do anything with music on...é... It all depends on the chemistry... I would say we should go somewhere where we could have good conversation, and possibly people-watch over a cup of cawfee or a glass of wine.I don't have a "type". I am NOT one of those people who require that someone have a certain look, body style, lifestyle, philosophy, religion, hobby, height, eye color, hair color... or anything else. I will, however, admit to a liking for "Bad Boys"... Especially if I find one who is easy on the eyes, with a personality that meshes with my own... a Harley, and an extra helmet!! (I've got a pair of CHAPS I need to break in!) That said... I believe that You don't shop for people the way you do a car, and if you do, you easily could miss out on great people! Generally I only date caucasian guys, but you never know... You might WOW me... just sayin.

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