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Fidela, 44
United States, Michigan, Trenton

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About Me

Hey there! I find men that have a crazy sarcastic wit about them very attractive. A sense of humor is first and foremost one of the best qualities a person can possess. I love having debates and political conversations and I want someone to challenge me. It cracks me up that men on here (and women, I'm sure) can't be polite if someone *** they are not interested in. We are all adults. Being nice really isn't that difficult.While I realize we all have baggage I try very hard to keep my life simple and positive. I hope to find the same in a man. And, if you have a photo of you and a deer you just killed I'm pretty sure we won't get along too well! That, and nipple piercings are sort of dealbreakers!I work as a photojournalist at a newspaper and love my job...I can't imagine doing anything else.Money doesn't impress me and I get bored very quickly when men try to "wow" me with a laundry list of stuff they have bought.While I have some extra pounds on me I do go to the gym, go trail hiking, eat organic, and haven't eaten red meat or pork in almost 25 years. I have an extremely active job that keeps me running around each day. That said I am working on getting into better shape to feel even better about who I am.Many of my friends tell me I could get a wall to talk to me so I would say I can talk about pretty much anything. I randomly talk to strangers and love meeting interesting people that way. I am a very independent but I'm at a point where I really want to share the fun of life with another person. I want someone to cook for when I come home from work and go out to new, fun restaurants and try new food! Someone to pamper and spoil and watch football with all day on Sundays. I have that I don't want children only because realistically at 43 I just don't think it is gonna happen! However, I love kids and would welcome any man that has them.I'm easy-going and I'm up for almost anything....I'm a big explorer and love trying new things. Anything relaxed and fun....I'm not someone to be nervous on a date so I'm up for anything!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Running / Jogging Italian Vietnamese Crime Family & Kids Romance Sport Social Networking
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