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Ilene, 44

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About Me

I love music, I can talk about it all day. I like simple things like, watching TV, going out to eat, going to movies or just hanging in the house. I look for someone to accompany me in my simple joys.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Phuong

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I asked (in my headline) that you please read this entire description before contacting me so that you don't waste your time or mine. I'm looking for something very specific.I'm not on here looking for a physial relationship, friends with benefits,none of that. In fact, you will NOT get intimacy with me until we have been dating 90 days, maybe longer. I want to be sure that the person I give myself to is one that is spiritually, emotionally and intellectually matched to where I am and where I'm going. I'm not here to judge, only God can do that. However, I will need to find you worthy of my time. In order to fall into that category you would be independent, employed, mobile, respectful, a gentleman, diverse, educated and well rounded.I also prefer African American men. That doesn't mean I'm not open to dating other races, it just means that's where I'm most comfortable and what I'm attracted to.All that being said you might think I'm a b*tch and you might be right. But I'm selective because I deserve the best. If you meet my standards and you are still interested and you're willing to wait on the physical aspect until we really get to know each other what you'll get in return is the most down, ride or die, faithful, supportive partner, friend, lover, companion and woman you'll ever meet in your life. Now...a little about who I am: I love the beach and I love to read. I like sports (football and basketball), I love music (r&b, jazz, Latin). I enjoy amusement parks, swimming, movies, parks, concerts, art shows, cultural festivals. I especially have a soft spot for pitbulls. Please don't judge a dog by their breed but rather by their individual personalites and characters just as we should humans! I have two teenage kids that both still live at home. I work out but not as often as I should, I need motivation! I think the first date is a mans chance to impress a woman. You show me how creative you can be. Any man can take a woman to the movies or to dinner but really how well do you listen?? Show me that you're interested and that you've listened during our conversations and plan something that I will absolutely love and will wow me!!

  • Acheflour

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    *****Please READ profile BEFORE responding...I do NOT and will NOT respond to Auto Prompts saying "so and so wants to meet you.".... So, I stress that one needs to be honest in their profile. What is the point in lying? Clearly, I am not looking for a one night fling nor paying a bar tab and driving someone home. Honesty in looks, body type...TRUTH!!! No Living with parents or roommates!! The Twenty somethings might go for that... But I am well beyond the "Peter Pan Boys" We all have luggage from life-let's see if our luggage matches!I am looking for a Outgoing, Kind, Humorous, Intelligent, Financially and Emotionally secure MAN. He must be comfortable with who he is and confidant enough to handle a woman with an extreme amount of independence- Not to say that I don't enjoy being pampered from time to time... I just need my space and can't handle being called 10 times a day for no valid reason (once is fine)!!!! Ugggggg....Flashbacks to my last nightmare...since when does a date constitute "instant relationship"....?! OH-BTW yes these are Deal Breakers for Me!!!! I am not a B***H!!! I just Know what I like and Know what I don't. We all have Deal Breakers!!!!! THIS IS WHY HONESTY IS SO IMPORTANT!!!!! Oh, some other dating advice for some Gents out there...showing up half tanked before a first date is a NO! NO! As is proceeding to drive yourself home after having more. Drunk Calling is never cool!!! I am a sucker for Nice STRONG Hands, Eyes and Smile...No Nail Biters-that type of pent up anxiety just plain FREAKS ME OUT!!!!I am using one of my last dates as an example as I am still laughing that the universe was having a Jokey with me...Once I accepted the comedy of the situation and the fact that I could leave after he started quoting "Spock"...I had to be Honest...and Just spell it out...Not Going to Happen...I would like to avoid ever having to do this again. He should have just been up front and then none of this would have happened. I am told that I am funny, witty and often sarcastic...This I will never apologize for or change. If you are too serious or sensitive we will never work. I am looking for friendship/casual dating to start and we can see where things go... That seems to be the most logical approach? :)If you are still reading after all of this and are a positive up beat person- I would love to hear from you. I am always interested in hearing of ones experiences and have plenty to share.Thanks for stopping by. PS: I do not respond to the Auto Prompts that "someone would like to meet you". If you truly are interested in meeting me please have the courage to send a message. If you are married or looking for a fling do NOT even bother messaging me. Oh and if you are Taurus Or Virgo...Just Don't Bother...It will never work....I can't be controlled! :PCheers & Happy Fishing!================================================================================= It would purely depend on the person and what adventure we decide on for the day. It would need to be fun!!! Not into "coffee" dates.I am certainly open to suggestions! :)

  • Delphine

    Online

    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Im a very out going, conversationalist who loves to talk and learn about others. I like men who are neat, clean and treat their women right and with respect!! I love giving and receiving head,neck and back rubs!! Self centered, big ego guys, please continue looking!! Liars, players, and couch potatoes need not apply. I'm most grateful for my two beautiful daughters, my house and my two lovely dogs. I'm not a FAKE, SHALLOW or candy coating type person. I'm very passionate about my career and being the best person I can be. I' m looking for a man who is honest, shows integrity and enjoys life. He must also be able to loosen up and have a good time, but can also be serious when the need arises...this man needs to be a hard worker and want nice things, take pride in himself and those around him. He must like to receive nice things and also give nice things. I'm looking to develop a friendship that may eventually build into a realtionship. For the record, I'm also NOT looking for a father for my daughters, they have a father but a man who is interested in guiding them into the next chapter of their lives. I'm not looking to move quickly into a committed realtionship. I feel like all things happen for a reason, so if your interested in a connection, I'm your girl Please contact me and lets chat... MISSY Breaking the ice is always interesting.....for me, meeting at a mutual location to have lunch, dinner, ice cream or maybe a walk, enjoying the beautiful fall weather and changing of the leaves. Keeping the first date rather short to see if any chemistry is to be had!!! Conversation is a BIG deal to me, so if I have to pull information from you it's a deal breaker. Sorry!!

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