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Helen, 45
United States, Michigan, Temperance

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About Me

I am a fun, happy, positive, caring, and energetic person who enjoys life and people. I am honest and direct and appreciate the same in others. I am an independent person yet I am happiest when I am in a healthy adult relationship. I want to find someone who can enjoy life with me. I love my family, friends, good conversation, and a really good laugh. I like staying busy in general with work and friends but cherish my down time as well. I take care of myself and try to exercise regularly and eat right. I like to make sure my life is easy and simple whenever possible. The pictures of me with dark hair are the most recent. People tell me I look better in person and I don't take as an insult because I agree. I am looking for someone who is optimistic, intelligent, and someone who loves to laugh. I would like to be with a man who knows how to work hard but also knows how to relax. I admire a man who is confident and creative. I do not need someone who shares all of the same interests as I do and hope that I find someone who doesn't need me to share all of his. I will try almost anything once and am open to new experiences. I can have fun doing almost anything though. I love children so if you have kids that's great but just have a respectful relationship with your ex please (and be officially divorced)! Here are my thoughts about distance. Everyone has a busy life and I have found that it is better for me to date someone who lives nearby. I feel that it is important to actually spend time with the person you are dating and living close makes that easier. I'm not looking for a pen pal here but I need to exchange one or two *** talking and then meeting. Ultimately, I want to find someone with whom I share real chemistry and everyone knows you can’t tell if it's there until you meet. The first date is really just a meeting but should be something quick and casual like drinks or coffee. I think the perfect first meeting is when there is a combination of great conversation and laughter that ends with both of us excited to see each other again. Isn't that the best?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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