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Bessie, 42
United States, Michigan, Temperance

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About Me

First & foremost, I am someone's mother, someone's sister, & someone's daughter. Please keep that in mind when you decide you're going to toy with my heart & emotions. Think about how YOU would feel if someone disregarded the feelings of YOUR mother, sister, or daughter. I don't think you'd like to see someone you love get treated like their feelings are insignificant. This is NOT a game. We are all REAL people with real feelings & should all be treated with common courtesy, kindness, & respect. Has no one ever told you to treat others the way you would like to be treated?I'm very friendly, easy to talk to, & get a long with. I must have an old soul because people tell me they feel like they've known me forever. I'm a jeans & t-shirt type of girl but like getting dressed up too. I enjoy conversation or just comfortable silence. I'd rather sit in some dive with good company. I like outdoor activities as I'm not crazy about being cooped up. I go to the gym regularly. I like to keep active. My job keeps me in pretty good shape climbing up & down ladders & scaffolding. I swing a hammer for a living & enjoy every minute of it except when it's freezing cold outside. I have one teenaged child that lives with me & doesn't require a sitter. My schedule is routine yet flexible for the right person. I don't mind making time for someone as long as they are just as inclined to reciprocate. This is not a one way street. Communication & compromise are very important in a relationship.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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