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Philipa, 42

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About Me

Why are we all here really? I know there's the few that are here for the occasional hookup. I know there are a few more that are just sticking their toes in to see what's out there. But where are the real ones, the ones that truly are looking for that one person?Seriously, for those of you that are looking for your one....don't you want the high school feeling with butterflies? Don't you want the person that you miss the minute you leave them and there's a contentment that sweeps over you the minute they return? That's what I am looking for. I want my best friend, the one I can trust with all of my secrets. He doesn't have to be perfect, I don't want perfection because honestly that would be kind of boring. Don't you think? I want the one that's perfect for me. He doesn't have to have a perfect body or be the best looking guy on the block, but he has to have a good heart, strong values, and a passion for life, love and family. So, who am I? I have grown into the woman I am today. My past is my past, and I have taken all of the lessons God sent my way and tried my hardest to learn from them. I'm not willing to settle for anyone this time around, I deserve better. I have kids, I have a job, I have a car, I have a life. Yes, I know you all say you don't want any drama, but I have daughters they come with some. All I ask is that you are real with me, and I will give you the same in return. Can you handle it? Two options#1 meet for coffee or a drink and then it just doesn't stop because we enjoy that time together so much.#2 Something fun where we can still talk. You can learn alot about someone's personality when you bowl or shoot some pool together. No movies on a first date. I do like when a man plans a date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Helen

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am a fun, happy, positive, caring, and energetic person who enjoys life and people. I am honest and direct and appreciate the same in others. I am an independent person yet I am happiest when I am in a healthy adult relationship. I want to find someone who can enjoy life with me. I love my family, friends, good conversation, and a really good laugh. I like staying busy in general with work and friends but cherish my down time as well. I take care of myself and try to exercise regularly and eat right. I like to make sure my life is easy and simple whenever possible. The pictures of me with dark hair are the most recent. People tell me I look better in person and I don't take as an insult because I agree. I am looking for someone who is optimistic, intelligent, and someone who loves to laugh. I would like to be with a man who knows how to work hard but also knows how to relax. I admire a man who is confident and creative. I do not need someone who shares all of the same interests as I do and hope that I find someone who doesn't need me to share all of his. I will try almost anything once and am open to new experiences. I can have fun doing almost anything though. I love children so if you have kids that's great but just have a respectful relationship with your ex please (and be officially divorced)! Here are my thoughts about distance. Everyone has a busy life and I have found that it is better for me to date someone who lives nearby. I feel that it is important to actually spend time with the person you are dating and living close makes that easier. I'm not looking for a pen pal here but I need to exchange one or two *** talking and then meeting. Ultimately, I want to find someone with whom I share real chemistry and everyone knows you can’t tell if it's there until you meet. The first date is really just a meeting but should be something quick and casual like drinks or coffee. I think the perfect first meeting is when there is a combination of great conversation and laughter that ends with both of us excited to see each other again. Isn't that the best?

  • Mckenzie

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'm looking for someone to be active with, current cycling or running is a must :) I'm an avid cyclist, I road and mountain bike, swim and run .. alright you caught me, its more of a slow painful jog ...I also enjoy getting out with friends no matter the occasion and I hope you do too.

  • Madelene

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I have been married twice and just ended a 5 year relationship last November. I'm not looking to get married again. I just want to date and have fun. I'm not ready for anything serious right now. I have two grown kids. My oldest is in the navy. My youngest is in college. I think I'm pretty funny, I'm always cracking myself up with some corny remark. I love to laugh and if you're funny that's a huge plus! I like to watch movies, all kinds. I love to hang out with friends. Mostly I like rock music,love going to concerts. I like to go out dancing too. I'm not very outdoorsy, but I like to go to the lake or beach. I go to the gym on occasion but I am a plus size gal. If you like skinny girls, keep looking. I probably won't message you first because most guys seem to be looking for a girl with a perfect body and I'm far from it. I'm not a sports fan. I have a lot of tattoos and I'll probably get more. I don't care if you don't have tats, but you can't hate on mine. I've been a hairstylist for over 10 years, I love my job. I make my own schedule and I love it! Friends and family are very important to me. I love to travel. looking for a SMART, funny, guy who has his act together. I need to stress smart, if everything in your profile is misspelled I will most likely not be interested. Being able to have intelligent conversation is pretty important. I don't smoke and I don't want to be with a smoker. I only drink occasionally and I'm not interested in someone who drinks daily, even if its just one or two. And most importantly, I'm so not interested in anyone who does drugs of any kind. I have never been with a romantic, attentive man, and I'd really like to be. I want someone who is thoughtful and sweet and affectionate and who isn't afraid to be that way in front of his friends. I'm not a religious person, that's not to say I don't have morals or values. I believe you need to treat people the way you want to be treated. I am a good person and want to be with a good person. PS... I own a Harley motorcycle helmet!If you say you want to "meet me" send me a message or I won't reply to that I prefer to date within my own race. Sorry if that offends you, it's just my preference. its scary to meet for the first time. maybe a public place where we can relax and have a drink. Starbucks would be perfect

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