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Abbigayle, 40
United States, Michigan, Shelby

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About Me

I used to dabble in creative writing. I published anovel titled "Avarah K'Davarah", probably the best thing I have written yet . I wrote a novel for a college final titled "Love & Pain" and it may still be floating around on Amazon. I have a wide variety of interests.... (I hope to one day actually see this live)The same applies to music. Reading is a bit more selective, but still varied.....you get the idea (non-fiction is good too though) Also....found out there is a fanpage for Pathfinder where you can write stories based on the game....so going to study the core manual soon too (I tend to get addicted to research) And of course---the books are always better than the movies. I am a big believer in reading the book first then going to see it destroyed on the big screen:) however, I am still trying to finish The Lord of the Rings.....the last time I read a book that long, I was in the fifth grade....."It"This should give you a small glimpse to who I am.Also---sooner or later we are going to have to compare baggage....I'm not into drama so I will keep the baggage in small dosages, but I am not 18 anymore...and since I am not looking to meet anyone else who is either--I expect some baggage will be brought along in return. Fair enough? OK then, let's talk....OK---I guess I should add this little tidbit because it is really important. I have three midgets at home.....ages 4, 3 and 6 months, so anyone who is interested in me has to be ok with kids (I am ok with men who don't want any of their own or have had enough of their own.....but you have to be ok with the midgets) No one I meet or date will meet them right away for all the obvious reasons, but if things work out they are a huge part of the package. And PLEASE respect the fact that I am not wanting the kids to meet right away.....1) they get attached easily....2) I am child centered, so you WILL be *** they come around......and 3) honestly, do you really want to meet three kids under 5 right away? Wouldn't you rather wait till you know mom isn't a serial killer (ok....there are almost no female serials out there, but still)Would love to find a man who LARPs AND isn't afraid of commitment (I love the nerdy type, but most of them have commitment issues.....LMAO) I love musicals so that would be nice too......will probably add to this from time to time as things pop into my head....this isn't a requirement, but I do find geeks and nerds to be quite adorable:) Hmmm......I am so unoriginal here: Dinner and conversation? Sorry guys, I have a habit of falling into long-term relationships....so I don't really remember the dating game very well:( Meet over coffee.....see a movie.....something simple

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Irish Mexican Middle Eastern
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  • Sina from Shelby | Woman | 39 years old | Gemini
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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I hate describing myself. I am a BLAST! I mean really, simply put. There isn't really anything I'm not willing to try once (I have a scar to prove it!) I have a TON of energy, I like to go, do, see & be. Yet, there is nothing like a quiet evening home curled up with wine & movies. I love to travel; I wish I could do it all the time. Unfortunately, no matter how often I check my backyard, there is no money tree! ;-) I tend to be a bit on the sarcastic side & borderline sassy. Consider yourself warned. As long as I'm laughing...it’s FUNNY! My children are the sun, moon and stars. I will not expect any man to love them like I do, nor do I expect my children to love him, as they do me. What I will expect is respect, honor, kindness, strength & loyalty to my family, they are all I have. If I deem you so worthy as to allow you into the lives of my children & invite you to become a part of my family; I will expect that you protect us, love us & be passionate about us. Sounds a bit demanding you say? I don't think so at all. I'm a great Mom, with great children, because I'm raising them with great authority, great self-esteem & great respect for all human kind. I will not allow anyone to screw that up! LOL I can do that all by myself! LOL I don't have D.T.F. written on my forehead. So, if you're just looking to "get it in", I am NOT the "hit-it & quit-it" girl. Nope, you've got the WRONG one. I am looking for a serious long-term relationship. I don't care about your past ex's & I'm sure you don't care about mine. If you keep looking behind you, you are sure to miss the amazing things in front of you. So, if you're "hung-up" on her, do yourself a favor & don't respond...LOL...seriously. I love life and everything life has to offer, I want to share my passion for life with someone who is easy going, fun, caring, compassionate, trustworthy, kind, loving & attractive. Yup, she said it....attractive! Looks are important to me. We might connect on a mental level and have that just fit, but if I'm not physically attracted to you, it's still not gonna work. I guess what I'm trying to get at is I want romance, passion, desire & unconditional love all tied up in a big red bow! Considering my last profile was too "mean" for some of you boys...(please note that if you are a man, then you know I am not talking about you...duh). I am gonna try very hard to be as diplomatic as I possibly can. So, let's not get it all twisted, I know the tooth count in this town is less than 100, rest assured, my children & I possess approximately 84 of them (please note my daughter is missing teeth, let's cut her some slack, she is only 9 and still enjoys a visit from the tooth fairy!) Just sayin'...2) Really, if I don't respond to your ***, it's because I'M NOT INTERESTED. It may be a multitude of reasons why I'm not. If you *** why I didn't respond to your first message, I'm gonna respond with brutal honesty & it is highly unlikely that you will take my response as constructive criticism. You WILL be offended. So save yourself the embarrassment & keep lookin'.3) I cannot I believe I have to say this again but seriously, LOOKS MATTER~!! Call me shallow, call me superficial, I really don't care what you think I am. If I am not physically attracted to you, it's just not gonna work. Really, I understand falling out of the ugly tree on occasion & whacking a couple of branches on the way down; some of you look like you got gangbanged by the entire effing forest~! Look in the mirror, and then send me a message.4) Don't send me a message if you are questioning your own sexuality. (Yes, there is a story that goes with that.) Don't send me a message if you just want me to keep you company while you are deployed. (Yup...got a great story for that one too.) Don't propose to me on the first date. (Ring...knee...whole 9 yards...good story there too.)

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  • Reenie from Shelby | Woman | 38 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    No H.A.sSingle and sweet, confident woman.Seeking confident,attentive,strong,dominant man.Not looking for anything complicated, someone to hang out with, have some drinks, play some pool,watch a movie,cuddle, have some laughs,go for a walk/coffee, etc etcLove motorcylces , hot rods, trucks,car shows, anything you built and maintain yourself...Love for Tradesman...find it very attractive when my man comes home all dirty after a hard days work...I don't mind getting dirty as well, as I have experience working in the residential construction trade, now manage ...Enjoy being outdoors,the beach, boating,fishing,camping,long walks, just enjoying nature.Country girl born and raised, now stuck in the city...Still love the country boys and life :)Ask and I shall tell..: drinks

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  • Sharmain from Shelby | Woman | 38 years old | Pisces
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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    hi im lookin to find someone to have fun with .... getting really tired of people only wanting to use me .....i like going out , dancing , singing(lol) maybe a drink or two....i like to do many things and like to try new things....want to know more just ask. something fun.....im not picky !

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