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Abbigayle, 40
United States, Michigan, Shelby

Offline, last seen Wed, 07 Jan 2026 02:29:38

About Me

I used to dabble in creative writing. I published anovel titled "Avarah K'Davarah", probably the best thing I have written yet . I wrote a novel for a college final titled "Love & Pain" and it may still be floating around on Amazon. I have a wide variety of interests.... (I hope to one day actually see this live)The same applies to music. Reading is a bit more selective, but still varied.....you get the idea (non-fiction is good too though) Also....found out there is a fanpage for Pathfinder where you can write stories based on the game....so going to study the core manual soon too (I tend to get addicted to research) And of course---the books are always better than the movies. I am a big believer in reading the book first then going to see it destroyed on the big screen:) however, I am still trying to finish The Lord of the Rings.....the last time I read a book that long, I was in the fifth grade....."It"This should give you a small glimpse to who I am.Also---sooner or later we are going to have to compare baggage....I'm not into drama so I will keep the baggage in small dosages, but I am not 18 anymore...and since I am not looking to meet anyone else who is either--I expect some baggage will be brought along in return. Fair enough? OK then, let's talk....OK---I guess I should add this little tidbit because it is really important. I have three midgets at home.....ages 4, 3 and 6 months, so anyone who is interested in me has to be ok with kids (I am ok with men who don't want any of their own or have had enough of their own.....but you have to be ok with the midgets) No one I meet or date will meet them right away for all the obvious reasons, but if things work out they are a huge part of the package. And PLEASE respect the fact that I am not wanting the kids to meet right away.....1) they get attached easily....2) I am child centered, so you WILL be *** they come around......and 3) honestly, do you really want to meet three kids under 5 right away? Wouldn't you rather wait till you know mom isn't a serial killer (ok....there are almost no female serials out there, but still)Would love to find a man who LARPs AND isn't afraid of commitment (I love the nerdy type, but most of them have commitment issues.....LMAO) I love musicals so that would be nice too......will probably add to this from time to time as things pop into my head....this isn't a requirement, but I do find geeks and nerds to be quite adorable:) Hmmm......I am so unoriginal here: Dinner and conversation? Sorry guys, I have a habit of falling into long-term relationships....so I don't really remember the dating game very well:( Meet over coffee.....see a movie.....something simple

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Irish Mexican Middle Eastern
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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Im a big walking heart, I work in the health feild n it fits who I am, with a soft hands to a big heart! I love the out doors all the way to curling up watching a movie. Enjoy fast things w power car/bikes/ect. If u like to chat please chat away im here! hard to say i think depends on weather, the time of day. Share Smiles / laughs and great conversation is a great start.

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  • Lilah from Shelby | Woman | 40 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    First off i would like to say thank u for checkin out my profile... About me I am a tall and BBW .... So if thats an issue please quit reading , but if thats kool with u than i am also a country gal lookin for a gentleman to be as good to me and I am too him. I am widowed for almost 6yrs now . We were together for 18yrs when he was killed. I have 3 boys that are MY LIFE! They are what keeps me going everyday (: !!! My boys are 21,15&13 so if u dont like children and are not a family type person than please stop reading NOW ! Sorry to sound rude but I dont have time for games and lies !!! Anyway and also I am a Tall Big girl there are no lies here for sure . I AM ALSO NOT LOOKING FOR PHONE SEX, PLAYING GAMES, NOR AM I LOOKING FOR A DADDY FOR MY CHILDREN ! Just a simple sweethearted man to date and hopefully fill that void in my heart .Anyway I hope i have set the scene in my life for u ?? anything else u would like to know please feel free to send me a message :) A nice dinner and a walk..to get to know each other.Maybe it will work and then maybe not but when it comes to being happy you have to at least give it a try.

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  • Charis from Shelby | Woman | 39 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I really enjoy being outside in nature, whether it be a walk in the park on a beautiful 70 degree day, outdoor concert, mini-golf, or an attempt at disc golf, I am pretty versatile in what I like to do. The evenings I love karaoke, stand-up comedians, nice Irish Bar or good ole pub with ***'s music, even midnight bowling like I used to do all the time as a teenager. I am not a big drinker...2 is probably my max. Winters coming up, I love to snuggle with my guy in front of a fireplace on cold winter nights.I am a hard-worker, own my own place, Job-wise I 100% set my own hours which is great because I can go to a 9am yoga class when it foots my fancy and then go into work. I don't have any children, but do not mind if my date does. Because I like to consider myself intelligent and independent, I would like to meet a guy who doesn't live with mommy, owns a car, has a decent job with a head on his shoulder. I have a heart of gold and have a funny sense of humor. The things I come up with sometimes... I swear I should have a side job as a comedian! Not sure I would be quick enough though with comebacks! I like to have fun and laugh, so for me, a comedy club would be great for a 1st date. Even a lunch bite, or afternoon bowling, concert in the park, walk in the park etc...

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