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Josefine, 39
United States, Michigan, Shelby

Offline, last seen Sat, 31 Jan 2026 22:26:57

About Me

I am divorced (not carrying baggage), and would like to find a great man (and his child/ren, if it's destined) to share my life with. I do not have children of my own, but there are several children I hold dear to my heart - niece and nephew, friends children. I want to clarify my 'undecided/open' response to wanting children - I 10,000% welcome a relationship including children, but I will not have biological children of my own. I am independent, intelligent, educated, well-employed with a career (I am very passionate about my work), caring, romantic, happy, kind, SANE, funny, sarcastic, somewhat shy - but not afraid to express my opinions, honest, affectionate, and a million other things.I enjoy cooking/baking, reading, farmers markets. I love kids! I listen primarily to classic and 80's rock (love, love, love Van Halen and Eric Clapton) and country music (not the old twangy stuff, though, lol). I don't really watch any current TV sitcoms, but I tend to choose CNN, HGTV, cooking shows, History/Discovery channel, or movies. I have a goofy, ridiculous, slightly twisted sense of humor and have been known to belt out songs while driving (my singing is atrocious, so I don't torture the general public).I'm a jeans and t-shirt kind of woman, and usually wear flip-flops when I'm not at work. Drama is not welcome in my life, nor is dishonesty. I am looking for someone to build a relationship with, because I want someone, not because I need someone. I will not accept lying, cheating, drug use, heavy drinking, someone who is not fully employed (no interest in anyone who lives off the government), a deadbeat dad, or someone who does not have their own place to live - basically I want a responsible, mature, adult man. If you have a drug or criminal history, or you are just plain crazy or lazy, click the back arrow now! I am not looking for someone to take care of or someone to take care of me, but want to build a solid relationship. I want a long-term relationship, where we sit in our rocking chairs at 85 years old, and laugh about our life journey; however, I'm certainly not the kind of woman who starts planning a wedding during the first few dates, lol. I can proudly say (and, sadly, I think it's rather uncommon) that I have never cheated on someone that I have been in a relationship with. I have been cheated on, and I would never do that to anyone. A few of the items on my bucket list include visiting all 50 states, hot air ballooning, renovating an old Victorian home, going to a drive-in movie, seeing Andrea Bocelli in concert, and taking a train ride across the western US. A few things on my 'Like List': Unsweet iced tea, gothic architecture, wood-burning fires, thunderstorms, cold weather,listening to AC/DC or G'n'R when I'm in an 'aggravated' mood, the movie 'This Is Spinal Tap', tomatoes, candles. I like kidney beans on pizza, goofy, huh? Some things that I really don't care for: Mushrooms, beef, boats (actually, I am terrified of them), incorrectly spelled ad signs, tobacco use, ***, cruelty, bad drivers, snakes, dresses (lol...I joke someone usually has to get married or pass away for me to put on one). We will figure that out :) As long as it doesn't involve a boat...perhaps dinner, shooting pool, hitting the driving range - as long as you promise not to laugh hysterically at me...at least not to my face, lol.I am not at all interested in a one-night stand or 'friend with benefits', so if that is what you are looking for, keep on a-movin'!And simply to clarify...if I give you my text #, it is NOT so you can immediately send me explicit photos of yourself or offer a 'proposition'. I give my # when I would like to continue conversation getting to know each other off this website, as it is easier to text than keep logging on. I am seeking a to develop a long-term relationship. Not whatever you apparently are seeking, despite your profile claims.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

American Italian Cricket
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