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Ilona, 39
United States, Michigan, Sebewaing

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YOU HAVE TO HAVE A SENSE OF HUMOUR...DATING AND LIFE IS SUPPOSE TO BE FUN!!!..I take all the best parts of my relationships and use them to write the story of my future...until my future arrives, I am here to enjoy all the rendezvous along the way and savour every moment of them....I tend to gravitate to men on the taller side, healthy, facial hair, tattoos and I spent most of my life riding, so...IF YOU AREN'T SELFISH ENOUGH TO CONNECT WITH WHO YOU ARE, THEN YOU DON'T HAVE ANYTHING TO GIVE ANYONE.A fact of life: After Monday and Tuesday even the calendar says W T F.....I will not be held hostage as the sole provider for your happiness. I am not responsible for the way you allow yourself to feel, you and you alone control your happiness. If you understand this then we are off to a good start...therefore you must posses the following qualities:1 Secure and Confident 2 Have a Positive mind set and sees things even a bad situation with positive eyes3 Mentally sound and stable4 Emotionally available and stable5 Honest and Loyal6 You should be a hockey and/or football fan (this is sort of a must...these are 2 of my top favourite loves, that I like to share with my man. I may even be more passionate then you...ooops, did I just raise a red flag, lol)If you do not posses these qualities then you are barking up the wrong tree...A man is only as good as his word...A boy makes his girl jealous of other women, A man makes other women jealous of his girl...If you're looking for an easy spread, go buy some Miracle Whip...laughter really is the best medicine...Im not looking for you to buy me the world, just need you to be fun, light hearted and be a part of mine without letting me down or doing wrong by me.Relationships are about 2 individuals who maintain their own lives and create another one together...sadly, many just don't get this concept...if this is a problem for you then you need to pursue someone else because I will not give up my friends for you or stop being the woman that I am just to satisfy your jealousy or insecurities.(nor should anyone have to)RELATIONSHIP KILLERSInsecurityTrust IssuesFacebookNeedinessTwitterJealouslyTumblrExesLack of CommunicationAssumptionsFalse Accusations Childish / Embarrassing Behaviour (especially in public)Blessings to allKeep smiling Not looking to rush in or be your 'everything'...just yet ( though, I am willing to commit if the right man should come along. I've just seen far too many times from experience that crazy comes with any age and is usually disguised in a handsome, done-well-for-himself, nicely groomed body.) Let's lay the foundation with friendship and gradually build our way up from there. Dating, for the most part, should include some kind of activity that both parties enjoy. This is how you tell just how well you interact with some one. Coffee shops are for catching up with old friends, and spending time with grandma.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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