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I've edited this a couple times because I'm just not good at describing myself but maybe the third time's the charm. :)I have two children who are my world! My son's 16 and my daughter's 3. I have a full time job and I'm a full time mom (and dad to my daughter) so I don't have a lot of "free" time to go out and meet someone. That's why I'm back here. I'm not into the bar scene but do drink occassionally, just not often. I'd much rather hang out at a friends, or at home, have a few drinks and not worry about how I'm getting home then pay an outrageuos amount of money for a couple drinks and hope the designated driver stayed sober. I can tolerate just about any type of music but usually end up listening to country, r&b or rap. The best songs are ones you can relate to, regardless of the "category". I'm pretty easy going but that doesn't mean I always bite my tongue. If I feel strongly about something I'll let it be known. But, despite having my own beliefs I'm still able to see things through other people's eyes. I enjoy a good debate, where there's no right or wrong answer because I like being challenged to think outside the box. I might not always like what's outside the box but I still go there. lolI'm definately not high maintenance! I don't have to have my hair fixed perfectly and make up on before stepping outside. And it doesn't take me hours to get ready to go out. I'm most comfortable wearing shorts and a t shirt.I enjoy watching the Panthers, but don't enjoy watching them loose every Sunday. I also enjoy basketball and tennis although I don't play that often. I would enjoy shooting pool if my balls ever went where I thought they should go. But I'm not always a sore looser so I keep playing. :)I'm not looking for a man to take care of me and my children. I think I'm doing a pretty good job of that myself. But I would like a man to spend my spare time with. I love my kids to death but I'm really starting to miss the adult conversations and companionship that comes witht a committed relationship. I'm not expecting it to happen over night but I'm also not expecting the conversations to stay purely online. However, that doesn't mean I'll give you my number after a quick hello. I want to know that we actually have something to talk about before moving from the computer screen to phone.I'm looking for someone who can keep a conversation going. I'm used to putting forth A LOT of effort into conversations with a teenager and preschooler. I refuse to do the same with an adult. I don't want another child to raise so if you don't have a job, car, and your own place, we probably won't hit it off. If you don't have all your teeth, it's not going to work, either. Sorry, but we all have turn offs and I've realized it's important to list "teeth" as a requirement. If you have teeth, support yourself, and can carry on an intelligent conversation, we'll probably get along. Happy fishing! :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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