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About Me

After some time away from this site, I am back trying this again. What's the worst thing that can happen? I find the man of my dreams right? Right!I am a single mom of two great kids, ages 19 and 16. They are my world but I'm finding out that this empty nest thing is not all it's cracked up to be. I am a firefighter/paramedic and have been in the fire service for a little over 10yrs now. I love what I do but I have hopes of going back to school soon for nursing. I am generally a happy go lucky person. I believe laughter is the best medicine along with great family and friends. I love going out for a night on the town and think that I am overall a pretty social person. I love to be around people but I also love my quiet time at home. I am looking for someone who is intelligent, compassionate, has a sense of humor, is social but also knows how to relax. You must be self motivated, have a job and not live with your parents or do drugs. Yes it's sad that I have to put that but trust me, I've encountered it. I'm not looking for someone who likes to play games. I'm too damn old for that! I'm looking to date now, but would be pleased if things went to the next level. Ultimately, that's why I am here!If you think you may be interested, please message me. You should know I don't like to send countless messages back and forth. Let's meet and see where it takes us. In a public place of course!Hope to hear from you soon and happy fishing. I believe there is someone out there for all of us! Skydiving? Bungee jumping? Just kidding! I hate heights. I know what you're thinking, not a great trait considering my profession. Bowling? What's better than putting on a pair of ugly shoes that hundreds of other people have worn? That's living the dream! Seriously, Dinner or coffee/drinks is always nice but I'm usually up for anything.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Harriet

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I am a traditional lady who has a lot to offer. I consider myself hard working, loyal, giving and caring. Never married and have no kids.I am looking for someone to enjoy life with. I like all types of music and movies as well as comedy clubs & dinning out. Simple things like going to movies and taking day/weekend trips make me happy.I am looking to meet someone who has a good sense of humor, loves to laugh and have a good time. No guys with hot tempers and bad attitudes. No ugly stuck-up personalities please. Need someone who can carry on a conversation and is genuine and sweet. I need a man that is ready to settle down with a really nice traditional lady that knows how to treat a man. I am looking for a long term relationship, friendship first, hangout and see what happens. Send me a message and lets what happens. What ever we decide

  • Calanthia

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    **PLEASE READ ENTIRE PROFILE**As I write this "profile" I'm wondering if this is really the place to look for a significant other. Yet here I sit typing away.I know it's cliche, but I'm starting a whole new phase in my life. Not just a new chapter, but a whole new book. I've lived and learned and fought my way to where I am now. I'm ready to find someone who will help me write the next book. If you're just looking to be a brief encounter, don't bother reading further.I am educated and professional, but lean towards the "edgy" side of life. I hate preconceived notions and misconceptions. I am independent and strong because I have had to be, but I am not a dominant woman. I like trying new things, learning new things and just experiencing life, but I do live a fairly low key life, with moments of excitement thrown in to keep things interesting. I appreciate the arts and would love to go to more theater events. Live music, museums, cultural events and art fairs are definitely an interest.I love motorcycles and fast cars. Tattoos and rock-n-roll. I have 5 tattoos. They are not random and all hold special meaning. I predict I will have more. All of them can be covered by clothing or my hair. I can enjoy most types of music, but am a rock-n-roll girl at heart. 80's rock, 90's alternative, modern rock, and alt rock are my favorites. I am a bibliophile. I love books and reading. I could browse a book store for hours or read in the library hidden in a corner all afternoon. I read just about anything that strikes me. That being said, I love good, quality TV and movies. Well written shows that surprise you each week or consistently make you laugh. I like action, suspense, drama, sci-fi/fantasy, and some romantic type movies, (but would rather wait to watch those on netflix.)If you've made it this far, something must be catching your eye. So what am I looking for in a man? Here ya go:Must be able to support yourselfMust have your own residenceMust have your own transportation.Must put family at the top of your priority listMust like animalsOk, that's the list of "must haves." Sorry to be blunt, but hey, how else can you be on these sites?You should have a good sense of humor. Caring, compassionate, intelligent, witty, spiritual but not overly religious, hard worker, determined, kind, open minded, accepting of other's opinions and loving. I like a man who can enjoy a quick witted conversation. I tend to have my moments of sarcasm as well. Be strong and sure of yourself. Confidant but not arrogant. I like to feel "girly" and feminine with a man. Remind me I'm a woman.Questions? Ask me anything. I'm an open book. There's so much more to me than pictures and a few trite words. Tell me, what is your passion? What quirky things set you apart from the other guys? First meeting should be casual. Cup of coffee or a drink. No expectations so that neither of us are uncomfortable and looking for an excuse to run! :-) If we hit it off and want to spend more time together, then great!

  • Matilda

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I'm looking to meet that special someone to spend my life with. I am sincere, caring, honest, and hard working. I enjoy reading, spending time with friends, watching movies, listening to almost all types of music, going for walks, as well as just hanging out at home. (I know, sounds like every other stereotypical profile.) I am not really into the bar scene but when I do go out, I prefer a place where I can still carry on a conversation. I am very close to my family and they are an important part of my life. I'm pretty easy-going and enjoy pretty much everything when I enjoy the people I'm with! Believe it or not, I'm a bit of a tomboy. I make my nephew's birthday cake every year, including one pretty sweet "Mystery Machine".Honesty and family are important to me and I'm looking for a partner who also shares these values. I would like to meet a guy that I can have both a serious conversation with, as well as a few good laughs. The man I would like to meet is confident and self assured, but isn't full of himself with an over-inflated ego. Our personalities should compliment each other, making every pothole a little smoother and every smile a little sweeter. For a first date, I guess I like to keep it fairly simple. I prefer to meet for coffee, lunch or a drink. I think it's important to be in an environment where you can actually have a conversation without a lot of distractions. How else are you going to get to know each other and see if there is anything worth pursuing?

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