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Elaina, 38

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About Me

I'm easy-going, funny, kind, self sufficient, independent, artistic, a lover of the arts, music, animals and my new life! Recently divorced after way too many years in a bad relationship, and very much looking forward to what my future holds! I would like to meet a tall, non-smoking professional man. He must have a job, a car and a place to live. I have my life together, and I prefer to be with someone that does as well! Ultimately, I would love to find a relationship, but what happened to dating??? Seems to me like everyone wants to jump in like you've known each other for 10 years. Getting to know someone is the fun part! I miss the butterflies when I'm so excited to see someone! If you feel the same, I look forward to hearing from you! Meeting somewhere fairly quiet, so that we can get to know one another. Maybe over dinner and a glass of wine. Laughter and conversation flow effortlessly. And then we both end up grinning all the way home because we felt that "spark!"

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Zona

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    This thing says I want a relationship. I am in no hurry... friendships are relationships too...just of a different nature.I like to garden and paint...cook and be with friends. Spent most of my adult life (since my children were 2 and 3), alone and taking care of them. They are now 12, and 13. I stay away from dating for the most part because I don't want to loose. When a person loves someone truly, they reset their priorities to build a better relationship. I have friends....a lot of them and they all know each other. I know people from all walks of live, every race, religion, and sexual preference. I value my friendships like family. They are my family and have always had my back. I feel that if I were to fall in love again, the person would want to meet the people that come and go into my life. I've been in Cruces for 7 years. I have friends all over the country. I believe in perfect trust... If I were to date again, he would have to be capable of that. In my life I have learned that a relationship has to have three things: Trust, The willingness to be open for that person, and a killer sex life (If physically capable; that only comes w trust and open mind and heart). Without one of these........it is sure to fail. Id rather be alone if I have to sacrifice who I am, what I believe in, or the people I love and consider my family.I'm not a player, not into the party scene, and I do not pretend to be someone I'm not. Not a bad trade of for the seasonal broken heart. My sons have known only one man to seriously be in my life. It didn't last. They are still young and do not need anything but a friend....in the true sense of the word; be cool to them, respect their home and their opinions.... I home school them, and we are happy.Chivalry is not dead, I think a man should protect and care for his woman. Keep her safe, and look out for her mind, body, and heart. I think a woman should BE the 'safe zone' of a man's life....to care for him and trust his judgement.P.S. I clean houses. If you need yours cleaned, please hit me up. As long as it resulted in lightening my smile and a connection I think it wouldn't matter where we were or what we did. I can cook better than most restaurants, so I don't need to be fed lol. I do not need a roommate, I have a home of my own. I do not need presents (but I like flowers :)), I already have what I want.

  • Jillian

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Hello. I am hoping to meet someone to spend my life with, until then I would like to meet fun people to hang out with.- so I have seen this area change a lot. I am a laid back person. I left the clubbing and bar scenes in my twenties have no intention of going back to that. I do like to go out to a bar / restaurant to have a couple drinks and a lot of laughs with friends. I enjoy laughing and making people laugh. I like to get out and try new things. There is nothing better than a cook out at home with friends and family coming over. Occasionally I do like going to see live music. I listen to most types of music, but mostly I listen to country and rock.

  • Shirleen

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Hello i am a single mother raising a 14 year old boy, which i think is my best thing ever i have done ;)I am very laid back country girl that enjoys the city but not to live. I enjoy my dog and would love to find someone that enjoys hiking and camping and would love to be able to one Friday just decide to go away for the weekend or the night. I have a autistic (aspergers) son so he will be with me even after 18 and its a must that your ok with that. I also have really bad arthritis so there are days when we may have plans for a hike/walk or physical activities and i may have to reschedule and its not cause i am being mean but it comes without warning. I love to laugh cause i truly believe that laughter cures all hurts physically and emotionally.. I have been told when i laugh it brighten up their day as well. I also like to watch action movies and have a nice home cooked meal either in the kitchen together or on the grill..I am looking for someone that can see the beauty of a woman from the inside out and is not afraid of someone that is not perfect. I am not afraid of what you look like as long as you are honest loving and faithful. I must have someone that can make me laugh show me respect and can show that they care without having sex. I am also looking for a man that is alright being more than a step dad but someone that my son can look up for direction and advise and be able to follow their footsteps. He does have a "father" but there are some things lacking in that relationship. Please mail me if your interested in talking/chatting. and we will go from there. i am looking for MY perfect guy. it prob isn't everyones so i won't say the perfect guy cause that doesn't exists.I need someone that can understand a auto immune disease and special needs kids. I need someone that when things are bad that he can just hold me or make me laugh so things are not bad anymore. I am also looking for a man that is a one woman type guy. and one that won't send me pictures of their penis through a text message that is a for sure way to have me delete you and never talk to you again. I am old school and i am looking for someone that has morals and can show that.Another note for those great guys out there: the best thing you can do for a woman when your first dating is call for a simple "hello, how are you" or "i was thinking of you" those two things i promise is painless and best of all free the flowers and honey to do lists will come later LOL thank you!!! not sure..i would love to talk on the phone and chat online before meeting. i am very shy and needs to know i am safe with the guy before i go out with him ;) so a good dinner out would be great or even a lunch on the weekend.

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