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This thing says I want a relationship. I am in no hurry... friendships are relationships too...just of a different nature.I like to garden and paint...cook and be with friends. Spent most of my adult life (since my children were 2 and 3), alone and taking care of them. They are now 12, and 13. I stay away from dating for the most part because I don't want to loose. When a person loves someone truly, they reset their priorities to build a better relationship. I have friends....a lot of them and they all know each other. I know people from all walks of live, every race, religion, and sexual preference. I value my friendships like family. They are my family and have always had my back. I feel that if I were to fall in love again, the person would want to meet the people that come and go into my life. I've been in Cruces for 7 years. I have friends all over the country. I believe in perfect trust... If I were to date again, he would have to be capable of that. In my life I have learned that a relationship has to have three things: Trust, The willingness to be open for that person, and a killer sex life (If physically capable; that only comes w trust and open mind and heart). Without one of these........it is sure to fail. Id rather be alone if I have to sacrifice who I am, what I believe in, or the people I love and consider my family.I'm not a player, not into the party scene, and I do not pretend to be someone I'm not. Not a bad trade of for the seasonal broken heart. My sons have known only one man to seriously be in my life. It didn't last. They are still young and do not need anything but a friend....in the true sense of the word; be cool to them, respect their home and their opinions.... I home school them, and we are happy.Chivalry is not dead, I think a man should protect and care for his woman. Keep her safe, and look out for her mind, body, and heart. I think a woman should BE the 'safe zone' of a man's life....to care for him and trust his judgement.P.S. I clean houses. If you need yours cleaned, please hit me up. As long as it resulted in lightening my smile and a connection I think it wouldn't matter where we were or what we did. I can cook better than most restaurants, so I don't need to be fed lol. I do not need a roommate, I have a home of my own. I do not need presents (but I like flowers :)), I already have what I want.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jamila

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    HELLO! I'm Becky, I may be 39yrs old but I don't look it! I'm in search of a man who shares similar interests as myself (read above) and has a great smile with pretty teeth, that's a must! I love ladybugs, long walks and super cheesy romance novels. (no I'm not an alcoholic!) I'm really hoping to find a companion who likes to spend time with his woman. I'm a very affectionate person, however I an NOT looking for just a hook up!! I am a relationship type woman with a lot of love to share. I'm very active with both of my children and I play a lot of softball! I work in health care so I do work some weekends and most holidays. That can make it a little tough for dating, but if your willing we will make it work! If you've read this and think we could be a match, send me a message! Hope to hear from you soon!!! An ideal first date would be anything that would allow me to talk to you and get to know you better!

  • Ohndreea

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    It's time for me to be part of more, so here I am. I can't hide my profile, so I guess I'm staying until one of you gives me a reason to hit "delete profile" :)I am caring, intelligent and will always be a health-care-provider. I guess you'd say I am my own person. I am close to my family and animals. We're all here mostly for the same reason. We're finding that we are in need of more people in our lives. I have 2 horses and I try to exercise them as much as I can. I have 3 cats in my house; 2 of which are mine. I love most anything with 4 legs .I was never granted 2-legged children, so, my children all have 4 legs :). I like tattoos and have a few. What catches my attention? Animal-lovers, intelligence (speaks well), muscles as well as a list of other things! My favourite music is country...has been for a long time. I do like other genres, but I stick to new country most of the time. My horses like it too! I enjoy working but prefer work where I feel like I am looking after people. Although I'm in office now, I spent a dozen or so years as a pharmacy technician, so I am good at medical stuff. A friend just told me that somewhere out there, there's a special someone for me. I hope she's right. So if you have a healthy-lifestyle and can make me laugh, message me!

  • Maxie

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I stay in the house a lot. I like to watch TV and play on my computer. I am a introvert who likes my space. I have an autistic 10 year old son and a bossy pre pubescent 7 year old daughter. I live in a small 2 bedroom apartment with 5 cats and the kids in a very small town. I have a massive vintage collection. Vintage everything, clothes, furniture, housewares, decor, everything. I'm a bit weird but a lot smart. You have to be smart too. I do not like being told what to do. I am a very independent self sufficient woman. I have very strong liberal views. I don't date conservatives. I've tried, it doesn't work. I am also very non religious. I am atheist and anti-theist. Debunking religion is an internet hobby of mine. I am very much into the anti-capitalist, anti-government, anti-worldpower movements like occupy, wikileaks and anonymous. I do not like being told what to do. I won't tell you what to do either. It's about being chilled and relaxed. I have great kegel muscles. I smoke cigarettes take cannabis and am addicted to caffeine. I do not drink alcohol at all. I have a licence but no car atm. I do not like country music. Johnny Cash is the exception. I love all other music, all era's. My favourite era's ***'s and 90's but I like them all. Most genres. ****************FRIENDLY*****************I am hippy dippy. I love nature,dirty bare feet, science and all that jazz. I really like musicals. I like to grow things. I am a tree hugger and a creature lover. I sell homemade jewelry, vintage dresses and other various vintage items on the internet. I work from home. *******************Friendly*************.My goals and ambitions are to explore making more money in the vintage business. Ultimately before I die I would like to live in a cabin in the woods with nothing around me but peace....and some rocking chairs and cats and gardens and my kids and woodlands and the internet. I want someone who is aware of the world and daily events. I want someone to have adult conversations with. I want someone who is smart/intelligent/average-high IQ. Someone who isn't clingy. Someone who doesn't have to touch me all the freaking time. Someone who enjoys his own privacy and his own space. Someone who is mature. I am almost 40. You should probably be a bit older. Someone with life experience. Someone who isn't racist, homophobic, or right winged. Someone who is chilled out, relaxed and comfortable, Someone who is not likely to gossip. Preferably someone who doesn't drink. I don't care if you smoke. I'd prefer if you took cannabis but it is not required. Any disapproval or criticism of my using will not be tolerated. You should probably like the internet. Don't make me watch sports and I won't make you watch glee. You should probably work. If you don't then you need to be self sufficient. Men who travel a lot for work are welcome. I won't nag you about never being home. Never. I am looking for a companion, partner and friend who I can bang once in a while. Is that you? Go for a drive. You drive. Get coffee and water. Park at a beach or in the trees or wherever. Smoke. Explore one another. (I mean our minds you perv haha)

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