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United States, Michigan, Sandusky

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This thing says I want a relationship. I am in no hurry... friendships are relationships too...just of a different nature.I like to garden and paint...cook and be with friends. Spent most of my adult life (since my children were 2 and 3), alone and taking care of them. They are now 12, and 13. I stay away from dating for the most part because I don't want to loose. When a person loves someone truly, they reset their priorities to build a better relationship. I have friends....a lot of them and they all know each other. I know people from all walks of live, every race, religion, and sexual preference. I value my friendships like family. They are my family and have always had my back. I feel that if I were to fall in love again, the person would want to meet the people that come and go into my life. I've been in Cruces for 7 years. I have friends all over the country. I believe in perfect trust... If I were to date again, he would have to be capable of that. In my life I have learned that a relationship has to have three things: Trust, The willingness to be open for that person, and a killer sex life (If physically capable; that only comes w trust and open mind and heart). Without one of these........it is sure to fail. Id rather be alone if I have to sacrifice who I am, what I believe in, or the people I love and consider my family.I'm not a player, not into the party scene, and I do not pretend to be someone I'm not. Not a bad trade of for the seasonal broken heart. My sons have known only one man to seriously be in my life. It didn't last. They are still young and do not need anything but a friend....in the true sense of the word; be cool to them, respect their home and their opinions.... I home school them, and we are happy.Chivalry is not dead, I think a man should protect and care for his woman. Keep her safe, and look out for her mind, body, and heart. I think a woman should BE the 'safe zone' of a man's life....to care for him and trust his judgement.P.S. I clean houses. If you need yours cleaned, please hit me up. As long as it resulted in lightening my smile and a connection I think it wouldn't matter where we were or what we did. I can cook better than most restaurants, so I don't need to be fed lol. I do not need a roommate, I have a home of my own. I do not need presents (but I like flowers :)), I already have what I want.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I know who I am and I am happy with me, you should be happy with yourself too. I enjoy going to lounges, movies, the beach, Zumba classes with my friends, weekend getaways and gardening. I am down to earth, and can have as much fun going out to a huge party as I can just staying home and cuddling up to a good movie. NYC is so alive and vibrant and I enjoy eveything it has to offer! ...I'm always happy to meet new people, even if we don't click. =)***WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. *** It is recommended that other members post a similar notice.*** Keep it simple~> meet for coffee if the chemistry is right, then we can make a real date ;)

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Hi!! I just have one question, is there any real men left out there?!? I am an easy going female who enjoys the simple things in life. For me it isnt how much money you have or the material things you have. It is the quality time you can spend with me. I want a man who will treat me right, and be my rock when I am not strongI want a man who can make me laugh when I want to cry, and I would like him to make as important in his life as I make him important in mine.If you have any qurstions please ask me. Frist date? Well it has been a long time since I was on one of those. I would have to say dinner and a movie or just sitting and talking over coffee or going for a ride... But sometimes the best frist dates are the ones that you don't plan you just play by ear.

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