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Arlena, 40

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About Me

I am a very family oriented person and I am looking for that special someone that will fit. I enjoy working out,playing softball. I love watching baseball,football games on tv and in person. I am a very simple girl,laid back and easy to get along with. A nice dinner with good conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Precious

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I have to admit that I dont read these descriptions too much when I look at someone's page. I've found that it's easy for someone to claim to be anything they wish they were, when in reality, they may be completely different. BUT..., since I need to put something - here it goes. I'd love to eventually find a partner - someone who has my back and I have his, a united front to take on the world and the good and bad within it. Someone who if I say "I need to bury a body", would respond without question "I'll get the shovel" LOL. Someone who makes me feel secure and gives me NO reason to believe he is anything other than what he presents to me. Someone I can have a good time with, who makes me laugh and have fun, someone who makes me excited to spend time together, someone who makes me want to be my best, and who inspires me to open up and share myself, . I have lots of friends, great career, and busy social life. I'm very satisfied and am looking for someone to add to my already full life - I'm not looking for a penpal or a buddy - I get bored quick with back and forth *** get asked out alot, and have had men in the last year or two who;ve wanted to start a relationship with me. I decided a few years ago that for me to invest myself, it had to be with someone on my level - meaning - someone who wants the same things out of life, out of a relationship and who views the world and personal values/character the same as I do. This is not easy to find which is why I turn down alot of invitaions for dates. I'm at a point in my life where unless I see something that could grow, I'd rather spend time with my friends, my dog or doing things I enjoy at home. WHat I like to do..... Well, if you read the above, you can tell that I am self confident and know what I want, I'm very passionate about things and people I care about, if you get my attention, you;ll have it completely. I like to have fun - go out to dinner, hang with friends, go to lounges, get dressed up, take my dog to the park, lay in bed when its raining, cook, watch movies, horseback riding, biking, being outside, being home, reading, love to travel but hate to fly, love being spontaneous - but also like to plan ahead so I can fit everything in that I want to do on my free time, I like a "real" man who can make me feel protected and feminine but at the same time can look me in the eye and tell me how he's feeling. Someone who;s not a push-over but willing to compromise. on the flip side.....I can have moments of insecurity or uncertainty. I'm very sensitive and can pull back easily. I can be impatient and hard-headed. I'm very smart but can be an air-head,I can be naive one minute and very skeptical the next, I admit I can be "crazy" if I'm put in the situation that brings it out in me. I've been heartbroken and lied to so I can have a hard time trusting if I feel someone is being shadey. I've broken hearts and made mistakes, I've learned hard lessons, but am grateful b/c I'm now better prepared for the next person that comes into my life. I do stupid things and I'm far from perfect - and I kinda like me that way ;-), so.....not expecting to find the perfect man - just the one who's perfect for ME ! Youre the man....you plan it

  • Nova

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Hi, so I'm not here looking for a relationship for completion, looking for one to where we compliment eachother. A person shouldn't need someone to be or feel complete. ;). Right?I am not a serial dater nor am I looking for one. I am here hopefully to find my future one and only..I'm not looking to be a future house wife either..I like having and making my own money. I want all around partnership with our income and the CHORES..;0)I would love to end up being that 80yr old couple that still walks around holding hands..Still being as much "in love" as the day they got married...Rare but it's out there...best friends for life.. I see way to many couples who's marriages end up being passionless.One of just content commitment..So if you are only looking for a hook up keep moving..I am not that kinda girl at all! There are lots of skanks on here I am not one of them.. No cats or pit bulls...sorry. (I am allergic to cats... Pitbulls scare me. my dog and I were pounced on by one that on by one that got loose) ;I always try to see the positive in things..I am not the least bit interested in negative people. Keep that " black cloud" away!One of the keys to my heart is to make me laugh..can you do that....;0) I love to cook and experiment with recipes... love love love dogs. Big on the whole rescue thing! I have one he is my lil boy.. not a dog.lol. Don't worry he doesn't fit in my purse, I don't have a stroller for him and he doesn't come shopping. But he is everything to me.I am honest, can't stand liars, dedicated,compassionate,silly, simple go with the flow kinda girl......A little bit of smartass at times but in a funny way...I can be somewhat animated with my expressions..don't even realize I am doing it half the time..so you'll probably know what I'm thinking even if I don't say it..haha. No poker face here.Oh I do change my hair color often..lol always shades of brown..sometimes reddish ..just sayin..lol My Family is everything to me, you have to be family oriented too.I love food and trying new things just nothing crazy like bull balls or cow brains..lolI love music. just about all types...not into heavy metal or rap.Speaking of music, when at a party I get up and dance!( No I don't fist pump..lol.) So if you are the type to just sit, boooooo. I wanna learn and try line dancing looks like fun..all I know is cha cha slide and meetville shuffle..there is so much more to explore ...haahaI'd love to meet someone who's not afraid to let the kid inside out every so often..**********The reason I put open/undecided on having kids is because if I did, it would more than likely have to be through adoption,,, I will explain if we get to that point.. and you if you have kids that's great.! As long as there is no "mama drama"!..;o)This may seem like TMI. I'm just being upfront. I don't want to waste your time.PRIVACY NOTICEWarning--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one

  • Jack

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Bottom line, IF I give you my number, it is to get to know you, not for you to use to text me because you are bored, looking for a hookup, need a phone friend or cheating on a significant other. Also don't text me for a day or two and then decide to just pursue another girl, wondering what the heck I did wrong. Wait a minute I did NOTHING wrong, they are the jerks and I deserve better!I will be honest right off the bat. I am not attracted to bigger and heavier men, I do not date out of my race and I at least hope you have a car. Call me picky but I've been duped enough in the dating world on and off this site to know who I want to get to know. So what to say about myself. Well for starters I've never been married and have no kids. I don't know if I will have any of my own but will open my life and heart to someone else's.I just recently graduated with a specialized diploma in Medical Billing and Coding and work in data entry for a medical billing company. I also work part time in retail and have had that job since October ***.. One thing I am not is a liar. I do not play games, I do not BS around. I am straight up honest and to the point about who I am and who I am not. I have been mislead, lied to, and used. I am too old for those games. I am easygoing and fun to be around. I am looking for someone who accepts me for me. I don't look like everyone else and it's a medical condition that I've had for a very long time. It is what it is and it comes with the package. I have legs to walk, arms to hug, eyes that see and a heart capable of love. I love laughter, smiling, being silly and want to share great moments of my life with that special someone.One of my passions is Philly sports, I am a fan no matter what the season is like. I take in all the trashing from the rivals and I have a license plate on my car to prove my devotion to the Philly teams. I also love karaoke, hiking, camping, writing poetry from time to time and just enjoying life as it comes and goes. I currently live with friends and sadly both my parents have passed on. They did a wonderful job at raising me though and I couldn't be more thankful. So that is a semi-short introduction to who I am and who you could get to know.The rest is up to you.Also, I am not a racist by any means but please do not write me if you are not white. It is a personal preference. I have friends of other races, I just choose not to date other races. Thanks for understanding. For a first date it would depend on who the person is and what our interests are but the dinner and a movie route is typical but sometimes it isn't the best date. Dinner is good for conversation and getting started on learning about each other but a movie isn't always the best bet. A better choice would be a comedy club or a walk in a park or the beach or even strolling through the mall. I think an ideal fun date would be to go to dinner and then possibly go for a walk or be really silly and crazy and go to a toy store and unleash that inner child after a long work week. We all have one and sometimes it just wants to come out. Another ideal fun date would be a concert of a local band at a bar or club. As long as the company is good any date can be fun. Even a day date of a hike and a picnic aftewards can be pretty amazing. Oh yeah a date at a sporting event would be awesome as well!

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