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Arielle, 36
United States, Michigan, Saint Joseph

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About Me

I am looking for dating to get to know someone and hopefully in time, a long term relationship. I am not looking to jump into anything. This to me means several "dates" to see if we have the ability to have fun together and if there is some sort of spark. These are both important to me. If not, I am happy being friends, (if that is of interest to you, and who knows maybe something will come of it) or just saying good luck to each other and part ways, if that is your preference. I know that everyone has different intentions on here. I personally, am not interested in bringing sex into the equation until I know that I feel that these two connections.So we all know it is hard to describe ourselves in a box...but a few things. Me: I am honest, loyal and straightforward, big on good communication, introspective, and very supportive...I am very open minded but sometimes get caught up in my opinion and don't want to admit I was off base, but I will do it anyway (cause what else are you going to do :))...I am very focused on fitness because it makes me feel good...I am very independent and at times also like to be taken care of....I have days when I want to go out and be active all day and other days where I just want to relax...I like having a partner to do things with, and when I am in a relationship, it is my priority second only to my daughter (b/c she is my daughter :***I will drink on occasion, but do not want to go get drinks and am not a bar person. I work in Real Estate and have often odd and usually flexible hours. Oh, I like to type with "..." and " :) " intertwined. Goals:To stay fit and healthy; to have fun in life; advance my career; to consistently be able to travel; to set up my finances for retirement; constant self improvement; acquiring investment properties; to find someone to do all of this with, who is committed to us, and to hopefully at some point marry; to one day have a beach house; to spend more time playing guitar and keep active in my many interests; to improve my limited Spanish...oh, I could keep going!I am always trying to improve myself and learn. You and what I am looking for in a partner**I have had several guys message me "Good luck finding all that" & I to them I say "Thank you!"***SINGLE & looking for the end goal of a long term relationship and possibly/hopefully marriage.*Honest, loyal, committed, diverse*Emotionally stable and at least somewhat introspective*Able to communicate and willing to work through disagreements (as we all know life has bumps)*Open minded and non-judgmental*Intelligent and easy to talk to*Financially stable *Funny (I LOVE to laugh) and FUN (so important)*Fit and active*Like to try out new things, easy going, ok to plan a day/event or just wing it and have fun *Romantic (I like a man who is willing to plan a date, surprise me, bring home dinner b/c he knows I am busy, step out of work to meet for lunch, etc)*Affectionate... ( I am big on spending time together, touch, hugging, holding hands, a sweet text or unexpected phone call, even if only for a minute b/c you are at work)*And of course, good chemistry...really, you can't get too far without that.Bonus points if you are good at: *Planning fun, original and at time romantic dates. *Play guitar.*Are into investment properties.OTHER MISCELLANEOUS INFORMATION ABOUT ME:Hobbies:Fitness (running, weight lifting, Bikram Yoga lately, kayaking, hiking, rock climbing at times, anything outdoors), Painting/Drawing, Photography, Reading, Exploring & Travel (ie.; salted caramel frozen yogurt), The beach, Learning (I am trying to teach myself guitar, have recently taken a few salsa lessons, read "self improvement" and finance books), looking for investment properties.Recent Reading:Books: The Passage, The Game of Thrones series, The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo seriesMagazines: Money, Maxim, Men's Health/Fitness (It is better than the women's version), Popular PhotographyMusic:I will listen to most anything with the exception of heavy metal and hard core rap.Food:I do not really eat fried foods and I tend to eat healthy at home.When going out (or if you now how to cook it) I love ethnic cuisine, Lebanese, Mexican, Indian, etc.Did I say I am obsessed with salted caramel frozen yogurt...who invented that deliciousness. Dark chocolate.Movies:I like a mix...love the Marvel comic movies, comedies (not the overly stupid ones), anything with Will Ferrel, action movies, drama, a few of the artsy movies......lol...mindless things to relax to...(old TV: The Wire--great show)***Also, assuming you got this far, I have one child, I am not sure that I want more. If you are dead set on having children, you may wish to choose someone else or at least make this clear to at some point be discussed. I can be an idealist of sorts, but on this point, I am a realist and know there is not much of a way to "compromise" it. I am guessing this is what I would like to do for a first date?!?LunchHikingKayakingPicnicConcertCoffeeOR Pick me up in your private jet and take me to an exotic island to go scuba diving and have lunch on the beach...Anything else really cool that you can think of...Also, in the long run, I prefer talking to texting. Texting has a purpose, but I do not want a relationship by text :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Reggae Mexican Middle Eastern
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