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Ilean, 40

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About Me

Just looking to meet new people & maybe have a drink/coffee somewhere quieter to chat. Been burnt badly this year & not sure where to start again so just looking for friends first. I don't drink a lot but I do enjoy going out to hear local bands, like rock, metal, punk, some country, no (c)rap. I know some people put on their profiles 'not into the bar scene' so maybe 2x a month do I get to go out. I work some weekends. Everyone tells me that I have a great personality & I like to laugh & joke around. Looking for someone who is employed, drives, doesn't live w/ parents, no druggies & knows what they want out of life or have accomplished a lot of their life's goals. I have two teenagers & two jobs so I have a work ethic & my life is a bit hectic at times. I don't smoke but that doesn't mean I wouldn't date someone who does. I would just ask you not to smoke in my house!Don't message me w/ vulgar comments that is a definate no response. One good thing about this site. I had a bad experience on another site a few years ago so that is why I ask for no rude/vulgar comments.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Nova

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Hi, so I'm not here looking for a relationship for completion, looking for one to where we compliment eachother. A person shouldn't need someone to be or feel complete. ;). Right?I am not a serial dater nor am I looking for one. I am here hopefully to find my future one and only..I'm not looking to be a future house wife either..I like having and making my own money. I want all around partnership with our income and the CHORES..;0)I would love to end up being that 80yr old couple that still walks around holding hands..Still being as much "in love" as the day they got married...Rare but it's out there...best friends for life.. I see way to many couples who's marriages end up being passionless.One of just content commitment..So if you are only looking for a hook up keep moving..I am not that kinda girl at all! There are lots of skanks on here I am not one of them.. No cats or pit bulls...sorry. (I am allergic to cats... Pitbulls scare me. my dog and I were pounced on by one that on by one that got loose) ;I always try to see the positive in things..I am not the least bit interested in negative people. Keep that " black cloud" away!One of the keys to my heart is to make me laugh..can you do that....;0) I love to cook and experiment with recipes... love love love dogs. Big on the whole rescue thing! I have one he is my lil boy.. not a dog.lol. Don't worry he doesn't fit in my purse, I don't have a stroller for him and he doesn't come shopping. But he is everything to me.I am honest, can't stand liars, dedicated,compassionate,silly, simple go with the flow kinda girl......A little bit of smartass at times but in a funny way...I can be somewhat animated with my expressions..don't even realize I am doing it half the time..so you'll probably know what I'm thinking even if I don't say it..haha. No poker face here.Oh I do change my hair color often..lol always shades of brown..sometimes reddish ..just sayin..lol My Family is everything to me, you have to be family oriented too.I love food and trying new things just nothing crazy like bull balls or cow brains..lolI love music. just about all types...not into heavy metal or rap.Speaking of music, when at a party I get up and dance!( No I don't fist pump..lol.) So if you are the type to just sit, boooooo. I wanna learn and try line dancing looks like fun..all I know is cha cha slide and meetville shuffle..there is so much more to explore ...haahaI'd love to meet someone who's not afraid to let the kid inside out every so often..**********The reason I put open/undecided on having kids is because if I did, it would more than likely have to be through adoption,,, I will explain if we get to that point.. and you if you have kids that's great.! As long as there is no "mama drama"!..;o)This may seem like TMI. I'm just being upfront. I don't want to waste your time.PRIVACY NOTICEWarning--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one

  • Felica

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I thought for a second I might have met someone. But, nope, still here :)...... But, I think friends only is what I need for a bit.Hi :) I'm a single mother of three. My oldest has moved out of the house. :( I've been divorced for 8 years and have well put that behind me. Well, let's see, I definitely would like to find a serious relationship eventually. But I think you have to spend at least a little time getting to know someone first to see if they fit into that category. Chemistry is more immediate, but you gotta have that too. ;). I'm sort of on a voyage right now to spend more time being happy. I woke up one day and realized that I was letting all my burdens weigh me down. It was making me someone I didn't want to be. Lol, this is a work in progress, but I am on my way. The biggest lesson in that for me has been my own mindset more than any external factors. I am sort of rediscovering how to have fun.Like everyone, I love to laugh. But, I really want to find that person I can be comfortable and silly with. You know, someone you can play with?;, that's bonus points. Yeah, I can be goofy at times. :)A good communicator is a must. *** Or at least you have to be ok with listening to me chatter away. I am a thinker in this aspect and I enjoy it. I like studying the world and myself trying to figure out the whys to things. A guy who is intelligent enough to keep up with me on this front is a huge turn on. That being said, sometimes I need someone to pull me out of my own head. :)I consider my spirit a dancer. :) And, as such, I love live music. Although, I haven't been to see near enough in recent years. I can be both extroverted and introverted. It all just depends on my mood. (Typical Gemini)Right now, I don't have a lot of freedom for the spontaneous trips etc. Lol, but I dream of the day that I will. I think I vaguely remember that I liked to travel. ;) My point is I can't be taking off as I still have children at home. But, I'd like that to change someday when empty nest hits. :)Lastly, when I fall in love with someone, I am crazy loyal to them and, in my eyes, they are the only man in the world. First date, let's decide what works for both of us. But, before that, let's meet for a half hour and see if we are even interested.

  • Karlene

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I am a single mother of 2 and my children come first. I am a special education high school teacher. I enjoy bowling, reading, hanging out with family and friends, mini golf. Anything that you would like to know about me, feel free to ask.I am not looking for a one night stand so please move on if that is what you are looking for. Somewhere that we can talk and get to know each other.

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