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Shirley, 40

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About Me

I'm an extroverted european social butterfly (ENTP) and match well with men that have same kind of personality. If it's Wednesday and you don't know what to do Friday we are not a good match. I have passion for live music and shows, big cities, mountains, ocean, people, summer, bikini, tiki bars, kids, adrenaline kicks and great bodies. I am very "say it as it is", if you are sensitive we won't fit. I am busy and I like it like that. ***I'm not looking for a NSA or fwb relationship. I'm not against them, but it's a time for everything. If we fall in love that would be fantastic! (and you will have a sexy woman forever ;- I like to know your personality first, but not pen pals that's just waste of time. I might delete you if you just want to *** I like to be nr.1, the center of attention. Nothing like the real thing baby!My kids are 5 & 13 with shared custody. I do not want more kids, but it is fun and easier if you have kids too. If you aren't into being fit and eating healthy we won't get along since you will die of starvation if I choose the food. We all like visual attraction. I like my man fit, because it is sexy and healthy to me. My philosophy is that if women can stay in shape after giving birth to a couple of kids then men can definitely do it. Sooooooo if you read all that and looked at my pictures, you should have an idea of my personality.....***WHAT I LOVE: -fun -beaches -Coco Nut Joe's -Thievery Corportation -kids -fruit -vegetables -an active life -live music --NYC -sex -people -e&a -entertainment(entertain me :~) -white wine -happy hour -six packs -dancing -mountains -airshows -horse back riding(yee ha) -girls night out(dancing on the tables) -skiing -new people(new stories) -science -psychology -museums -Asian Food -9:30 club -MUSIC -events&adventure -echostage -to party "It's possible," said Pride"It's risky," said Experience "It's pointless," said Reason"Give it a try," whispered the Heart.AnonymousI prefer to do a first date doing something fun. This way if we decide that we are not a great romantic match, we both can have fun anyway. I think you see people's personality better when you do activities.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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