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About Me

I love to laugh but want to be serious sometimes too. I want someone who will challenge my mind but can be goofy and have fun. Music is a big part of me and so are my kids. All in all....I would love someone I could connect with on an intellectual level but not always have to be serious around, who will love my kids and accept me for all that I am.I will also tell you that I'm not "searching" the way some ladies are. I've been married, had kids, accomplished those "time sensitive" things already. If either or both happen again, that's fine, but if not, I'm OK with that too. Desperation is not part of my resume and neither are hook-ups. I like people and meeting new, interesting ones. Being on here is a bit of an experiment, I suppose. If I find someone that I enjoy being around and start a friendship with, that's great! If I marry again, that's good too. But finding forever is an elusive quest at best and I have no grand illusion that it will be easy or even happen at all. I'm a bit of a dichotomy, I suppose. I'm a romantic at heart and wish and hope for someone who will sweep me off my feet and change things for the better, but I'm also realistic and know that those sorts of things are subjective. It may not be a stereotypical, expected gesture that will do that, but something unexpected and unique, *** My perfect first date would be meeting somewhere for food and/or drinks (alcoholic or non, either is fine). Good conversation is a must! Laughter is also necessary and will happen if you let it. If I'm comfortable, we can talk for hours. If things go well, we'll want to see each other again and a little kiss might just end the night.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Suzi

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    HII am a single mom of two kids one of which just graduated high school,the other still lives at home with me. My kids mean the world to me,most of my time is spent with them.I enjoy going to the lake, getting together with family and friends... like to spend quiet moments with a special one either to cuddle or to watch movies. I am very low maintenance. If you have any questions, please message me. Maybe meet for a drink so we can talk and get to know each other...

  • September

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Wow! I've been using this site to meet people I wouldn't have met elsewhere. That explains a lot of it, because I don't hang out in brothels or trash dumps so I tend to NOT meet those types of people. However, I'd truly appreciate some decent people messaging me. I have met a few decent people on here though so I know it's possible. My main intent on here is to meet people with similar interests. I'm an independent woman. I have my own home and pride myself on taking care of it on my own. I'm financially secure, although I would really like to go back to school. I have four children. If that makes you cringe, don't waste either of our time. I'm not looking for a daddy or a paycheck. I do fine on my own. I also take care of myself so I don't need pictures of your junk or offers to "satisfy" me. It's getting old. I'm not very pretty and I have crooked teeth. I have a few extra pounds I picked up while being out of the gym, but I'm getting back to it. Ideally I would love to find a gym buddy on here if nothing else. I'm a great person who too often gives too much and gets taken advantage of. I like happy people. I like motivated people. I hope to meet someone that brings my mood up a level when we meet. I miss cuddling. I miss being close with someone. However I do not believe you can just jump right into any relationship. I want someone who can be my friend first, because after time that sparkle fades and you'd better have something to back it up. I moved back to N.Y. after a few years in NH. I grew up in the FingerLakes region and moved around a bit, but this is home and I just bought a huge beautiful house. I'm enjoying furnishing it with antiques and fixing it up the way I want. My main form of entertainment is riding my sportbike. I have a lot of interests and do many non-traditional things. I can dress up or wear jeans and work boots. I can cook and sew, as well as change my own brakes and remodel a house. The rest is up to you to find out. If you're interested in knowing more and you're not a PIG, feel free to drop me a line. If you use the meet me option, please write since I don't respond to those. I'm optimistically looking forward to hearing from some decent people. How about a motorcycle ride? A hike? A trip to the park? Fishing?

  • Mala

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I am a single mom of 3. We work very well together. Between work n the kids we r always on the go. Beaches, parks, sports, rivers n forest. My kids r my world. I am looking for someone who will appreciate our chaos and join in on the fun. I love a man who is respectful, playful and fun :) I am not looking to play any games, just chit chat n get to know New people. Probly some sort of food n walk. Wether at the beach, up the river or on the boardwalk. Maybe music n dancing?

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