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Debra, 39

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About Me

First of all, I am a musician and researcher in computer music. I'm in my dream job, working as a lecturer. I love all kinds of music, but I do not like talking about it. See, the problem is, I do weird music that most people do not like. In fact, most people don't even think it's music. So, they think they're meeting a musician, then hear what I do and get all disappointed. Then, on top of it all, it's my job to listen and talk about music. So I tend to avoid it socially. I do like going to concerts and shows - of all kinds of music. I really am open-minded.I like to read, paint and take photos. I love languages, but I'm only average at learning them. I have this idea that I could be the female equivalent of James Bond, charming people in their native tongue. I'm lucky I don't start international incidents. I love dancing, especially ballroom and salsa. But, I truly only go mad-dancing at home where no one's looking. Or on my Wii Zumba.I like going out and being with friends, but I often need alone time at home.I have a cat, but I'm not a crazy cat lady. Well, unless I do it on purpose to be funny.I like fixing things but have to work to *** I don't have ***, I'm hopeless. Changed the oil in my old car. But, I also short-circuited the entire kitchen of my grandmother's house by attempting to fix her toaster. The worst part was, she had Alzheimers, so about twice a day I had to explain to her what an idiot I am until I could get the electrician in.I don't own a television. Not because I'm a snob but because I'm an addict. I am looking for the real thing, which means taking a little longer. So, for a first date, I prefer a coffee and a chat. If we click, then maybe a meal. I prefer to do loads of talking to suss out compatibility and attraction. After that, well... I am up for adventures!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lovie

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I'm kind of into a lot of music but to be honest love the old stuff , Im very out going and love meeting new people , my family and friends are very important to me , I'm not into people that are selfish and are out for what they can get from others.I'm not into playing games and head wreckers , I want a guy who knows what he wants and isn't afraid to go and get it , I won't be a booty call or a friend with benefits , worth more than that , so if you know what you want than give me a shout and please have a pic , cause I've had to go public so should you . A walk , a coffee or a drink and a good ole laugh .

  • Candra

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I am fairly easy going, enjoy having a laugh and I enjoy the simple things in life. I am a bit handy around the house, especially for those guys that aren't DIY orienated, I have been known to hang some shelves....and yes, they are still standing. I remember to put oil in the car and can change the bulbs in the headlights....all the essentials covered, lol.What do I like...I like walks on the beach..cliché I know, but grew up next to one and living in midlands, I take any chance I get to go for walks on the beach. I've also been known to do a bit of fishing. I love sunsets and starry nights, you just need a warm blanket to snuggle up in and perhaps a glass of wine.I'm not a city chic, you won't find me browsing shops for hours on end, don't ask me about designers or celebs, or most of the soaps on TV, I know very little about them. I really let the side down,lol. You are more likely to find me digging up the garden, covered in clay, but I do have a girly side, I do mourn the loss of a nail if I break one, lol.I can honestly say that what I like most is the companionship that comes from being in a relationship ie the banter over dinner, or snuggling up on the couch with a glass of wine, watching favourite programmes on Tv while recounting the days activities. For me your partner should also be your best friend. Thats not to say that I like spending my time at home, I do like to hit the town for a meal or drinks... a girl has to get dolled up every now and then.If you would like to get to know me, drop me a line.

  • Launa

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I'm a fun loving easy going kind of girl who just loves to laugh and have fun , I'm also a girly girl , And I'm a lover of animals and a girl with a big heart , Some of the questions on this are really stupid like do u take drugs like who in there right mind is going to say NO ( bar the odd bit of crystal meth on a Saturday night lol ) I'm simply trying to afford for some young gentleman the opportunity to apply for the position of MY boyfriend , successful candidate - winner will be informed via message / *** man in my life needs 3 things1 confidence 2 charm 3 cash Lol I would also like this lucky candidate to be as funny or nearly as funny as me , and if ur half as funny with a great sense of humour like me and half as good looking as me we would b doing very well , lol If you have no photo I won't answer as it's only fair :)

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