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Theodora, 39

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About Me

and I didn't think it would be online! I'm not so easy going; I'm stubborn and opinionated; I'm honest and loyal. I enjoy my family and friends. I'm not here to make new friends! I have plenty of guy friends! So I need someone who is secure and confident with himself. I would like to find that best friend! I'm here to meet the right person for me, who I can't wait to see after a long work day and look forward to spending my evening as well as the weekends with. I like someone who has kind eyes and a beautiful smile. Smiling often is key! I like a kind heart and a wonderful sense of humor. Joking at inappropriate times or putting someone down to make yourself feel better is not funny or humorous! Chivalry is not dead in my eyes! Mannerism are a plus! I love the beach during the summer and play co-ed softball. I workout about ***times a week. During the winter, I love skiing and hanging out by a fireplace and watching movies (romantic comedies). Autumn is for fairs and wine tastings. Spring is that wakeup call that screams warning .. bathingsuit season fast approaching! I enjoy reading, mostly romance novels.OMG! I go from ***in less than a day, so I realized that I should update the profile to include a bit more of what I'm looking for! I tend to date Italian men (being Portuguese I'd like to find someone that understands and respects European culture). He's got to at least own a suit for those special occasions. Being single and never married with no children, I'd prefer to date men that have a similiar status. I'm not looking for someone who has a 6 or 12 pack and prefers to spend a great deal of time looking into a mirror; a 2 or 4 pack is fine; however, I don't care for men who enjoy being a couch potato and look like one too! If you enjoy drinking beer, that's fine, it just doesn't need to be a sitting around the waist for nine months. (Didn't I mention I'm not easy going .. add vain too!) I have never dated and would prefer not to date men who are African American, Asian and/or Indian. I have dated and would prefer NOT to date men who like wearing hawaiian shirts, listen to Jimmy Buffet and smoke pot; those currently dating or in a relationship; those confused about his sexuality; those looking for something casual and/or a noncommital relationship (I can find those without being on this site!). If you have cheated .. Ciao! Adios! Thanks for taking the time to read .. but Good Bye and good luck! I have no tolerance for cowards. Also, if you live in a foreign country (i.e.); however, I thought that was implied when I mentioned seeing and spending time with someone on weekends and after work. I'm not interested in helping anyone get a greencard. If your photo is dated before ***, I'm thinking you have been on this site since then and/or look way different now and not remotely close to the pic! I thank those ***for your sweet comments, and even thou I have dated younger, I'd rather not date younger or way younger .. If your age indicates that you are 37 but you look 57 in your pic, I most likely will not be interested. I think that should be it for now. I'm sure that there will be more to come. Didn't think I would have to write a novel, but if this eliminates those douchebags and jerkoffs that I wouldn't give the time of day to, then so be it! Did I just take myself from 60 back to 0 ? probably! coffee aka "cawfee"; a quick drink, appetizer optional

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for a real guy who knows what he wants....i have my career all set, i love my family and friends....all that is missing is a companion...i have always been considered "that" friend who will be single living THE life and my friends would envy me. i thought i wanted that too until THE life got old...i now know i am ready to open up and consider this relationship thing. open to anything

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    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I am a laid back individual and would definitely describe myself as an extrovert. I think I have a great sense of humor, and I am pretty sure most people I know would agree. I enjoy life to its' fullest and can have fun in almost any situation. Life is way too short and too much fun to sit around and let it idly pass me by. I like meeting new people, trying new things and always welcome a new adventure. I enjoy all types of outdoor activities and love to travel, whether it is a planned vacation or an impromptu road trip - I am game. I enjoy live music, kayaking, paddle boarding, hiking, going to the beach ect... I like to go out and have a good time, but don't feel the need to do so every night of the week. Besides, I believe that it is the company one keeps that makes for a good time and I am just as happy staying home, cooking dinner and watching movies. I can't really say that I have a an exact 'type' as everybody brings different attributes to the table which make them special - But am definitely attracted to someone who makes me laugh and can laugh at themselves. Life is way too short to be serious all of the time. I would like to able to learn a few things from my partner as well as teach them a few. I tend to be attracted to open-minded individuals. There are some amazing places on this planet and I would love someone to share my travels with. A sense of humor is a must and a little sarcasm (or a lot) never hurt anybody. If you want to know more, just ask..... Something fun and casual where we can talk and get to know each other. The best first dates are the ones that leave you excited to go on a second date.

  • Judith

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I have been devoting my time to raising my son the past few years and put finding my other half on hold but am interested in finding someone to share our life with. I'm actually a pretty shy person when put into some situations. Although people that know me would find that hard to believe.I'm a full time single mother (no ex/son's father in the picture) and have found it both challenging and rewarding! But it's the best gig in the world! My son completed my life and am thankful for him every day!I do have faith and God in my life. I do participate in church. I am by no means a bible banger but would appreciate finding someone that has the same beliefs and would like to share that part in my life as well.I grew out of the bar scene years ago and have no desire to live my weekends in a bar. So if that is your idea of a good way to spend your time off I wouldn't be a good fit.I would really love to meet someone that doesn't need to be surrounded by people all the time to feel important. I'm by no means a perfect person so I hope to find someone that accepts me for who I am and helps me be the very best version of myself.I have tried this site in the past and haven't really had any connections but still willing to give it another chance. It all depends on the season...so many choices

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