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About Me

I am on this site to have a relationship. If you are out to get a cheap thrill then don't even bother trying to chat with me. Have a little respect for people.A big turn off is just start talking to someone and you are already talking perverted or trying to hook up for sexual pleasure. May work with some females but not this one. Not trying to be on the mean side. I am a people person but come on. Read my info and you will see that is not what I want. I have separated on my profile as to not mislead or lie to anyone. I am legally married but been separated for almost 6 yrs now . Have not spoken or seen him in two yrs except for a child support hearing. There was a family issue back when as to why I did not get the divorce. Now it is more I don't have time, don't see a point as of right now and I don't really have the money. I don't really have much for hobbies. I do love to hang out with my friends. If I am with them then I am having fun. My one true goal in life is that my kids are respectful and grow to be somebody someday. People tell me I have an amazing personality. Not sure I believe them though. One thing that makes me unique is I love people. I am very kind to whom ever I meet. My friends tell me I am too kind. They are the world to me. I forgive a bunch of things and people. I do however hate liars. Do not hurt my children or lie to me and all will be fantastic. I listen to music that comes on 95.1. My kids got me into listening to it. I can handle country and other genres. Singing is a passion of mine but do not ask me to sing in front of a crowd. I am indecisive because I do not ask for much of anything and am happy with the little things. I start off shy when I am outside of my environment if that makes sense. Then after I am very outgoing. I tend to sit back and observe people. This gives me a chance to know what I can do or say around them as to not offend them. I do care for people. Most times too much. I rather help people than to ask for help. I am someone that answers questions so if you have any you want to ask go for it. I don't ask too many myself though.I am looking for a great guy. One that is not out there for a friend with benefits. Know a few guys which that is all they want. They are my friends but are still trying to get me to be a friend with benefits. I am not at all for that. I am not the type to sleep with people just for fun. Sex is really unimportant to me. I want to find a man, be friends with him and see where it goes. Don't want to rush into anything either. I have been hurt a few times before and don't want that and I have my children to think about. They come first in my life and will be included in any relationship I do have. If they feel the man is not treating them right or me then the man will be kicked to the curb.I have been told I am the type of person to try anything. I do know I will never sky dive or bungie jump. I do like to salt water fish. Would love one day to deep sea fish but not sure how I would handle being on the water. I would also like to go on a wave runner. Never have and looks like a bunch of fun. I think that covers most of it for now.If you want to meet me or get to know me then send a message. See how things go from there. I am not a picky person; very indecisive because I usually have fun just hanging out. The bar seen is not my style. Maybe dinner and a movie would be a great first date. Dinner and a nice walk would be fine too.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Christin

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Im fun out Going and ready to meet new Peolpe A nice dinner and good conversation a few****ails and hope we hit It off

  • Elois

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I consider myself a positive and happy person. I am a single mother and feel family is very important.I'm at my best in jeans and a t-shirt, yet I can easily dress up if need be! I'm not your girlie girl who is afraid to get her hands dirty, but I also can be the girly girl when the situation calls for it. It's fair to say....I like to surround myself with good positive people and I always try to act with kindness... However, I can be honest to a fault if the situation calls for it. I'm trying to find that guy that is the right combination of easy going, confident, active, has a good sense of humor and someone I can have a good time with no matter where we are or what we are doing!I am not looking for someone to take care of me, I have been doing that for several years on my own now, but I am looking for someone to share my life with. I AM NOT looking for the "hook-up". I do want to find a friend that grows into a committed relationship!!! I AM NOT into playing games or people who say one thing and do the exact opposite. If you are younger than 30 or over 51 then I AM NOT interested. I do not date outside my race. If you are wanting to date multiple people at once then I'm not for you. I'm sorry if this offends anyone, it is not my intention but there is no use in wasting your time or my time.I am affectionate and" touchy feely" if you aren't able or willing then we probably won't work out either. I am not perfect, none of us truly are. I am a work in progress and learning and growing every day. If perfect is what you want good luck with that.If any of this you find interesting or if there is anything else you would like to know, *** will go from there! :) The first date would be spent getting to know each other starting with something simple and then if their is a connection it can be continued on!!

  • Bree

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I am a full- time working, part time student. My hobbies include action, and sci- fi movies, cooking, reading. I also like industrial, gothic, 80's dance music. I have begun to get into walking and biking with a neighbor, and would like to find someone who is into the same thing on a beginner level, there are some trails near by that I am sometime wanting to try. As for other sports I have not had much interest in or exposure to, but does not mean I am not willing to learn or even try to go to a game or two. As for what I am looking for in person: non-smoking. someone who is looking for a relationship, no players, or someone only out for casual flings. Someone who socially drinks is fine since I do the same. Meeting for a coffee or an appetizer, maybe a walk around a park.

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