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How does a person comfortably talk about them-self??? I'm sure I could do it after a few glasses of wine??.. but here goes ?I want to first start out by asking you to read my entire profile before messaging me. Next, I ask that you don't message me just to tell me I am not fat and I do have a great smile and that's it. I am on a dating website to find a serious relationship not a penpal. I really am a positive person by nature but I am beginning to become disillusioned by meeting men online. I really am looking for a deep meaningful relationship and not just sex, so please dont message me with sex and only sex on your mind. By the way..... I am not naive and I fully understand that dating is necessary to figure out if a relationship can be made. I also understand that sometimes compromise is necessary and I am not always going to get my way. If you've made it this far in my profile read on......Ok now on to the good stuff:I'm a mother; daughter, friend and I have a positive outlook on life for the most part. I love being with people who are interesting and keep my curiosity. Laughter is the key to happiness and I firmly believe it is the best medicine.I am a single mother of ***! Yep I said it ? if this scares you please don't waste my time) and I love my kids with all my heart and soul. I wouldn't change them for the world. I spend a lot of time with my family - We are a typical Irish Catholic family- we are loud, drink a lot, laugh a lot, and eat a lot.I promise you I am not perfect and I know I am not going to be perfect, but I can tell you I am a pretty dynamic and complex woman. I enjoy many different types of things and I get the most joy out of giving back to my church and my family. I am grateful for my supportive family, for my relationship with God, and my children so I try to show it everyday.What I like:I like to have fun, I like to cook, I love country music, I like to listen to live bands, I like to dance, I love my life, but I am missing someone special.The ideal "match" for me:I am looking for someone to make me laugh, who is responsible, forgives my faults, compliments my character, enjoys kids, has a compassionate heart, and isn't afraid to take on the world. I love humor and sarcasm and someone who isn't afraid to make fun of them self. I like a man that has a goal/goals in life, and a relationship with God.I am not looking to change anyone, but I am looking for someone that can/wants to evolve with me. I am looking for a partner.. I want a man willing to encourage me to be a little more spontaneous and get outside of my comfort zone a little, a man that is willing to try new things, and a man who likes kids. I am looking for a MAN not a boy and I am looking for someone who is assured in him self enough to know what it is he likes and can communicate that effectively.I was told once that if I want a man to love me I have to draw a map to my heart. I think I am finally fully understanding what that means..... I have the map but can you read it? Do you know what your map is.... it has taken me 36 yrs to figure out what it takes to be with me, love me, and make me happy. I am ready to share my knowledge with the right man.....Is this you!??!!?!? If so, I would love to hear from you. I respond to everyone its the polite thing to do

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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