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Shanti, 37
United States, Michigan, Otsego

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About Me

If you 'GET' this...then we should probably meet :)"It doesn't interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing.It doesn't interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dream, for the adventure of being alive.It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon. I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life's betrayals or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain!I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it or fade it, or fix it.I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own, if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, to be realistic, to remember the limitations of being human.It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself; if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul; if you can be faithless and therefore trustworthy.I want to know if you can see beauty even when it's not pretty, every day,and if you can source your own life from its presence.I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine, and still stand on the edge of the lake and shout to the silver of the full moon, “Yes!”It doesn't interest me to know where you live or how much money you have. I want to know if you can get up, after the night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone, and do what needs to be done to feed the children.It doesn't interest me who you know or how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and not shrink back.It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied. I want to know what sustains you, from the inside, when all else falls away.I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments." The Invitation by Oriah Mountain Dreamer I am so fortunate to be at a point in my life where things are almost perfect. I have the most incredible friends, 2 successful businesses, a beautiful home and great dog. Here's the part where you come in! What you should know about me:-I'm solutions oriented vs. problem focused-Positive-Love living in the country and visiting the city-From hiking to fancy night out in no time-LOVE to travel...usually ***times a year--Independent, self sufficient and keep busy-Work out 4 times a week and try to be active every day-Believe anything is possible...go after your dreamsI-Love being spontaneous-Lead a healthy life-Daymaker, risk taker and communicator -Brave, authentic, honest, loving, funny, open, curious, loyal, respectful, hopeless romantic, realist-Can take me anywhere And every day, I try to be better!About us:-Mutual respect-Compliment not complete each other-Great communicators-Support each other in achieving our goals-Do things together and able to do things apart-Have FUN-Laugh a lot-Often found on an adventure-Express affection and are passionate-Our friends think we're awesome together!I'm looking to meet someone with the ultimate goal of building a life together. So lets chat, perhaps we will meet and just maybe, we will both find what we're looking for.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Comedy Martial Arts Mystery Western Nascar
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    Olive

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I wrote this thing awhile back, then completely *** for a few spins around the sun and am just now checking back in. It seems my profile has gotten outdated in the meantime, so let's do something about that! I tell people that I'm a highly social introvert. I love going out and doing things with old friends, new friends, huge groups of people, small handfuls of people, whatever. I'm definitely a people fan! (Unless they're mean. Mean people suck - come on, we've all seen the sticker, this is not news. I'm not going to hang out with you if you're mean...and you shouldn't hang out with yourself either. There. Go get a fish for company. But please don't be mean to the fish, bc that would make me sad.) I have a fantastic group of friends, I love them to pieces, and I'm completely blessed to get to spend time with them throughout the week!That being said, I'm entirely comfortable spending time by myself, and I need to do a certain amount of that to stay sane. I love to read, work outside, take my dog on long walks, go to the gym, clean out my closets - ah, just kidding, I just can't talk myself inyo cleaning out my closets right now. You can tell it's on my mind though, can't ya?I love doing outdoorsy stuff, and want to do more of it! I love being outside where I can appreciate green growing things and random little creatures. I'm also very adept at setting marshmallows on fire. It's a talent, and I'm proud of it.I like to do whatever interests me at the time. (Oooooh, specific, I know! In fact, you should ask me how that's coming along, bc that might inspire me to actually start, and that would make me proud of myself. I've discovered that I really love to travel, but because I've been pursuing a career that I love rather than one that pays a million dollars, I haven't been able to go as many places as I would like. Which means there are so many fun places left to visit!! Let's go see them! But first let's go back to the Caribbean. Man I love that place. Fishy fishies. Palm trees. Crystal clear water. Fresh pineapple by the roadside. Starfish that crawl on me. Yes. Let's go. I can be packed in 5 minutes.I like critters. Four-legged critters, six-legged critters, eight-legged critters... though i have a caveat about eight-legged critters. They are beautiful and interesting and I respect them, but I don't want any of them ON me. This is very important, you've been properly warned, and please don't take it upon yourself to see what happens when I discover a spider on me. No one wants to see that.I have a slight addiction to ordering used books off of Amazon before I get out of bed on Sunday mornings. It's a problem, and I'm looking for a support group. No luck so far.I don't like being bored, so, I don't get bored. I've been known to sign up for classes for fun. Recently.When I'm out, I'm most have a pretty "live and let live" philosophy, and enjoy people who feel the same way.I'm sure I would like kids if I had them, but I don't, so right now they're all "other people's kids". I'm MUCH more comfortable rolling around on the floor with your rottie-pit mix than your 4-yr-old. But, i like trying new things, so there's that. =)

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Iam a very loving and caring women probably to caring gets me in trouble sometimes. Im looking to find that special man who wants to have brand new future leave the past behind and Build a future with someone who is willing give as much as he does. I enjoy outdoors and being with that special man doing whatever we want. I work hard for what i have and being the best Mom to my kids I can be there 21 and 14. My son whos 14 lives with me and goes to his dads whenever he wants. Im looking to find that relationship like my grandparents had when you took things to heart not oh she/he can be treated however..It's amazing how people are quick judge others on color, weight, height, and etc when we all bleed same color..whenever my granny said don't go threw life so fast your gonna miss this I laughed young kid thinking I wanta be grown..now im older do I ever see what she was saying. I have learned and grown from the past. Im here looking to find that pc thats missing from the puzzle the one when you find it the warm fuzzies come inside. You acomplished the obstacle. Im looking to find that one who enjoys life, laughing, loving being true and respectfull to others feelings. By saying that please get to no the person inside before you quick judge me. Or anyonelse all my pictures are current of me so what you.see is what you get. Im not going come rolling in to meet you or walking with my nose up in the air Iam coming straight forward as iam. I think it all depends on the people and personality of what to do. Everone says dinner and movie.. how can you learn someone setting two hours with no words exchanging? I want to learn the person iam with. New friends always welcome in my life just because we didnt hit it off dont mean curb time.

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