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Gertha, 31
United States, Michigan, Novi

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About Me

Willing to try this again...it has been awhile...Recently received my masters degree, and I have been so busy focusing on myself and what I want out of life for my education and career...everything else just seem to be put on hold. I have a tendency to take on too much and am wanting to find the time to find someone special I can enjoy my days with. It has been difficult for me to find the balance, which is why I am still single. The online dating scene is one I am willing to try, as I was unsuccessful last summer and have been too busy this summer - so hoping for better luck in the fall. I find online dating artificial as I believe it is best to get to know someone in person but it has benefits to make the first connection beyond the bar scene. Keep that in mind and don't shy away if I want to meet you right away. Seriously, I can not believe how life has brought me to where I am. I have come full circle, and sometimes still feel lost. My adventures have brought me to where I am today and I could not be happier with my journey. I am outgoing but am always seeking more out of life. Honestly - be confident, assertive and your self - I am easy going and have tendencies to be too outspoken, but am looking for a connection with the ability to evolve. Willing and wanting to date, I am a social being by nature who loves to travel. Family is very important to me and am looking for a man with integrity, a witty scene of humor and the ability to see the good in the world. Liberal mindset would be preferred....) I also enjoy a range of classic rock and blues...it is the music I was raise on., Election, Requiem of a Dream, and sooo many more to list. Also love a good documentary! do not message me if you have a picture on your profile showing off your muscles and or chest - really not the way to impress someone like me... sure

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

American Greek Indian Japanese Animation Biography Drama Martial Arts Sport Golf Volleyball
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