Total users: 61,007,468 Online users: 219,435
Gertha, 31

Offline, last seen Thu, 22 Jan 2026 02:31:35

About Me

Willing to try this again...it has been awhile...Recently received my masters degree, and I have been so busy focusing on myself and what I want out of life for my education and career...everything else just seem to be put on hold. I have a tendency to take on too much and am wanting to find the time to find someone special I can enjoy my days with. It has been difficult for me to find the balance, which is why I am still single. The online dating scene is one I am willing to try, as I was unsuccessful last summer and have been too busy this summer - so hoping for better luck in the fall. I find online dating artificial as I believe it is best to get to know someone in person but it has benefits to make the first connection beyond the bar scene. Keep that in mind and don't shy away if I want to meet you right away. Seriously, I can not believe how life has brought me to where I am. I have come full circle, and sometimes still feel lost. My adventures have brought me to where I am today and I could not be happier with my journey. I am outgoing but am always seeking more out of life. Honestly - be confident, assertive and your self - I am easy going and have tendencies to be too outspoken, but am looking for a connection with the ability to evolve. Willing and wanting to date, I am a social being by nature who loves to travel. Family is very important to me and am looking for a man with integrity, a witty scene of humor and the ability to see the good in the world. Liberal mindset would be preferred....) I also enjoy a range of classic rock and blues...it is the music I was raise on., Election, Requiem of a Dream, and sooo many more to list. Also love a good documentary! do not message me if you have a picture on your profile showing off your muscles and or chest - really not the way to impress someone like me... sure

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Bertred

    Offline

    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I'm smart, cute, and (if I do say so myself) super-fun to spend an evening with... so why am I single? Great question.I am definitely a guy's girl. I love sports and my weekends usually consist of football, basketball, friends, good food, a few drinks, and lots of laughing. I consider myself a positive, glass is half-full kind of person and I am looking for someone with the same outlook.My interests include debating and discussing politics, sports, current events, reality tv, foreign affairs, movies, books, whatever you've got. I like to read, run, tailgate, hit the beach, and have a cold drink at happy hour.Please, if you have emotional or commitment issues (or psychiatric issues), if you're a drug user, alcoholic, felon (trust me, its necessary I add this), serial dater (or serial killer for that matter) let's save us both a bit of time. These issues are all non-negotiable by the way. All other issues I will take into consideration. :)If you want to know more, just ask! Good food, cold drinks, and fun times

  • Adelynn

    Offline

    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    Maybe one of you guys can explain this to me, because I'm curious about something. Maybe it's just my experience, but honestly I think I find guys in two categories: hot and not very nice or not-so-hot and nice. Can't blame a girl for wanting the best of both worlds, can you? I'm holding out for the fantasy: a good looking guy who treats me well. Think you can break the mold? I enjoy intelligent conversation, someone who can teach me new things and someone who has their own opinion (but respects mine as well). I love laughing...humor is a must. If you're sarcastic and can make me laugh that's a perfect start! I'm pretty much always up for trying new things and being adventurous and spontaneous. I'm looking for someone who can make me laugh - laughter cures pretty much everything. I work hard...and I play harder. I love what I do, but I still like to get away from it all and let loose. It shouldn't surprise you that I speak my mind and am honest. I have always been a giver, and give 110% to every person I care about. I'm driven and successful, have a great family and an amazing circle of friends. You should be able to say the same. I don't typically take shortcuts, as I enjoy working hard and earning my way in life. I don't rely on anyone to hand me anything, I believe in earning it. I LOVE my family, friends, laughing, my kids, career, music, dancing, learning and trying new things. I enjoy going out, but I also like a good night at home with a good movie and good company. Also I am looking for a man that enjoys kids, as i do have 4 of them, not looking for a father figure, as they already have a dad. Just someone to hang with thats wants to be around kids, if intersted find me on *** the first date, I would buy tickets to a sporting event, leave his ticket at will call, and let us meet at the seats. We can go from there at that point. After the game, mayb dinner or out for a few drinks.

  • Donetta

    Offline

    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    .ME: 33 year old SWF, never married, no kids. Hopefully I will find the right man and those two things will change. Friends and family describe me as kindhearted, smart, loving, happy, hardworking, practical, and industrious. I bought my first home and it is hard to believe it has been almost 2 years. I am enjoying decorating and working on my house, I even have my own power tools and know how to use them. I work two jobs to make ends meet. I am a woman with real curves, I have a great smile and genuine laugh, I am affectionate and caring. I may be just what you are looking for.I enjoy creating art, going to a museums, flea markets, movies, festivals, live music, comedy sportz, people watching, art fairs, camping, leisurely outdoor fun like hiking and swimming, a cup or coffee or tea and a good conversation and some laughs.YOU: SWM 29 to 42, must be gainfully employed, be educated (high school diploma is a must), have a reliable vehicle, must not have a criminal record, would prefer someone who does not have children. Don't get me wrong I love kids but would love to like to start a family of my own not be an add on to someone else's. I am most attracted to men who's heritage and ethnic background is similar to my own. It is best to keep a first date casual, meet for a coffee or a drink, and hope that there is some good conversation. Then see where things go.

Follow Us: