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WendolynOnline
Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 27-37
I am a divorced mother of two. My children will come first, but I would love to have a good man to share in our lives and grow to become someone I love as much as them. I am actively involved in my child's school on the PTO board and also volunteer at a nature center infirmary helping care for sick, injured, and orphaned wildlife. I have recently gone back to school (online, so I can "go" to class in my pajamas, on the couch, at midnight, watching Leno) in effort to obtain my paralegal certification after several years working as a legal assistant. I am quite the child when it comes to wildlife. It will never cease to amaze me to see a deer in my yard. While I see creatures in my yard every day (some pretty amazing ones some days!), I feel privileged each and every day I can witness them. It is even more of a privilege to be able to handle them when I work at the nature center. I love to watch certain shows and especially enjoy classic films. I have had two long-term relationships in my life, and I say this to emphasize that I don't do casual/flings. I am a one man girl and want to find that one person I can be with, be myself with, and not be afraid of. That being said, I have a history, like most people do, and I know what I don't want. Please, don't smoke, use/abuse drugs, have a criminal past, use me as your punching bag, and especially don't lie to me. Please, do have a healthy sense of humor. I love to laugh. Yes, I would like a father figure for my kids. They need a POSITIVE male in their lives. Someone who can help teach them things I cannot do alone. No, I will not let anyone meet my kids early on. They are my whole world, so I will keep them shielded until I feel comfortable and have a sense of longevity in a relationship. They don't need people coming in and out of their lives any more than I do, so don't even think about asking to meet them right away. Just believe that it isn't anything to be taken personally if I don't want you to meet them for a long time. They deserve the best. For me to get involved with someone requires an understanding that we are a package deal. I don't want to be with someone who merely tolerates them. I want them to have someone who genuinely wants to be a part of their lives some day: play ball, attend tea parties, help with homework, tuck them in, etc. I don't say this to scare anyone away, I say this to show that I am looking for a permanent relationship, a partner, and to ensure that if someone is interested in me they know they might take on this role if things work out well. I will say what I mean, and most of the time I will say things that need to be said in a tactful and thoughtful way. I try to be a good person, and I work hard to do the right things for my family. I'm just a real girl, with a real body (two children later, it is what it is), with real issues, and a real heart longing for someone who can appreciate it. I want to be with a man who can handle a woman who appreciates having her own identity while enjoying the companionship of a man who compliments her positive and negative traits. If you're still with me after that, and aren’t running scared, send me a message.*If you smoke, do not contact me.*If you cannot pass a background check or a drug test, do not contact me.*If you cannot write with real words, please don't contact me. I don't like "text-speak." "U" and "R" are letters. Letters are used to compose words. I enjoy words. My grammar may not be perfect, but I try to use language properly. No, I'm not a **** for not wanting to communicate when you send me a message with "ur" in place of "you're" or "your." I choose not to spend time with someone who will annoy me. It just wouldn't work between us.I will not accept being treated with anything less than love, respect, and dignity; and I shouldn't have to. I'm not perfect, but I'm worth it. On a first date, I would like to get a nice cup of coffee, or maybe dinner. A walk through a pretty park, any time of the year, creates a peaceful atmosphere for getting to know one another. Movies and concerts are not conducive to good conversation. Asking me to do something at 7:30 on a Saturday evening just tells me your first plans backfired. Please, don't be that guy. I don't expect anyone to only date me, but if your first plans are cancelled, suck up the lonely night; don't expect me to give up my comfy pajamas and tv (because this is the plan I made for myself if I have no other plans) as your second choice. Just don't lead me on, pretend you're interested because you haven't found anyone better yet, or break a date with me for someone else. We girls find out about these things one way or another. Be the kind of guy you would want your daughter to date. I want to date someone (one person) and have a relationship, but I'm not desperate. And don't pretend to be interested and imply you're interested in seeing me again if you're not. I can actually handle the truth and don't need to be be dropped like dead weight. You can say, "Hey, it was nice to meet you, but I'm not interested anymore." I really don't need to be told you want to see me again and stop communicating. Be civilized and honest. That's what you'll get from me.
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KristalOnline
Woman. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 25-35
I would like to say that I'm pretty much an open book, all you have to do is ask. If I don't like your question, or I am not comfortable answering it, I will just tell you that. I do tend to work a lot, but I'm okay with that. However, its always been a down fall in relationships. Im a single mother and love my son to death. Every day he seems to surprise me. I have done some college, but never really finished it. Sometimes, I do play with the idea of going back, but then I think about the time aspect and it might not happen for a long time. I like a variety of music. Pretty easy going with that to be honest. And Im always up to hear new music. I am pretty big into sports. Love hockey, just wish that I could catch more games. I believe that honesty is the best thing out there. This really includes being true to yourself. I LOVE reading. Usually prefer fiction suspense, but I will read anything I can get my hands on really. Intellect is a strong quality for me. I believe that we should keep growing and learning each and every day. I try to put that value into my son. If you are still reading this, there's some form of interest in getting to know me, feel free to message.
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SlyviaOnline
Woman. 26 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 23-33
So I thought I would give this another shot! Here goes...Hi! I'm a 26 year old single mom of a wonderfully amazing 6 year old. I'm a *huge* Phillies fan! Also an Eagles fan. I hate seafood! But I love the outdoors, fishing(usually throw 'em back), camping, walks in the woods, which I guess you could call hiking. Lol I'm kind of sarcastic. I can be loud, but not obnoxious. I absolutely love all mobster movies! The Godfather: Part II is my favorite.I love county fairs and getting dirty. But clean up pretty well for a nice night out.I'm stubborn, can be hard headed and usually have to have the last word. But I'm working on it. A little. I'm a tiny girl. Just 5'2". But don't think I can't handle myself. I'm a firecracker with a sharp tongue. I love to cook and (I think) I'm pretty good at it. Can make just about anything. Love cooking with fresh veggies and herbs from the garden. I spent 2 years in the US Army. I was a triple MOS. 15q, 15p and 15u. I was also airborne. I loved it. But discharged when I had my daughter to do the whole mommy thing, and dont regret it one bit! Lets see, I have two tattoos (hopefully more one day). And 5 piercings. Ok 4 are in my ears. Doesn't really count does it? And one in my nose.I love to read.I'm a total planner. Alright, not really. I plan on being spontaneous. Change my mind at the drop of a hat and sometimes can't make up my mind. I like to have fun and turn anything into a good time.Umm...I work on my own car. Never take it to a garage unless its something I can't do. But the usual stuff I do myself. Oil changes, brakes, rotors. Can clean a carburetor like nobodies business! And yes...I drive a stick...is there anything else?Can't really think of anything else. So if this interested you, message me! :)PS. if all you're interested in is asking me inappropriate questions, or trying to get me to send you naked pictures, its not gonna happen. So move on!! Surprise me!! :)