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Philomena, 30
United States, Michigan, Lincoln Park

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About Me

A little about me as a person, okay a lot about me lol. I think I'm a kind, considerate and compassionate person. I usually put the people I care about before myself and try to always be honest. I think I'm a good catch and a well-rounded person. I am currently attending classes online to finish my bachelors, looking to better my life in the long run. I have one little girl that means the world to me, but I only have her every other week. I enjoy reading, working out, relaxing by watching some tv in the evenings, trying new things and spending time with my significant other when I have one. I love to travel, but haven't got to do that much lately, I have a motorcycle and love riding, I like going to the movies, trying new restaurants, playing board games with friends.Long term I want someone to come home to that is glad to see me and doesn't wish it was someone else. I want someone to build a future with. Someone to plan vacations with, watch tv with at night, enjoy spending time with. I want a best friend and a partner that I'm attracted too. I want someone that will not cheat on me and someone that I can trust to be there when I need them. I guess what it really boils down to is that I want to be wanted. I am not looking for a one night stand and if there is no long term potential I don't want to waste our time. I have a lot to give to the right guy.The kind of man I'm usually attracted to, just so you guys know what I tend to look for. This isn't an *** but if you fit all off what I’m looking for emotionally and physically then you're someone I definitely want to get to know. I'm typically drawn to a tall, average to thin guy who is clean cut, and it's a bonus if they work out. I enjoy being with someone successful and usually someone that has a professional job. Striking eyes and shoulders with a little muscle always get my attention. Not a big fan of facial hair but it works for a few people (a very few). If you and showers don't see each other most every day that is a big turn off to me. I keep myself clean, well kept, and put together and expect my mate to do the same. I also find intelligence very attractive. I would like to be with someone one who would challenge me intellectually but not talk above me. If you struggle with speaking and writing (exception of spelling we can't all be perfect lol) the English language then we aren't going to relate well. I'm not expecting you to know every answer to Jeopardy but knowing a few would be nice :) When I'm in a committed relationship I like to spend most of my free time with that person, so if you're someone that doesn't like spending most of their time with their girlfriend then that's your thing but we won’t gel well. I not a dependent person (not looking for a sugar daddy) I just plan on being with someone that I can't get enough of, so therefore want to spend time with them. I do mean most, not all of my time, so don't think you'll never get a night out with the boys lol. I also think of a relationship as a team or partnership that both people put a hundred percent in to everything, be it house work, bills, kids, anything really. If you don't agree with that concept or understand it then again I'm not for you. Honesty is a huge part of my relationships too. I don't expect to know everything right away but if you plan on keeping part of you self from your life partner then again I don't what that. I am also a very affectionate person I love to hold hands, hugs and down the line a playful butt grab lol. I would also like someone that enjoys cuddling and holding their significant in their arms as they fall asleep. I don't know if the person I'm looking for even exists but hey I can hope right? I'm not perfect by any means and don't expect my mate to be either, we can work together to make each other better people and maybe one day our lives. That's the idea right?*If you don’t have a pic on your profile I assume you’re in a relationship or so unattractive that that you mother doesn’t want to see you (kidding). So I won’t respond to people without pic. I be up for most anything dinner so we can get to know each other, bowling, putt-putt, a walk in a park, a picnic, ice skating, a ride on the back of your bike, meeting up to shoot some pool. I'm pretty laid back for the most part when it comes to dating.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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