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Kat, 30

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About Me

Let me start out by saying that I'm only interested in WHITE men. I'm a proud graduate of an HBCU, so please don't make that out to be more than it is. It's just what I'm attracted to. Though I love to travel, I have no intention of moving or having a ridiculous commute (probably not more than an hour or so) to meet someone. Please keep that in mind. Additionally, if you message me and just say something like "hi how are you," I'm going to assume that you never bothered to read my profile, and probably won't respond. Surely you can come up with something less generic than that if you make it through my novel of a profile. :)I'm a very plus-sized gal who loves learning/experiencing new things. If my weight is an issue - please keep moving. I have a health condition that finally got diagnosed in ***after 7 years of unexplainable weight gain, and I'm dealing with that, but it’s a very slow work in progress. However, I’m not trying to hide what I look like in any way. What you see is what you get. I should also note that I don't let weight/health issues hinder me. If there's anything that I can honestly say, it's that I truly LIVE life.I'm a sweet, thoughtful, funny, fiery, awesome chick who's looking for an equally awesome fella to share her life with. I'm also constantly working on improving myself in some way - be it physically, mentally, educationally or otherwise, though I'm also confident right where I am. I have bachelor's degree in Criminal Justice, and am considering either going to law school or going back for my Master's. I have a feistiness about me (it comes with the hair color), but I also have a huge heart. I'm the girl that finds something positive in almost every negative, the one who still believes in love, kindness and generosity...and I'm also a lot of fun! :)You SHOULD contact me if you:-have a great sense of humor.-are a political liberal/progressive.-are kind and honest.-aren’t afraid of an intelligent woman.-like fat chicks.-love to travel.-are ambitious.-are a tall guy.-are a little chubby (not required, but I don’t judge!).-like sports (not required, but it would be a nice addition).-want kids at some point in the future.-are genuinely looking for a relationship.-have a big heart.-want to meet someone who is way past the playing games stage.-value someone who is brutally honest.-appreciate a chick that loves to laugh but also knows when to be serious.You probably should NOT contact me if you:--enjoy hunting (no problem with guns, just hunting).-are a social conservative.-are a homophobe or racist.-are a short guy (I’m a tall chick).-have a history of lying and/or being unfaithful in past relationships (or in life in general).-are rude to servers/wait staff (this actually says a lot about your character).-still like to party all the time (I’m past this stage).-consider rap/hip hop to be your favorite kind of music.-are a homebody who never likes to travel.-don’t want kids.-don’t have a job.-don’t like fat chicks (hey - just bein' real!).-are married, in a relationship or just looking for sex.-’m worried about you).-do drugs (any drug, including marijuana).If you're generally a rude person, someone who has a lot of drama in his life, someone who has honesty/infidelity issues or someone who likes to argue, I can already tell you - I'm not interested. I don't want your money (I have my own), and I'm not out to break anyone's heart. I simply want to find someone kind, honest, down-to-earth and not overly complicated to enjoy and share my life with.I know you're out there...I just haven't found you yet! I don't really have a specific first date in mind. Could be dinner & conversation, could be a comedy club, could simply be going for coffee or a drink....or could be something completely different altogether. However, I don't think a movie would be a good first date...would like to get to know someone a little before hitting the theater. Kind of awkward sitting in silence next to a total stranger...lol.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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