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Alesha, 33
United States, Michigan, Bloomfield Hills

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I've been a part of and experienced many important, brilliant things in life, but I find success and simplicity are most fulfilling when you have someone to share it with. I'm skeptical about online dating, but realize the beauty in taking risks and trying new things, even if there is a brutal physical determination of your dating worth pre-requisite. But, if the best people are on this site, then I have to put myself out there for even the slightest possibility of success.I am currently a student of Neuroscience. I also work full-time and volunteer. I once met a man who was homeless because he gave up everything he ever loved to help his son with his medical bills. He worked in a mill and lost his job due to the economy. Since he didn't have any schooling, his only asset was his home. I was ten years old when I met him, and on that day I decided I wanted to be a doctor and help as many people as I could. I find it both inspiring and horrifying what people will do for those they love. While I did pity him, I also envied him for his strength and courage. I'd like to think I'd do the same thing if I were in that situation. I feel that without people there would be no history, and finding the right person can make you want to be the person you long to be......who you yearn to be. While I am doing well for myself and have a large group of friends, I need someone who's not afraid of being with a successful woman to stand beside me. A man who appreciates the small things, enjoys learning, finds my quirks charming, sees me as a "catch", knows how to have a relationship, is down-to--gazing, cooking, etc.), I am a very honest, forthright person who believes mostly in quality of character. I am loyal, goal-oriented, funny, caring, and confident in who and how I am. I'd love to meet a guy who makes me want to be a better woman, one who makes me realize what's worth losing and what's worth saving. I have never done online dating before and have zero idea why this box is here, so I'm going to fill it with what I think a first date should be like and what it shouldn't be like, so (deep breath) here we go:A great date should be:1. Out of the ordinary. I'm thinking scavenger hunts, dinner with board games, seeing an outdoor symphony, picnics in unusual places, mystery dinner theaters, etc. 2. Educational. I think online dating might be tough to really get to know someone. I like seeing expressions when people talk about who and what they love. After all, we are who we love so I'd like to hear old stories about your life and why you like what you like.3. Relaxing and fun. I find as a society we are taught to be who we want to seem like *** who we actually are or long to be. You aren't on the 'Bachelorette' here, Jesus. A date should not be:1. Where we play a game I call, "stop trying to **** me."2. A time where all you like to do is talk about yourself and make yourself seem incredibly impressive.3. Where you play on your cell phone the whole time or show me pictures of your cats.4. Treating me like I'm one of your guy friends.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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