• Birmingham
• Michigan
• United States

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Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

I guess it's time to update this... For starters, I do love the outdoors, but wouldn't say I love EVERYTHING outdoors. This goes for being active as well. I work out on my own schedule doing activities that I like to do.- it's not me. I try to stay in shape and love SKIING, hiking, camping and various other activities, but they aren't my entire life. Everyone has a habit they just can't kick - and cooking is mine - some friends might say I'm a little obsessed with it... I try to cook every day and the meals tend to be healthy, but I'm all about beef stroganoff every once in a while :***and my family recipe is killer!I love traveling and take the opportunity whenever possible. I've been to five continents and hope to make it to the other two soon. (Luckily Antarctica was my first overseas trip, so that one's out of the way:) I love learning about new cultures (particularly when it's exploring a new cuisine). I consider myself pretty open-minded, but I guess people can judge me how they will. That being said, I do tend to have conservative views (sidenote: open-mindedness and conservatism are not oxymorons). My view of being a conservative is to take responsibility for my actions and I expect others to do the same in their lives. As far as looking for that special someone - I think I have a pretty good idea of what I'm after and it's probably easiest to just list what I'm not after. (I hope no one takes offense to this list, but then again, I'm just being honest).1) I can't date a guy that can't spell. If you grew up in America, you were blessed to have a decent public education system - you should appreciate it and use it. 2) I'm not interested in people that are still trying to figure out what they want to do in life. I know what I want and have had a decent job for the last 7 years. I have an established career and life and am looking for someone with similar ambitions.3) I wouldn't say I'm completely against dating someone that has been divorced and has children, but it's not on my priority list. I would love to have a family, but am not sure how I feel about raising someone else's. It'd have to be a pretty extraordinary circumstance.Again, I mean no offense to anyone, but I think it's best to just be honest and up-front with the 'deal-breakers' and those are some of mine.If you haven't gotten tired of my ranting... feel free to shoot me an *** am a pretty traditional girl, so it's unlikely that I'll be initiating a conversation, but I am on an online dating site, so you never know!After many interesting messages, it's come to my attention that I need to add more to this list.4) Modesty is attractive. A nice body is great, but taking a picture of yourself in a mirror with your shirt off is not flattering - it doesn't matter who you are. It'd be ridiculous to say that attraction isn't important, but all looks fade and the basis of a relationship shouldn't be that someone has a six pack (sorry, I'm 31 and I live in reality - a six pack to me means that you probably spend more time than I care to in the gym, don't eat the foods that I prefer to cook, or have freakish genetics that I'll never be able to feel comfortable around). Even if the latter is true - no one needs to boast about it.5) I do drink alcohol - I've listed that already. It's not going to change. I rather enjoy it and I have absolutely no guilt about it. If this is not the lifestyle that you are looking for, then you should be looking elsewhere. ...

• Birmingham
• Michigan
• United States

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Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

Let’s be completely honest about this....who would actually put themselves out there, the whole world to see, on a FREE site in hopes to find "the one?" Let’s face it; we are all losing a little pride!! With that being said, I am NOT looking for "a friend" (I have plenty), I am not looking for sex (go to your local watering hole), I do not need anyone who is "currently separated" (get your sh*t figured out before you move onto the next relationship), I am not bi/gay (and NO I am NOT interested in having a threesome). All the great stories of finding someone in the grocery store, church or a school function just hasn’t been the case for me!Games, crazy ex's, psychos, and married men.......don’t even waste your time. I’m not desperate, therfor, I will not settle for anything less than what I want, and deserve. With that being said, I am very equal, have a huge heart and I am willing to put in as much effort as the other person. My intent is not to rush into anything, but I’m certainly in hopes to settle down. I have never been married and absolutely plan on it. I won’t be the 60yr old woman talking about my "boyfriend":)!!I can appreciate someone who cares about their appearance but please....please, do not take longer in the bathroom than I do. I’m a small town girl. I’m not at all into the city slicker deal. I wear earrings, not you. LOL!!I like to get dirty on a 4wheeler, love to camp, snowmobile, fish, cook, clean, spend time with friends and family and just spend time with good, loyal people. My personality can be "harsh" some would say..... but.... I have a very good feeling that if you were to ask my friends, coworkers or family about me they would FIRST, smile really big, with a nervous look on their face (like ohhh sh*t, what should I say), but in the end, you would get a clear understanding that I am very honest, a loyal mother/friend/partner, you will never wondering where you stand, and promise you that I am one of the most faithful and true people they know. These may be good traits, they may be bad.....it is what it is.I am typically a little nicer about getting a point across but on this site, for whatever reason, people seem to need things written in blood in order to read between the lines.Anyway, I may have just dug myself a huge hole but "when it’s right, it will happen". drink, on you!! :) Kidding...well not really....!

• Birmingham
• Michigan
• United States

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Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

I like going to the beach. Shopping, hanging w/good people, and willing to to try new things. I Like all kinds of music. I've really been listening more to country recently. I'm an outgoing, genuine, & funloving kind of girl! What I am looking for in a person is Substance, someone that is well rounded and grounded as well, honest, trusting, sweet and caring and of course loyal! These are things I feel I am of myself and am looking for the same! Just be yourself... being a gentleman doesn't hurt either. ;-)