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Adallina, 33

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About Me

"What the hell are you doing on a dating website" is the response i get from my male friends"Im really short- i seem to get messages from those a foot taller.. ok, yes i pay attention to that. Well~ My life experiences have really helped me gain insight into what I do and do not want in my life. But I'm still working on it. Everything in life is a process, and I'm truly at a place in my life of self exploration and personal growth. I am working hard to become a positive thinker and it's really great to be where I'm at in life. It's not perfect, I slip up and get in funks of negativity~ yes I'm human :) I have 3 children- And I started really young, my daughter is 16..son is 9 and now my youngest is 7... I'm not really interested in going back to ***care of an infant. I am busy enough with life-kids-work, it would be really unfair to bring another child into this chaotic world when I'm already looking for more hours in the day. Your children regardless of age or living arrangement is not an issue at all for me. I like to have fun..get a little crazy, offend people in public, ride roller coasters.. love sarcasm and humor... Laughter, family, and physical human contact are essential to living a happy, content, prosperous life. I can't deal with uptight in my life- I am a very deep person and I've found that deep and uptight do not mix well. There's a time and place for serious- no matter how serious I try to look at the positive in every situation. I believe everything happens for a reason and there are no coincidences in life. I believe life is what you make of it and what you attract is based on your energy. There's a lesson to be learned from all experiences however you chose to take it.I hope to meet someone with goals , similar beliefs and passions... I'm not here with expectations- if you don't put yourself out there you never know what you might miss.I'm not here to hook up or play bullsh*t games. I'm open minded , love fun and adventure as well as deep/serious...I love music- wide variety. I'm a huge Ani DiFranco fan so love it or hate it. I am not materialistic or superficial- I'm spiritual/universal but not religious. I'm very real- straight forward and yes guys- I know it's hard to believe- but sometimes I'm just b**chy.. But again I'm human.. Lets not pretend we are flawless superhuman or special. Really we are alll human and equal. Not sure how I feel about long distance...I love to dance. Not that I can say that I can do it well or not but it feels good- I do like to go out alone sometimes just to dance ...Or dancing around the house.And- I don't have a body shot for a reason. Not cuz I'm fat, hot, sexy, built, or retarded- but... Because I prefer to get messages based on similar interest and personality- not how I look. Although im starting to question if thats as big of a deal as i think it is- i overanalyze sometimes. With that said, assume what you will and we'll just see!Ok- that does it for now. I like to talk (about interesting things) so even if your socially awkward Im pretty good at keeping an open ended conversation going Something easy and Comfortable. Drinks are good :) coffee... Whatever...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Trish

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    My priorities in life revolve around trying to be a good person and keeping balance in my life. I feed on the energy I get when I do something that makes a difference. I firmly believe that what you put out there comes back around. I value education and learning. This can happen anywhere, not just in the classroom. I think that children are the key to the future and that gives me motivation to be a good teacher. I love to dance. I think it lets people get loose and shake off some of the seriousness that life dishes out. I like traveling. I love my family. A great deal of who I am is because of them. I think I'm a good listener but I also have lots to say. Quiet is not an adjective that anyone has ever used to describe me. My goal in life is to continue to grow as a person and buy myself some nice things along the way.

  • Sharda

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    Well to start off with I am a single mother. My son is a third grader now, and so far he really likes it. My son is my first and most important priority, and that will not change anytime soon, so if you have any issues with that, please keep them to yourself. I am a very self reliant person, i work full time and do what i need to do to take care of me and my son. I am also a very positive person, or at least make every effort to be. I'm a very smart person, with a great sense of humor. i love to laugh and have fun. I enjoy going out and spending time with my friends as well as staying in and snuggling on the couch. If any of this sparks and interest, please feel free to drop me a line. I'm looking to spark a friendship and see if anything transpires out of that.Take care.**** Just a side note, if you send me a message, please have more to say then hi. I'm sure you have more thoughts then that :o) **** It really depends on what we both feel is appropriate. But regardless, a good time with good conversation is hoped for.

  • Hyon

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    I am a 32 year old single mom of 2 beautiful girls that are 13 and 9. I'm 5'1" and far from looking like a model, but I'm not that bad. I like to go have a good time with friends on weekends. I shoot pool on a bar league Sunday nights as well. I am looking for a nice guy that is friendly, stable and honestly looking for love. NO GAMES, please. I've been hurt pretty bad when I've opened my heart in the past (as I'm sure you have too), and I'm sure you can agree that isn't fun.I want to be able to go out with friends (mine and yours), go to a Sabres or Bills game, go for a walk, go camping, see a band or have a card night, but I also want to be able to sit on the couch enjoying eachothers company. I love to cook so preparing a meal together would be nice too. I'm not looking for a father for my girls as they have a great dad who is a huge part of their lives, but I need my girls to like you and for you to like them. We come as a package deal.

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