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Adallina, 33
United States, Michigan, Alma

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"What the hell are you doing on a dating website" is the response i get from my male friends"Im really short- i seem to get messages from those a foot taller.. ok, yes i pay attention to that. Well~ My life experiences have really helped me gain insight into what I do and do not want in my life. But I'm still working on it. Everything in life is a process, and I'm truly at a place in my life of self exploration and personal growth. I am working hard to become a positive thinker and it's really great to be where I'm at in life. It's not perfect, I slip up and get in funks of negativity~ yes I'm human :) I have 3 children- And I started really young, my daughter is 16..son is 9 and now my youngest is 7... I'm not really interested in going back to ***care of an infant. I am busy enough with life-kids-work, it would be really unfair to bring another child into this chaotic world when I'm already looking for more hours in the day. Your children regardless of age or living arrangement is not an issue at all for me. I like to have fun..get a little crazy, offend people in public, ride roller coasters.. love sarcasm and humor... Laughter, family, and physical human contact are essential to living a happy, content, prosperous life. I can't deal with uptight in my life- I am a very deep person and I've found that deep and uptight do not mix well. There's a time and place for serious- no matter how serious I try to look at the positive in every situation. I believe everything happens for a reason and there are no coincidences in life. I believe life is what you make of it and what you attract is based on your energy. There's a lesson to be learned from all experiences however you chose to take it.I hope to meet someone with goals , similar beliefs and passions... I'm not here with expectations- if you don't put yourself out there you never know what you might miss.I'm not here to hook up or play bullsh*t games. I'm open minded , love fun and adventure as well as deep/serious...I love music- wide variety. I'm a huge Ani DiFranco fan so love it or hate it. I am not materialistic or superficial- I'm spiritual/universal but not religious. I'm very real- straight forward and yes guys- I know it's hard to believe- but sometimes I'm just b**chy.. But again I'm human.. Lets not pretend we are flawless superhuman or special. Really we are alll human and equal. Not sure how I feel about long distance...I love to dance. Not that I can say that I can do it well or not but it feels good- I do like to go out alone sometimes just to dance ...Or dancing around the house.And- I don't have a body shot for a reason. Not cuz I'm fat, hot, sexy, built, or retarded- but... Because I prefer to get messages based on similar interest and personality- not how I look. Although im starting to question if thats as big of a deal as i think it is- i overanalyze sometimes. With that said, assume what you will and we'll just see!Ok- that does it for now. I like to talk (about interesting things) so even if your socially awkward Im pretty good at keeping an open ended conversation going Something easy and Comfortable. Drinks are good :) coffee... Whatever...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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