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Hebe, 31
United States, Maine, Scarborough

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About Me

Who I am:I am 31 and owning it. I own my house and have made it my own...lots of work!I am a woman who may enjoy a stiff drink, or sometimes a few....but I don't enjoy hanging out at bars until 2 am anymore. I've grown out of that.I am a woman who can enjoy a good burger, but I really to care for my health. Extra pounds? Yes, but working on it and it's important to me to maintain a healthy lifestyle.I don't expect a man to take care of me financially, but I expect him to at least be able to support himself by this age.I love playing volleyball, tennis and am addicted to zumba! I also wouldn't mind golfing more.I keep very busy doing a lot of different activities. Of course I would alter my schedule to spend time with that special person, but also would need my time for my activities, sports, hobbies, as well.I love to write and can't imagine living without at least one pet.I have an amazing ability to find the most wonderful friends and I enjoy making time for them often. Maintaining relationships is important, and we should never take the people in our lives for granted. Appreciate them.I'm looking for that forever someone, but you can't really go into a first date with that kind of pressure. So we'll see where things take us. No pressure. I believe first dates need to be kept simple, and quiet enough where you can hold a good conversation. And it shouldn't be so scary, if it doesn't work out...maybe you've made a new friend, if not...not big deal - it's all part of meeting people. Keep on keepin' on.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Fishing French Indonesian Mexican Adventure War Sailing
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