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Fidelia, 53
United States, Maine, Scarborough

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About Me

I have two amazing daughters who are grown and on their own. I miss them, but it's a stage of life that I'm embracing with the energy of someone half my age. Do you think you can keep up with me?I love good food, live music, visiting with friends, running, traveling, beaches, boats, fireplaces, morning coffee, and chardonnay to end a busy day. Recently I've rediscovered the fun of golfing and skiing. Love being outside in the sun! My life is full of wonderful friends, but I miss having that connection with someone who I'm helplessly attracted to, love hanging out with, and who makes me smile when he comes into a room. I'm hoping to meet a man who can laugh at any situation, enjoys socializing, and is up for sharing some adventure as a couple.I work as a trusts and estates paralegal - pretty normal hours except at tax time. I lead a somewhat crazy weekend life fronting a rock band so flexibility is important, but I will give the same consideration in return. My passion is playing music, but if yours is something different, that's awesome! It's what we bring as individuals to the partnership that keeps things interesting.I'm looking to build a relationship based on mutual respect and honesty. If you are a player, please pass me by! Love is not just a word, it's an action - and actions say it all. I love my coffee in the morning, but honestly do not want to drink coffee at night. A relaxed conversation somewhere is a good start - a glass of wine in a cozy pub would be perfect!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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