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Tesha, 53
United States, Maine, Sanford

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About Me

Hi. Thanks for taking a minute to stop by and read more about me. I have learned that some people say what you want to hear, and then they are nothing like what they describe. I am a country girl who enjoys the simple things in life. I love being outside walking, fishing, gardening, or just sitting in the sun. I hate drama and men that try and control me. Been there, done that, no thanks. I am witty and love to have a good time. I like to listen to bands and dance, movies, cookouts, cornhole, etc. I like all types of music depending on my mood. I can cry in my beer, or jam and dance around the room, just depends. Must not smoke. I want someone who is sincere, and not afraid to show, or tell me how they feel. I don't like people that are fake or pretend to be better than others. Communication is so important in any relationship. I love a man with a good sense of humor, and who likes to have fun. I am old-fashioned, so I like a man with manners. Unlike so many people today, I still have morals. I think too much of myself to be any different. So, if you are looking for 'that', move on to the next fish. I consider myself intelligent and I find an intelligent man easier to talk to. I have a 19 year old son who is the light of my life. He is super intelligent and, of course, handsome. lol. I am a home owner and financially secure. I am lonely and would like to find someone to spend some time with, even as just friends. If you want to know more, just ask. I try and reply to all my messages. I think that is the right thing to do. If someone takes the time to write me a message, the least I can do is acknowledge it. Have a great year. I wish everyone luck with their fishing. First date, should be somewhere we could sit and talk and learn more about each other, perhaps at a quiet restaurant. Or, if it warm outside, maybe we could go for a walk in the park and talk there. Or, I am pretty flexible, I just think for the first date, we should go somewhere quiet enough that we can talk and see if we are compatible and interested in getting together again.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Dance Indonesian Japanese Mexican Ice Hockey
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