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About Me

I am a good person who sees the good in people. At times this has not worked out so well and made me doubt my ability evaluate someone's honesty and character. I do not know why anyone would be dishonest about themselves or what they are looking for in a relationship, but, please, just be honest! I have to admit I like "real" men who know what they want yet are strong enough to be kind and gentle. I am longing for and perhaps fantasizing about putting my head on someone's strong shoulder and having him wrap his arms around me and telling me it will be ok. Of course there are lots of other reasons I'd like to be wrapped up in a man's arms:). I desire a best friend, partner, an I've got your back and won't abandon you at the first sight of a problem kind of guy. over the years I have been super-responsible and independent. I've been through a lot but have been blessed with the strength and humor to handle everything thrown my way. I have learned,however, that sometimes being strong means you can accept help.So, I am really looking for a partner, a man who will treat me as well as I treat him... And I just tried fly- fishing and am taking it up also. Sunday night I read the paper in bed and relaxed!I am so not a thing person. I have many interests. I love flower gardening, swimming or any water related activities, walking my dog, rollerblading, sports (Warning: Big NY Giants fan). I love to dress up and go out to dinner, theater, a bar once in a while. I have to tell you, though, if you stop by my house you might find me covered in dirt, mud, and sweat with my hair in a pony tail without a stitch of makeup on. If the weather is nice, I am outside. MOST IMPORTANTLY, I would like to have the man in my life make me feel special and sexy and desirable to him. Men are so silly not to realize that if I feel special and good about myself when I am with him, I will want to make him feel the same. And VERY IMPORTANTLY: if I feel confident about being sexually desirable, I would love to explore the depths of intimacy with my man. What on earth could possibly better than to have amazing intimacy and,of course, the special closeness that can only come with true,trusting loyal intimacy and the joys it brings? It says the longer your description of a first date, the more likely you will get a response. Call me silly, but a first date seems like it should be coffee or a drink in a mutually acceptable place. Of course, I should let you know that I am not spending a lot of time messaging back and forth. I am not looking for a pen pal. We look. We decide to correspond a bit, so why not meet to see if there is a potential spark of interest? Makes sense to me!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Alpha

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I love baking, inviting friends and having game night or cooking weird desserts and food for them. I’m attracted to people with nice smile. It must be someone who keeps up with family traditions.

  • Carina

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    A few facts about me. I like big cities, but I hate the traffic. I like the country, but I'm not a country bumpkin nor do I like country music. Someday I'd like to (hopefully!!) explore Europe and maybe parts of Asia. Heck, I wouldn't mind another trip out west. There is so much I've not yet seen nor experienced. I prefer dogs to cats, and someone who likes snakes is okay by me. I'm a 'like to tell it like it is' kinda gal, a strong woman who doesn't like getting the runaround. At the same time I have a soft side for things and people who matter to me. Still, getting to really know me will take time and will only happen in person. I'd like to meet a man who is kind to animals, fun-loving, a one-woman man, stands for his convictions, thoughtful and considerate and knows how to show a lady a great time! I REALLY like a guy with a good sense of humor, intelligence being an added plus! I'm just looking for a guy who will pique my interest, stimulate me mentally and make me feel comfortable and safe being with him. Of course I'll need to find him physically attractive! If you happen to have common interests and fit my criteria, feel free to contact me. Hopefully you'll have read my whole profile before contacting me. Please don't add me to your favorites.This I must insist on and that is that you must have a non-hidden picture to contact me. Oops, I mentioned it. I know, I know, you're in the F.B.I., C.I.A., an agent of S.H.I.E.L.D., you're undercover and can't show your picture! Fake pictures are just as bad. I always get a kick out of seeing guys spell woman w-o-m-e-n. It's probably a Freudian slip on their part....so...spell-check everyone! ***WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. *** It is recommended that other members post a similar notice.***

  • Tesha

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Hi. Thanks for taking a minute to stop by and read more about me. I have learned that some people say what you want to hear, and then they are nothing like what they describe. I am a country girl who enjoys the simple things in life. I love being outside walking, fishing, gardening, or just sitting in the sun. I hate drama and men that try and control me. Been there, done that, no thanks. I am witty and love to have a good time. I like to listen to bands and dance, movies, cookouts, cornhole, etc. I like all types of music depending on my mood. I can cry in my beer, or jam and dance around the room, just depends. Must not smoke. I want someone who is sincere, and not afraid to show, or tell me how they feel. I don't like people that are fake or pretend to be better than others. Communication is so important in any relationship. I love a man with a good sense of humor, and who likes to have fun. I am old-fashioned, so I like a man with manners. Unlike so many people today, I still have morals. I think too much of myself to be any different. So, if you are looking for 'that', move on to the next fish. I consider myself intelligent and I find an intelligent man easier to talk to. I have a 19 year old son who is the light of my life. He is super intelligent and, of course, handsome. lol. I am a home owner and financially secure. I am lonely and would like to find someone to spend some time with, even as just friends. If you want to know more, just ask. I try and reply to all my messages. I think that is the right thing to do. If someone takes the time to write me a message, the least I can do is acknowledge it. Have a great year. I wish everyone luck with their fishing. First date, should be somewhere we could sit and talk and learn more about each other, perhaps at a quiet restaurant. Or, if it warm outside, maybe we could go for a walk in the park and talk there. Or, I am pretty flexible, I just think for the first date, we should go somewhere quiet enough that we can talk and see if we are compatible and interested in getting together again.

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