SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Twila
Online
Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 52-62
I am a fun and social person. I can be very playful. I love to go out and have a good time. Seven years ago I came out of a long unhappy relationship and decided I needed a break. I had always needed a significant other to make me feel complete. I stayed alone and learned to enjoy my life fully without having a partner by my side. I promised myself that when I reached certain personal goals, I would put myself back in circulation, (self-actualization). I started out on Match.com, and met a few people. No spark was not *** guys were nice, but something was missing so here I am. Looking for a self-assured man. I do not want a co-dependent relationship, nor do I want to get involved with a substance abuser. I believe that a man and a woman must develop a friendship and soulship to reach true intimacy. I do not want to control anyone nor be controlled. I am not looking to jump in bed with you right away. My recent experience is that this is an expectation for some men. Manners, respect,and intelligence are the qualities I am attracted to. Please don't contact me if you are fighting with your girlfriend, or are recently separated.On the first date, please do not talk about your ex for the entire time. I'd like to hear about your children, your job, your aspirations, etc.. I AM NOT SHY ABOUT STARTING A COMMUNICATION. I do not want to sustain long conversations with you on meetville. I am not 16 anymore, I am a professional, home owner and very self-confident woman, so please, if you are really not interested in me, don't waste my time with inane conversation. I would like to speak on the phone, rather than start a long *** would be nice to meet for coffee or a drink.
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Leota
Online
Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 49-59
Like a child I look at the world (and beyond) with curiosity, fascination, and a sense of awe.Shared values are far more important to me than shared interest.......... values define who you are, interest define what you enjoy. I always enjoy being exposed to new ideas and activities (I'll show you mine if you'll show me yours), who knows, perhaps I will gain a new interest,... and/or visa versa.But,.. if your values don't include: concern for the suffering of others, caring for the environment, showing respect, having empathy, feeling gratitude, developing trust, being honest, living with integrity, and kindness, it won't matter that we enjoy the same music, films, activities or food!.Of course having a sprinkling of shared sensibilities helps... oh and "Chemistry"?..... elusive at best...... perhaps a sense of connection? In my experience chemistry evolves as connections come into focus..... we each like what we see, and we both desire more and more ...... and more!!! .....well,... you get the picture.....(do you?)Caring for your health is the key to staying alive. So I try to integrate "working out" into my daily life. I start the day with "Yo-latis" my own special blend of yoga & palates. When I'm alone I often crank up some Techno Dance Music (or anything with a strong beat) and dance with abandon,...true ABANDON!Love the great outdoors, it's the worlds largest gym! I enjoy running (as opposed to "walking") on the beach, cross country skiing, long challenging hikes,(and short ones as well), mountain biking (need a new bike) riding (need a new horse). Even gardening can provide a great workout. Being in nature restores my soul and brings me clarity.I should mention that among many other things I very much enjoy the physical aspects of a monogamous, committed, relationship. Developing such a relationship takes time spent together, coming to know each other on a truly meaningful level, and building a deep seated trust for one another.
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Tai
Online
Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 50-60
I did not expect to become single at this stage of life, but I have and want to make the most of it! I miss the day to day closeness and routine of married life, and hope to find someone who desires the same, however, remarriage is not necessarily my goal. I work as a manufacturer's rep in the food industry, 30 years at the same company. One grown child. I work out ***times a week and am really into the aerobics aspect of it. I enjoy trying new restaurants, movies, sporting events, and concerts. Can't pass up the occasional game of putt putt, either. Willing to try (most) anything at least once! I am happy, healthy, grounded, reliable, and secure, both financially & emotionally. I'm a classic rock junkie, but also enjoy country - both traditional and modern, and adult alternative. I have a guilty pleasure for disco too! No drama - I don't like it - why would I expect you to? I am here with the sincerest of intentions and if you choose to contact me, would hope for the same. I have a lot to offer the right man!If you send me a message and/or an indication that you would like to meet/chat with me, and I am polite enough to respond, it would certainly be nice to receive a response from you! The "window shopping" can grow old and common courtesy goes a long way! First date absolutely has to be somewhere conducive to conversation...for me, face to face conversation is the best way to know if there is something viable happening. Coffee or lunch and conversation!