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Laidey, 51
United States, Maine, Rumford

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About Me

I'm hoping this site will bring me to someone who compliments me. I am in this for a long-term relationship, so if you are just looking to date and nothing serious, please pass me by. I'm looking for someone hard-working, passionate, compassionate, dedicated and true. Someone who is willing to compromise and also agrees to disagree. You have to be easy on the eyes and easy going. I am not looking for someone to control me but someone to console me when the need arises. If you have younger children or children who still live with you, we are probably not a good match. I am looking for someone who is at the same place in their life as myself. Children are raised and out of the house and now you are looking forward to being sponteneous. Taking day trips or week-long vacations.I am a giver and a pleaser but i truly believe that it must be reciprocated. A relationshipship can not thrive if it is not built on a strong foundation of trust, friendship, loyalty and love, so...let's chat for a bit and see if we have the chemistry to be as one! I want to find someone who makes me giggle until I have tears in my eyes, melts my heart with a smile, works to make me happy and tells me that his future is only with me! Life is for deep kisses, strange adventures, midnight swims and rambling conversations.REQUIREMENTS: You must have a picture. You must be within the ages of 40 and 55. You must have your own place and your own vehicle. I would prefer not to date a smoker but it is not a deal breaker. I do not date obesely overweight men. Please be honest about your height as well. I do like taller men.One last thing:I am single because I refuse to change my relationship status for someone who falls short of what I deserve. Knowing my self values, I've chosen to reserve a spot in my heart for a real man, someone mature enough to understand that loyalty, commitment and honesty is a priority and NOT an option. I am looking for someone who is ready for:-Uncontrollable laughter-My family-Musical outbursts-Random dancing-My friends-Sad/Happy tears-Deep conversations-My imagination-My dreams-Walks in the rain-Random texts-Lots of affection and the acceptance of the real me. I think that first "meetings" should be very casual and unassuming with no expectations. Maybe coffee or a drink and then see if there is a spark. If not, no harm done and we both move on. At the least, maybe we have made a new friend. If it goes well and we mutually agree...make plans for date #1 or extend the current meeting.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ling from Rumford | Woman | 54 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Thinking about retiring in the next few years. Would like to find that special someone to spend time with. I enjoy golfing, gardening, games, being near water...especially the ocean. I love being outdoors.

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  • Lisanne from Rumford | Woman | 52 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Hello Gentlemen,Looking for a gentleman who will open doors and walk on the street side. Can you be spontaneous, fun and make me laugh? You must be respectful of humans and animals, romantic and adventurous, enjoy the great outdoors, travel near and far, big dogs, and enjoy a great bottle of wine and good conversations.I'm not Barbie and I'm not looking for Ken... LOL!You: A man about 5’10 or taller. Thin, average, or a few pounds over is fine. It's not so much about the wrapping on the outside as the soul on the inside. Please have all of your teeth, be able to write back in proper grammar and have a sense of humor. I am looking for a friend, a companion and a lover, no games or drama. Someone who can be spontaneous, enjoy camping or a nice hotel, fine dining or holes in the wall, road trips to no where or anywhere.Me: I enjoy spontaneity, the great outdoors-- I crew for a hot air balloon, enjoy spending time with my dogs--I have an Irish Wolfhound/Giant Schnauzer X and a two year old + LabX (I still call him my puppy), backpacking and camping, scuba diving, photography, gardening and of course wine—good wine! I like to cook when there is someone else to enjoy it with-and if you want to help, it is even more fun together. I am in nursing school for the next year, so time will be quality vs. quantity-but all work and no play makes me very boring...and I don't want to be boring. Winter is here, spring is coming and it would be nice to find a nice guy to cuddle up next to or wake up wrapped in your arms.If it matters, I'm a Cancerian, not a Gemini which meetville insists.Good luck in your search, please have a photo--it's only fair! Something fun and casual-going for a walk with the dog(s). Coffee seems like an interview. Somewhere we can chat and both feel comfortable while we get to know each other a bit. The first time you meet seems a little stressful so let's reduce that factor...

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  • Azalea from Rumford | Woman | 54 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Hello . I love to do so many things its hard to remember or list them all.I really enjoy live music. Going to see some friends bands or big concerts are always fun. Ive been Geocaching for several years now. Takes me into the woods...love it. Love the mountains. HAd a camper for most of my marrige. I miss my camper...If you have a camper...that would be just the best thing ever. If you like the beach and to hang out and chat for long into the night that would be great too. or dancing or laughing at yourself or me. Thats fun. Im very easy going. Im very comfortable with myself. I go out by myself all the time..or with friends. I love my highshool boy. We have a very close relationship. He is 16 and just the best kid a mom could ask for. He rocks! Im very into sports. Love all the philly teams...and of course all the team my son plays for. I have a quiet side where I enjoy reading , or playing my guitar, drawing. I talk on a phone all day for work..so nights I like to be quiet , watch tv. or go out to see friends bands. There are so many great musicians around here, you could see someone new any given night! . I like to cook traditional food, but love to eat exotic things. I love unusual food...I can try anything. I like mild heat...but not the kind of spice that lingers for a long time..and you turn beet red! I find it hard to cook for fussy eaters. Ive had houses full of them!! If you like everything..we would get along really well as far as my cookng goes..if you love to cook..we would get along for the rest of my life..( kidding of course) but im not one to ever say no to someone that wants to cook for me.Walking , excercising , running, swimming, boating, bikes, hiking, canoes. fishing...love that all. anything fun. just the fact that someone actually wants to meet would be nice...Im not into texting for months. or sexting..waste of my time. Nice walk, drink, snack. take it from there. Please dont ask to meet me,and dont show up. And for heavens sake..its a date, not marrige or a relationship. If you are uncomfortable with dating , Please dont contact me. I am. I want to meet someone. I want to date. Im not here to txt message, I do that with my son. I sound snippy...but Its hard out here in the single world, Dont get me wrong..I know it takes awhile to maybe meet someone, and we need to chat and txt. I just have had men that went on for weeks..without wanting to ever meet. I found it odd. Well best of luck to you all. Hope your dream person finds you!

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