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I am a kind hearted true lady looking for a kind hearted gentleman. I am looking for someone who is positive and happy and wishes to be with someone with those same quantities. I don't care about materialpossessions. Yes, I know you have heard that before, but I really mean it. To spend a little time with me is to see who I am, I am as real as they can get. Don't get me wrong, I don't wish to live in a shack, eating only what I raise, and making all my own clothes. But I don't care about the trappings of 'success'. Success to me is to be able to finish raising my children to be good people, so, they really care about others, among many other honorable qualities. I also believe success is to find and treasure true joy, and to be able to spread joy. And of course, success is also to have a healthy, loving, fun, joyful, supportive, mutually respectful relationship. I am an open, honest, classy lady. I would rather be with a man who doesn't smoke or drink since I don't smoke, drink, or swear(rarely-still working on this one) I am a Christian woman who takes my relationship with my Father in Heaven seriously. I have a great sense of humor, love to get silly or goofy sometimes. I care deeply about others, and always try to respect them as children of God. I am a work in progress, and making great progress, but, like most, i have a ways to go. If I sound like the kind of woman you would like to meet, AND, you are the kind of man that I would want to meet, let me know.I need to add that I am currently separated. It has been over 8 years. I am definitely getting divorced. Just needed to clarify that. Something simple, dinner, lunch, anything that is casual and gives us an opportunity to talk. A chance to get to know each other aome more.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Marylyn

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Hello, I was married 33 yrs been single for 6 yrs, never thought I'd be dating after so many yrs. but things & people change for many different reasons, It sure is a lot harder starting over & dating than I ever dreamed..... LOL I'm shy at first until I get to know you. I am a very independent, honest, caring, & warm hearted loving person. I have nothing to hide but I do have a past & I have made mistakes in life but I'm happy to say I learned from them & I won't make the same ones. I am willing to answer any questions up front honestly even if it might not be what you want to hear that way they can't come out & ruin a good relationship. No lie stays hidden for ever so if ur honest from the start u have nothing to worry about. My friends say I'm too nice, have a heart of gold & they know they can always count on me.Im a fuller figure woman for many different reason's, some medical I have started trying to eat healthier & going to the gym was doing very good untill I hurt my foot & had to have surgery the surgery wasn't able to fix the problem & has even caused more problems & pain. So now I have to choose to keep suffering with pain or more surgery's. OK lets get back on track & to the point I like to play cards & poker, watch football on tv or go to the games. play bingo, go to cookouts, eating out, going to see a movie. Or can be happy sitting home cuddled up with my special guy watching TV Also like going to watch my grandson & Spending time with family & friends but most importantly spending time with that 1 special man. I'm in hopes to meet someone with some of the same interest. I like meeting & making new friends. I want a man that wants to get to know each other our likes or dislikes just take it one day at a time see where it goes. We may be friends, best friends, lovers, or who knows we could be soul mates or if we don't connect at all once we meet in person as long as we're honest no body gets hurt. Guy's its a big TURN OFF to me when you starts asking sexual questions before we even agree to see each other Don't get me wrong I enjoy pleasing my guy in & out of the bedroom. However there is more to life & relationships than sex. I personally believe & know for me if I'm not happy with you out side the bedroom or if there is no attraction I don't want to go to the bedroom with ya no matter how good you say or think you are. Thanks for your time & if you have made it this far then send me a message Ya don't have to be scared or chicken I don't bite. However I've been known to nibble........ ***\\\***Please***\\\***Add This***To Your***Profile If***You Know***\\\***Someone***\\\***Who Died***\***Of CANCER***\\\***Or Who may be***\\\***Suffering from it.WARNING**: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice. I would say meet in a public place for coffee or a drink of some kind, to see how u feel when u see each other for the 1st time u may want to chat & even plan a real date for another time or u could want to spend more time getting to know each other that same nite & turn it into a real date. I think both should decide together on the first date. I don't think u should set a time limit on Ur first meeting.

  • Aiko

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I like all genres of music, unless the message is negative. I look for beauty all around me most of the time. I do miss that person I have yet to meet. But have faith he's out there looking for me, looking for him. I'm in good shape. I don't diet and eat what I want but exercise often. I love God and my country. The way it's been and not what I fear it's becoming. I am kind to all people. I try to make people feel happier. If your a cheat please, I ask that you don't contact me. I've lived that life and would prefer to be alone then repeat it. What else? Love my family, like photography a lot. Love any kind of travel. From ghost towns and backpacking to vegas to some exotic beach 5 star thingy. Must admitt I've never had an opportunity to experience the 5 star beach thingy. But I can tell you I'm sure I would make the best of such a situation. Oh and by the way I'm a smart girl with a lot of ditzy moments and I have a silly/crazy/sarcastic sense of humor. When, where, what? It doent matter too much as long as there is opportunity to enjoy each others company and get to know more about each other. I have on rare occasion felt completely at home and comfortable with someone immediately, that would be ideal. But I realize this is rare and am willing to take time getting to know you. If we agree there is potential for a relationship there.

  • Tria

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Looking to DATE ~ which by definition means I would like to repeatedly see someone to determine if there is enough chemistry between us to grow into a relationship...it's just not that complicated!!!!! Oh....and if you're into being chased or stalked then keep fishin' as I'm a tiny bit old fashioned.....if you don't show interest too then I'll let it drop.I'm looking for the one smart enough to not let me get away! I need someone with enough energy to keep up with me....I'm young for my age & most think I look younger by at least 10 years....just sayin! I've decided this is my year to get myself together, I'm currently a work in progress in health/fitness/weight loss but seeing good results if you're interested....and you need to be able to keep up or challenge me! Thanks for your time.....good luck if you pass me by....please respond if I write you as it's only polite, I can take rejection as well as attention.I Believe: That honesty is always the best policy, however, it can be softened to avoid cruelty....with that said; if you don't want to know, then don't ask! That you should always be very careful about what you ask for, be specific...you just might get it! That being alone may be lonely, but being lonely with someone is worse! That everything in life happens for a reason...time & patience may reveal that reason! That having material wealth does not define who you are but it does indicate how you enjoy your life.Interests: I like to do just about anything...except jump out of a perfectly good airplane, Mountain Climbing (I'm not talking about a climb up a big hill) or to play with snakes! I'm a fan of most sports but not a fanatic...I don't follow any particular team...prefer college over pro games, but never turn down an offer to see either live! Spending time with my girlfriends! I like most types of music, as long as I can understand the lyrics...not so much rap! I love to travel...;...and any warm beaches that have sun & sand. The sun on my face, wind in my hair, an icey drink in my hand...ahhh...on a beach, at a pool or in the back yard all work for me! I like to read, watch or go to the movies...no slashers, gardening & landscaping, remodelling & redecorating, riding horses or motorcycles, boating, having friends in for dinner, dinning out, museums, concerts, plays, zoos......the list goes on!Turn Offs: Hunting...would rather see a beautiful animal in the wild or zoo than on your wall! Liars...I'm a big girl...I can handle the truth! Silence...if there's a problem, then talk to me!Who am I?: I am a survivor, strong willed, soft hearted, more spiritual than religious with a strong faith in God, intelligent, honest, independent, strong minded, curious, well mannered, sassy, a bit of a tease, hot & sexy (or so I've been told) & sure to give you a hard time. I have a pretty good sense of humor...it's the only way to survive in life. I like lazy days as well as the crazy ones...the trick is balance. I am not a barbie doll (duh take a look at the pics) or a trophy wife...and I don't want to be one (a little motivation would be good for working out more). I'm comfortable in jeans, as well as a formal gown...I prefer barefeet or flip flops over 3" heels...although the heels are great for the butt! LOL! I like my house presentable 95% of the time...I have to be organized...I might be slightly OCD...lol! I miss being the person someone wants to get home to see at the end of the day! My career was not my priority during my marriage...I am not defined by where I spend 40 hours a week although I admit there is nothing like divorce for an economic change of values! I have held many titles in my life...mom, wife & lover were what fed my soul...the others just fed the body! I am not into drama or stress...I've survived the effects & just don't do it any more...if at all avoidable!Who I want: I want the "WOW" factor...if you understan that let me know. Someone who can make me laugh, can laugh at himself! Someone who smiles a lot & easily! Understands the difference between making love & having sex...yet understands you can have both within a relationship. Likes or loves to cook...with me or for me! You must "LOVE" dogs (there's a package deal)! You must be able to communicate...verbally, emotionally, physically...don't tune me out or ***! Can you dance in the rain? Do you see the beauty in a sunset or a drop of rain on a flower? Does a childs laughter make you smile & start laughing with them? Can you place your large, strong hand in the small of my back to lead me into a room of strangers so everyone knows I'm with you? Can you catch my gaze from across a room & tell what I'm thinking... Can you hold me if I cry & wipe away my tears....and not be the one to put them there! Can you be my best friend? Can you share your heart & soul?Yes! I am looking for a long term relationship...but it takes baby steps to get things started & get to know each other...so relax & chat with me! If you're looking to chat or IM for months before meeting...then keep on looking! I expect to meet you in a pretty short amount of time to see if there is a real chemistry! None of us are getting any younger...lol! I still want ***years with someone! Not all things in life are fair...however, if you want a response to an e-mail then attach a picture...regardless of your reasons for not having one posted...only fair !Some of you are dancing on my last nerve! When I give you my phone number it's because I would like to get to know you a lot better...it is NOT so I can be a free 900# to assist you with your hands on exercise! Sorry to be crude but seriously! I'm not a prude but I do have rules prior to dating!Thanks for reading...there is still more to learn about me, regardless of how long this profile has become, so drop me a message if you are interested in learning more! Good luck to all! Ahhhh...a first date??? hmmmm...someplace where you can sit & talk, or walk & talk. I'd love to say something awesome, and original, and inspiring...but to be honest, I would like to get to know you and that means you have to talk to me!

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