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Xara, 55

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About Me

just a very special lady (talking about what is on the INSIDE..:))..,still waiting for that right one for me...certain things i look for and need,want and deserve,and none of these things are anything unreasonable or unrealistic..you kidding??...hard enough just finding "half normal" these days..:)..i AM real tired of and frustrated with always having to ,unfortunately,run into only the nuts and the wrong ones..and at times it seems finding my dream mate is only a hopeful wish..lol..BUT!!!!!....I do not give up..i keep the faith and the hope that SOMEWHERE he must be out there...:)..anyway....even though i have hope that that right special one for me IS out there..i am not expecting or holding my breath (would have run out of breath LONG ago if i did THAT..:))..so.,would be REAL nice to ,AT LEAST,run into some decent,polite,"mostly normal" at least,lol.interesting,REAL(as opposed to phony)people to hang out with,do thing with,have some fun,...a good companion...i do respond to messages that give me SOMETHING to respond to..most do not..communication style is way too important to me and one of the keys..and let me say this..i ONLY respond to messages,,,nothing else...well...that is it for now...all you need to know for now you can see and read here..need any more info...ask...now..here goes..and hope it starts getting better here for me now...so far have not been impressed by anything...lol...ciao when i meet someone for the very first time i do NOT consider that a real date...that is just getting together for the first time to see if there is any connection and any potential for a date... there are PLENTY of things i like to do for fun on a real date..,and almostanything can be fun with with the right company..i listed only SOME of my interests and things to do in the "interests' section...there are much more.....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Alice

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  • Vilma

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

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  • Aurelia

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    ME: Loves to laugh and have fun, affectionate and loving, dedicated and organized individual, honest and caring, hard-working, loves to get out and do things - hiking in the woods or mountains, cycling along trails, reading, traipsing around ancient ruins in foreign countries or walking along the beach & the surf, and giving back to the community by volunteering. Fav radio station is 99.9 (I enjoy much of today's music); fav TV shows: HIMYM, Big Bang Theory, Two Broke Girls. Other channels I enjoy: Discovery, Discovery Science, Nat Geo, Animal Planet, History Channel & Bio.YOU: ***Single unattached male, who is funny, happy, positive, well employed, capable, physically affectionate and demonstrative, likes to go out and do things - maybe not every day, but not a 'sit-at-home' type either. Life is meant to be fun!I'd just like to add...a) I expect my partner to be a positive + happy person. There is so much life to live + enjoy, from every day events to trips around the world.b) People are often astounded by my energy level - I thrive on staying active.c) I love children and animals.PLEASE CONTACT ME IF...You're a guy between 50 and 56;You must have a picture to contact me (it's only fair - you've got mine!)You MUST be looking for a long-term relationship or marriage.You must NOT have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.You MUST NOT smoke.You MUST NOT do drugs.You MUST NOT be married or otherwise attached. Going for a walk or a hike, or visiting a local fair or museum would be a great way to carry on a conversation. That's not to say that meeting a a quiet bistro wouldn't work just as well!

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