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Xara, 55

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About Me

just a very special lady (talking about what is on the INSIDE..:))..,still waiting for that right one for me...certain things i look for and need,want and deserve,and none of these things are anything unreasonable or unrealistic..you kidding??...hard enough just finding "half normal" these days..:)..i AM real tired of and frustrated with always having to ,unfortunately,run into only the nuts and the wrong ones..and at times it seems finding my dream mate is only a hopeful wish..lol..BUT!!!!!....I do not give up..i keep the faith and the hope that SOMEWHERE he must be out there...:)..anyway....even though i have hope that that right special one for me IS out there..i am not expecting or holding my breath (would have run out of breath LONG ago if i did THAT..:))..so.,would be REAL nice to ,AT LEAST,run into some decent,polite,"mostly normal" at least,lol.interesting,REAL(as opposed to phony)people to hang out with,do thing with,have some fun,...a good companion...i do respond to messages that give me SOMETHING to respond to..most do not..communication style is way too important to me and one of the keys..and let me say this..i ONLY respond to messages,,,nothing else...well...that is it for now...all you need to know for now you can see and read here..need any more info...ask...now..here goes..and hope it starts getting better here for me now...so far have not been impressed by anything...lol...ciao when i meet someone for the very first time i do NOT consider that a real date...that is just getting together for the first time to see if there is any connection and any potential for a date... there are PLENTY of things i like to do for fun on a real date..,and almostanything can be fun with with the right company..i listed only SOME of my interests and things to do in the "interests' section...there are much more.....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Teena

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    HiI haven't been on here in a while. I'm going to give this another try (not sure why...since I joined I have been on three dates {{{sigh}}}). I guess I am a hopeless dreamer... This is pretty much as real as it gets!Looking forward to meeting you.Ok, this is the update to the paragraph below...I am living such a great life but...alas...I am still interested in finding the perfect friend, mate, partner...and so far I have not...but I will not give up hope that my perfect soulmate is out there...! Just looking for that positive, upbeat kind of person to enjoy life with!I am going to put this profile together simply. I am fun, serious, tall, sweet, sometimes a little ****y but never negative, fun-loving, sweet, positive, upbeat and full of energy!!! I have played around with the 'perfect' profile but so far I don't think I have it. With that, I am interested in meeting you for just a regular give and take, good time, good conversation, just a nice time...If you would like to do the same, contact me! Hope to hear from you soon, TamaraJune 28thUpdate...I just want to ask...when someone wants to meet you, what is the proper online etiquette? ;)Ps...two more things. I have photos. You should, too.Also, pls don't contact me if you are married. You are still married even if you say you are separated. Respect that relationship until the end. I will have more respect for you if you do.;) Someone once gave me a good idea for a first date and I have embraced it for my own! He said let's meet for a cup of coffee. If we like each other then we can move forward. If not, there is no problem and we can each go our own ways. I like the simplicity.

  • Savanna

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am seeking a nice gentleman who believes in a relationship with no drama. Someone who loves kids and loves to have fun. I am not a one night stand, so, if you are looking for that, please pass me on by. My hobbies are dancing, walking, movies, walking on the beach,dining out and I always up to new experiences. My music that I love is disco because I love to dance. (I also love all types of music). I am a very caring, attractive female who believes in taking one day at a time when meeting someone new.

  • Terri

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    So, here I am again...........What can I say that hasn't already been said? I like museums, festivals, concerts, flea markets, trivia, antiqueing or just taking a stroll in the park. Oh yeah....watching movies and cuddling on the sofa is good too. I'm not big on sports but I do like going to a baseball or softball game. Any Reds game will do, whether they are winning or losing. Music is a big part of my life. ( I'm not just a member, I'm the President, Librarian and Uniform Chairman ) I love to cook but don't do it often just for me. I'd rather cook for someone special, what's your favorite meal? I love to travel, to see and do new things. It would be great to have a Travel Companion.I'm looking for someone to share my life. Have some fun, adventures and create some memories! We could start out as friends and see where it goes from there. I'm not opposed to having someone to just hang out with.I have my life together, but there's just something missing. Maybe it's you? I don't play games and I don't hold a grudge. Life is too short for that.My biggest ( non-negotiable ) requirement is that you are a non-smoker. I was not blessed with children of my own. But I have always had great relationships with the children of past relationships. Some of which I still stay in contact with. So if you have children or grandchildren, I would be happy to get to know them as well....no picture gets no response. It's only fair if I have a picture so should you. Have a Great Day!! An afternoon playing miniature golf, a walk in the park, go to a museum, a festival, meeting for drinks and appetizers,etc. It really doesn't matter as long as we can talk and get to know one another. Let's step out of the box a little. The whole "dinner date" thing is a little intimidating and nerve-wracking.

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