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Tressie, 51
United States, Maine, Poland

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About Me

Ok here it goes...I am who I am without apologies. What I look for in people is honesty. Telling lies is way too much work...you have to remember what you said and who you said it to....like I said too much work. If your cheating on your partner...you'll cheat on me and oh by the way I will tell. I work hard all day so I like to pamper myself when I'm home. I don't eat red meat, but I'm not a vegan. I'm Wiccan...a true Hippy ( a lifestyle not a trend) Love my kitty cat. I am NOT a Mother. I have baggage thats true but it's not excessive. I have been married twice, the first ended in diviorce (he cheated) the second I was widowed ( I didn't do it). I have lived alone in the same place for over 10 years. I have two successful businesses that I have cultivated all on my own, which leaves me all the time I want to do the things that make me happy. Money is a means to an end not a life endevour to stack it up...like the song says...you don't see hearses with luggage racks. I have never been accused for being high maintenence but I like things the way I like them.What I'm lookling for in a Man: Breathing, not Gay, Not a Felon, Gainfully Employed, Honest, Trust Worthy (is that one word?) Loyal but not a boyscout (haha). You can drink but it can't be a sport.. If you have children you should be a good dad but still have time to include me. Don't tell me how to live my life unless EVERYTHING in yours is perfect. Please take care of yourself...I'm not worried about your weight unless your doctor is. Oh, and one more thing...BE A MAN...if you, for whatever reason, lose interest..say so. Don't just disappear...it's rude!I want somebody to shareShare the rest of my lifeShare my innermost thoughtsKnow my intimate detailsSomeone who'll stand by my sideAnd give me supportAnd in returnhe'll get my supporthe will listen to me When I want to speakAbout the world we live inAnd life in generalThough my views may be wrongThey may even be pervertedhe'll hear me outAnd won't easily be convertedTo my way of thinking In fact he'll often disagreeBut at the end of it allhe will understand me.I want somebody who caresFor me passionatelyWith every thought With every breathSomeone who'll help me see things In a different lightAll the things I detestI will almost like I don't want to be tiedTo anyone's stringsI'm carefully trying to steer clear ofThose thingsBut when I'm asleepI want somebodyWho will put their arms around me And kiss me tenderlyThough things like thisMake me sickIn a case like this I'll get away with itAnd in a place like this I'll get away with it I'm not comfortable with the wording of this statement....What would I "Do" for a first date....I know what I'd like to do "on" an first date...but having to "do" something to get a date other than be myself....well isn't that just wrong? LOL I mean really....so I'm gonna answer this. this way....If you want to date me...ask me out. We'll have a good a time what ever we do....and if it doesn't work...well we had a nice date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

R&B Camping / Hiking Swimming American Japanese Turkish Adventure Drama
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