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Tressie, 51

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About Me

Ok here it goes...I am who I am without apologies. What I look for in people is honesty. Telling lies is way too much work...you have to remember what you said and who you said it to....like I said too much work. If your cheating on your partner...you'll cheat on me and oh by the way I will tell. I work hard all day so I like to pamper myself when I'm home. I don't eat red meat, but I'm not a vegan. I'm Wiccan...a true Hippy ( a lifestyle not a trend) Love my kitty cat. I am NOT a Mother. I have baggage thats true but it's not excessive. I have been married twice, the first ended in diviorce (he cheated) the second I was widowed ( I didn't do it). I have lived alone in the same place for over 10 years. I have two successful businesses that I have cultivated all on my own, which leaves me all the time I want to do the things that make me happy. Money is a means to an end not a life endevour to stack it up...like the song says...you don't see hearses with luggage racks. I have never been accused for being high maintenence but I like things the way I like them.What I'm lookling for in a Man: Breathing, not Gay, Not a Felon, Gainfully Employed, Honest, Trust Worthy (is that one word?) Loyal but not a boyscout (haha). You can drink but it can't be a sport.. If you have children you should be a good dad but still have time to include me. Don't tell me how to live my life unless EVERYTHING in yours is perfect. Please take care of yourself...I'm not worried about your weight unless your doctor is. Oh, and one more thing...BE A MAN...if you, for whatever reason, lose interest..say so. Don't just disappear...it's rude!I want somebody to shareShare the rest of my lifeShare my innermost thoughtsKnow my intimate detailsSomeone who'll stand by my sideAnd give me supportAnd in returnhe'll get my supporthe will listen to me When I want to speakAbout the world we live inAnd life in generalThough my views may be wrongThey may even be pervertedhe'll hear me outAnd won't easily be convertedTo my way of thinking In fact he'll often disagreeBut at the end of it allhe will understand me.I want somebody who caresFor me passionatelyWith every thought With every breathSomeone who'll help me see things In a different lightAll the things I detestI will almost like I don't want to be tiedTo anyone's stringsI'm carefully trying to steer clear ofThose thingsBut when I'm asleepI want somebodyWho will put their arms around me And kiss me tenderlyThough things like thisMake me sickIn a case like this I'll get away with itAnd in a place like this I'll get away with it I'm not comfortable with the wording of this statement....What would I "Do" for a first date....I know what I'd like to do "on" an first date...but having to "do" something to get a date other than be myself....well isn't that just wrong? LOL I mean really....so I'm gonna answer this. this way....If you want to date me...ask me out. We'll have a good a time what ever we do....and if it doesn't work...well we had a nice date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I am an outgoing woman looking to find that man with the right chemistry. Someone that wants to share some excitement, fun, travel and enjoy the treats that life has to offer. I enjoy the company of someone who can make me smile and laugh. I try not to take life or myself too seriously.I like a variety of music (top 40, hits from the 60's, 70's, 80's and 90's, pop, hip hop, some rap), theatre etc. I enjoy live theatre and the occasional movie. I like live concerts and enjoy most sports (preferably live) although I am an addict of Olympic television coverage!I am physically active and I work at keeping fit and healthy. Love road cycling, fitness classes and running. I have an active family and social life but I do enjoy quiet time alone as well. I love to eat and cook. I enjoy meals on a patio in nice weather and nice meals in the winter by a fireplace or in a cozy restaurant. I have had the opportunity to travel in the last few years and I hope to be able to see more of the world in the next few years. It would be fun to travel with someone equally interested and compatible. I have three wonderful adult children who are the most important people in my life, They have blessed me with 2 grandchildren this year. I look forward to meeting the right man for me. It has to start with contact so send me a message and let's see if there is any connection or chemistry. Somewhere reasonably quiet so we can relax and enjoy a conversation. A glass of wine, beer or a cup of coffee would be lovely.

  • Adena

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Hi, I am looking for my best friend and lifelong partner. I enjoy gardening, traveling to the beach to relax or to Vegas to party. I like to cook, go bowling, ride to the park, gardening, music. I am someone who is honest and loving and want someone who is the same. I hope to find someone who wants to talk to me first thing in the morning and last thing before bed, a true friend who really cares. I have no drama in my life. I am a true optimist. Maybe that's naïve but I always find the good in any situation. I am looking for fun and adventure, hopefully with someone forever. Laughter is so important and sometimes you just need to act like a kid. I am really a curvy girl but that was not one of the choices. Send me a note if you want to know more. I look forward to hearing from you. My first date would really be a meeting to talk and see if we connect. Anywhere quiet. I do believe there must be a spark to move onto the first real date.

  • Julieta

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am described as a friendly royal, fun, sweet, spontaneous, love all the detail.I try to surround myself with positive things and try to avoid negativity.The family and friends important to me. I love to laugh and enjoy because I love the live.I went to different countries.Food: American, Barbeque, Cajun/Southern, Caribbean/ Chinese, Fast food, French, German, Greek, Japanese, Korean, Mexican, Seafood, Southwestern, Spanish.Indoor activity: Cooking/Culinary arts, Movies/TV, Music, Opera/Theater, Reading, Restaurants, Shopping, Sports.Movie: Action/Adventure, Cartoons, Comedy, Documentary, Drama, Musical, Romance, Western. We should meet at a nice place (coffe shop) where we can talk get to know each other

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